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whats expected???
June 15 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Seedy underbelly. hang on a sec, nope...no belly button fluff. Not quite sure what you mean, do you think some gangsta will kidnap you and use as a ghetto whore?Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thats happened to me TWICE Nev! (Mr)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thats happened to me TWICE Nev! (Mr)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sitting next toFocus on the couch and she said I have full permission to pimp her out to you......... since you did mention Ghetto whore!
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RHP User
15 years ago
we are generation Y and as we said very new, we have read swinging 101 but I still have an image of a musky 70's "house party" and the bowl and keys (seedy element). but the more we look into this the more I know that its not. we are keen to get in and give it a go, just curious about starting out and common expectations and how to go about it (to get the ball rolling). is one on one meetings with a couple better or parties/clubs
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RHP User
15 years ago
we are generation Y and as we said very new, we have read swinging 101 but I still have an image of a musky 70's "house party" and the bowl and keys (seedy element). but the more we look into this the more I know that its not. we are keen to get in and give it a go, just curious about starting out and common expectations and how to go about it (to get the ball rolling). is one on one meetings with a couple better or parties/clubs
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RHP User
15 years ago
Is there anything seedy about a key party? I have never been to one, think it could be a hoot though, anyone holding a retro key party?....lol As far as parties v small and intimate goes, I think it really is a case of horses for courses, some people like to do small and intimate some like parties, some like both.You could always try both and see what suits you best.Personally we (Kj and I) never did parties, she enjoys small and intimate.Cheers Nev.....good luck and hope it all goes well for you both and you have a great time.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mr Foreverlove,....living the dream hey.....lol Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
We were to very nervous when we started and while we cant say we have gone to partys we prefer to meet one one one and are lucky enough to say we have had nothing but great experiances ( exept for the odd one not turning up and the odd girl who turned into a guy when it came time to meet) with Singles Guys ,Girls and couples and wouldnt at this stage dream of giving this lifestyle away ,we just wish we had more time to play more lol Rewgards Deb
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RogueGeek
15 years ago
We found the club a bit confronting at first. CL is much more comfortable talking to people online or via mobile befor meeting them face-to-face, and it is easier to vet people using the site that when you're sitting around mostly starkers in a dark room (or even fully clothed in a well-lit room!)A wise man once told me:Stick to paid member that are verified and have good validations; that are willing to let you see their face and talk to you on their mobiles. Then you know they are genuine and won't fuck you around.Feel free to message us if you just want another perspective (we are still in our first month on RHP) - happy to share our experience.Cheers,MS & CL
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RHP User
15 years ago
We have been along to Mikes when open and CI .. they were well run but can be tough for newcomers.It would help to go along with another couple or two maybe so you dont feel like you are fresh meat sitting all alone.. :)The organisers at these clubs will always introduce you around so you dont feel alone also .. that helps a lot.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Seedy underbelly.... lolz... sounds like a reality TV show in the making!!Depends what you call seedy... I mean.. if you mean seedy as in sleazy.... then yeah.. there's plenty of that... some more so than others... if you mean seedy as in Dirty. Something filthy. Someone filthy.... then yep... I'd have to say some of us fall into that category too... some of us even search for it.... Now... I'm not sure what you're looking for.... but there's going to be a couple somewhere that meet your desires... not everyone is attracted to everyone else... and that's often a point of contention with couples in particular, as one partner can be attracted to someone else's partner but their partners are completely disinterested.... You'll see. It's more difficult than you think and the best strategy is to go with the flow, as in... don't have any expectations... and don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want to do... When I say go with the flow... I mean the flow of your libido.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Where an I find one of those gangsters Nev?HUgsStalky Quoting 'CarlosSpicyWienr' do you think some gangsta will kidnap you and use as a ghetto whore?Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't know, Ask Mr Forever he's been there twice.. Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
They mostly get you when you least expect it.......Be careful, mother flippin gangsters are everywhere. Hahaha (Mr)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'shyandwants2play' we are generation Y and as we said very new, we have read swinging 101 but I still have an image of a musky 70's "house party" and the bowl and keys (seedy element). but the more we look into this the more I know that its not. we are keen to get in and give it a go, just curious about starting out and common expectations and how to go about it (to get the ball rolling). is one on one meetings with a couple better or parties/clubs Here's my two cents worth, Whatever you do, don't rush it. Take your time. I reckon you need to be comfortable and have enough in common with the people you intend to swing with to have a "so called - meeting of minds" - you'll know when it happens believe me.Steer clear of pushy & demanding types, unless you are roleplaying or what that sort of attention.Also there is a club out in Wangara - seems like a bit of fun.. . Happy to take you along in introduce you around....
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