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when she wants and he does'nt

April 30 2010

Ok, here's the deal. She wants to swing...he doesn't - how do u get around this? Does she submit to his wishes and forgo her explorative desires? Does he suffer her curiosity and get to resent her ever afterwards? How does a relationship move forward in this situation?

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RHP User

16 years ago

Well your situation is deep fried. I know it well. You cannot change a person's mind about this stuff. They have to reach the conclusion to get involved in swinging themselves. So, she can never again experience the delights of multiple partner intercourse taking a compromise on the chin for his benefit.. or she can do what she likes behind his back and potentially risk all. Discretion is obviously critical but no doubt you will get caught out eventually. Frankly, all you really need is a good defence. :p (ok.... fact is, I'm listening to Fiona Apple sing "criminal" at this moment.. lolz) Hugs Stalky

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DonnaBrett

16 years ago

In a nutshell...it WON'T WORK !!!! Pure & Simple!!

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RHP User

16 years ago

I agree with Donna_Brett. I suggested it as well... he said no, I said goodbye. Sweet D

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RHP User

16 years ago

If you want a mediocre sex life, like this person you mentioned.......

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RHP User

16 years ago

Funny i thought it would be the other way around, it is usually the male who wants it, and the female is either talked into it or they are keen anyway.

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