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whats the next step

June 04 2010

so ive just been dumped, as the guy i was with has to go away for 3 or more moths for work. its been a week and im doing the normal post break up things like crying and eating comfort food,my questain is when im ready to stop walloewing what should i do?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    when i broke up with my ex, and my ex ex broke up with me after 4.5 years together.. was really difficult for me... what i did was just kept exercising, keep my self occupied with things to keep my self busy. went out with friends alot, they really helped me! set yourself a goal.... prob not as serious as mine.. but I am planning to run a marathon this year... and everything is going on track so far =) and i've never been happier too!! so good luck with everything, your attractive / good lookin, so u will have no probs finding someone!! it's a bit disappointing that he dumped u even though he is only going for a couple of months!! but look things in a positive way, it's probably better this way, instead of finding out him cheating on u while away, it could be worse then! hope it helps!! good luck again!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Not sure why a relationship would break up if he/she was only going away for 3 months. That really isn't a long time and believe us it goes quick. Maybe he just didn't want the concern or the stress of keeping the relationship going. As to when you get back on the horse again is when YOU feel ready. Don't miss an opportunity to be open and ready for fun, life is short :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Everyone goes through a bad patch after a break up, that's how things are. I've been through a particularly bad one, but I got out, and I just kept on going. If the guy dumps you don't let it get you down. Life is like that, all you can do is keep on bouncing and not let the bad stuff keep you down. I'm sure plenty of members on this site, myself included, would love to try and cheer you up, if you gave us the chance.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'penniandpound' Not sure why a relationship would break up if he/she was only going away for 3 months. That really isn't a long time and believe us it goes quick. Maybe he just didn't want the concern or the stress of keeping the relationship going. As to when you get back on the horse again is when YOU feel ready. Don't miss an opportunity to be open and ready for fun, life is short :) my partner was a guy, he has to go away for 3 months in one place then over to sydeny for god knows how long, i was thiking id go visit him in sydeny if he wanted to see me, however at the moment hes not answering any of my messages or anything

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey doll, don't wait too long cos sometimes the longer you spend grieving the harder it gets to get back on the proverbial horse. Rally your friends around and head out for some fun times. Going dancing is great because you are moving your body and stirring up some happy hormones which leave you feeling great. WHen you are shining like that, people notice. Have fun Best wishes WILD

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    You should go where there are lots of guys to lavish attention on you. Get out with a girlfriend or two, dress up in something tight and a top that has the cleavage effect of the one in your pic and enjoy the guys falling over themselves to get your attention. If the guys do't fall all over you, walk out of that gay bar and go where the heterosexual ones are! Girl YOU ARE HOT!! With your looks, a bit of the right atitude and confidence you can own any place you walk in to. Can't believe the dope did't beg you to wait for him instead of dumping you. He must be young and stupid.... Get active, get out there and have fun!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Go out with your mates, have fun, and enjoy being single for a while. I like to use my single time to do things I usually wouldn't, and to meet new people.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    start goin out now and every possible moment u have- lifes to short to rust in your cottage:):)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    what i find annoying is that i was just checking my messages, and some guy asked for my real name and if i was hot, now im not saying im super hot or anything but i do have a pic up , when i told him i wasnt going to tell him my real name, he then said i seem like a stuck up bitch and he wasnt going to bother. hmmmmm.however im all for going out with my girlfriends and having a good time, but alot of the guys over here arent really worth the effort