RHP

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M64

what type are u after

August 06 2009

hi guys a survey  in britian has found that most women are more turned on by the male with the not so hot body ie the hard body  the bulging abbs the metro-sexual man but rather the male with the extra padding thats caring good humoured grounded etc would be interested to know where the aussie woman stands on this

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    But I have always found I prefer tall, thin men.  Hard bodies etc have never really appealed to me, but can appreciate the hard work that goes in to them. Kind men with a good sense of humour and intelligence, are the ultimate.

  • kassmebits

    kassmebits

    16 years ago

    I like my partners to have a good sense of humour, looks dont do it 4 me! at all

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    So what your saying is I should put the 9 kg back on that I lost late last year, oh hang on I wasn't having any more luck then anyway..think I'll leave it as is. Then again, not exactly got women throwing themselves at me now, I'm not exactly in either category...mmm...what to do. I think the fitness wins though, much happier being fitter.Same would go for women. Sure I would prefer a slim woman to one that is badly overweight. But I would also prefer one that is fit and a bit overweight compared to a stick creature that calls herself a woman.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'freogirl66' But I have always found I prefer tall, thin men.  Hard bodies etc have never really appealed to me, but can appreciate the hard work that goes in to them. Kind men with a good sense of humour and intelligence, are the ultimate. oh boo, and here I was thinking ya liked me freo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    To be honest i like women who are: 1. attractive 2. dumb 3. and so on... I know it sounds very bad, but pretty girls give men headaches/grey hair in no time.... :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hi Maxwell691Personally, if you can engage my mind, then my body will want to follow suit.  Type per say, is irrelevant.  Yes, there has to be a small amount of physical attraction or chemistry to start with, and that's only personal preference, but ultimately, it's your presence, charm, attitude, cocky sense of humour, CONFIDENCE, manners, personality, or willingness to be open and engaging, that makes me want to meet you outside of the cyberspace environment.  If you are rude, ill mannered, selfish, thoughtless or disrespectful, then you don't stand a chance with me.  You will no doubt, get blocked!I once "dated" a man whom I met online, not this site, but another, and he was Mr Universe material, from a physical point of view, and some years younger to boot.  Initially I thought what the hell do you see in me, but he persisted, we eventually met and had a good time.  However, during our few days together, I noted he was constantly self-absorbed with his appearance, and always checking out his own reflection whenever we passed a mirror or window!  He wouldn't stop seeking approval and fishing for compliments, not only from me, but from total strangers as well.  I could not believe the size of his ego, nor did I attempt to compete with him.  A lesson well learnt!Perhaps we should lower our expectations from a physical point of view.  There is so much more to an individual than the photo(s) we submit, or the profiles we write.  We are sometimes too quick to judge people in this one-dimensional environment; and we are doing so without the benefit of body language and hearing tone or speech patterns etc.  There is more to your potential playmate, than just their physical appearance or a really "hot" photo!   I am not seeking another Mr Muscles stereotype, nor am I offering you an Elle McPherson prototype; far from it actually.  And anyway, I don't really think our libidos care too much either - ROFLMFAO  :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I've read ozrockchick's profile before and had a laugh that she has the same sort of 'if you engage my mind then my body will follow' attitude on her profile that we have for me on ours rofl.Couldn't agree more with her statementPersonally, if you can engage my mind, then my body will want to follow suit.  Type per say, is irrelevant.  Yes, there has to be a small amount of physical attraction or chemistry to start with, and that's only personal preference, but ultimately, it's your presence, charm, attitude, cocky sense of humour, CONFIDENCE, manners, personality, or willingness to be open and engaging, that makes me want to meet you outside of the cyberspace environment.  If you are rude, ill mannered, selfish, thoughtless or disrespectful, then you don't stand a chance with me.Cheers n 'ugsMrsP

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    :-)