M48
what happens if you find love
September 18 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes it is is possible - woody and I met on here nearly 4 years ago. Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Aptly named nada! :D Do yourself a favour and call it infatuation rather than love. It's easier that way...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was a little like you OP, and after I'd thrown my hands in the air and said that's it... I met my gorgeous man in the WA chatroom. Like Woody and Pusscat, 4 years later and we're stronger than ever. I know personally three couples who have married after meeting here, and another engagement was celebrated last weekend, so yes it happens.Viking
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RHP User
13 years ago
But you can find love anywhere...( my bestie met her husband in the carpark at Hungry Jacks whilst they were both with other people !!! ) ... apparently it finds you...its all about timing, rite place, rite frame of mind, planets aligning and still believing in love....which I still do...I still believe the trick is not to look for it...and be open to it.. and this person at this time of your life...well you just werent meant to me..its really that simple
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RHP User
13 years ago
Frigging iPhone
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes.
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RHP User
13 years ago
... can come biting at your bum from anywhere; yes even on a sex site. Hope cupid finds you :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's as likely here as anywhere else you spend your time, thats the beauty of it, one day it just turns up and blows you away !
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RHP User
13 years ago
yep it finds you if you look to hard .............usally doesnt work
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am sorry things didn't work out for you OP. I know it can hurt like hell when love walks away. I have met a number of couples who have met through RHP including VikingBitch and her partner. Don't discount the possibility but as others have said, don't expect it either. I have become attached to two men that I met through here and while those relationships didn't last for various reasons, there were some brilliant moments.
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RHP User
13 years ago
you find real love then you are indeed very fortunate,perhaps you did find it, but it obviously wasn't reciprocated.Should you search for love?Of course, because it won't find you while you are sitting on the couch watching the footy. Continue to be proactive in your search ,go out into the real world as well as talking to women on sites such as this,just don't be too desperate,women don't like desperate, it scares them.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I believe in one way or another we all want to find love. Why not here? I think on here most people are upfront what they want in the sexual department, and when we are honest this is where it most fails in relationships. So I think we are on a good path, don’t give up, I don’t, I am single since 14 years after I lost my husband, I can only say in all this time I grow substantially in my mind and I know more then ever what I want from this last stage in my life, and one, is a partner with whom I am in union about my sex and sensuality. I attach something I found . Hope you like it. There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout:This is me damn it! I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel, love the way I love! I am a whole complex package. Take me... or leave me. Accept me - or walk away! Do not try to make me feel like less of a person, just because I don't fit your idea of who I should be and don't try to change me to fit your mould. If I need to change, I alone will make that decision.When you are strong enough to love yourself 100%, good and bad - you will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you. There is so much love out there, just open your heart and someone will find you. Litonya
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey Mada26877It sucks ...but you just have to start licking again..corny but trueI have been single since 2009 and on this site as Funtasy99 since Jan last year.....the guy that introduced me to RHP is a jerk but I stayed on as a single and met some great gals and guys .........a few months back I met Readytogo79..we both work away so it was a few weeks before we met.....It was hot and its real and neither of us need to change for each other.......it is just the way it should be and we are grateful.....its got to be mutual otherwise you aren't being true to yourself........we have all felt it ...just be yourself and she will find you...Mrs Lustful
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RHP User
13 years ago
You found love, she did not. That's life, it won't work unless you both find love. Yes it is heartbreaking .... you will survive.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Best thing about love is you can find it more than once my friend
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RHP User
13 years ago
That it didn't work out for you this time. That person didn't stay because you need to be free for the special one that is coming your way. Every life lesson makes you stronger and a learning opportunity is never wasted. You can look back on things that happened and realise that they did, in fact, happen for a reason. When love knocks on your door again try to savour it one day at a time. Live in the now and don't get attached to an outcome. Let it grow naturally because if you do that the foundation will be much stronger.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Don't be angry don't be sadDon't sit crying over good times you hadThere's a girl, right next to youAnd she's just waiting for something to doAnd there's a rose in a fisted gloveAnd the eagle flies with the doveAnd if you can't be with the one you love Love the one you're with
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'slippery_halo' Aptly named nada! :D Do yourself a favour and call it infatuation rather than love. It's easier that way...
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RHP User
13 years ago
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RHP User
13 years ago
Exactly what you make it...Love is everything you define it to be...Love is everywhere, but only you can feel it the way that you do. So to answer your question, hell yes it's entirely possible to find love on a sex site. I might add, it has been found in some of the most amazing circumstances, but then again love is amazing.
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WHY_NOT_LOOK
13 years ago
yes found love on here... years ago... lost it so im back not really looking yet... but agree find love at the corner store or a sex site no different... takes time to heal thou
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RHP User
13 years ago
Considering the message for a hook up on Friday night.... You sure it was love?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Considering the message from you on Friday night for a hook up.... You sure it was love?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sometimes when we are vulnerable emotionally, we can misinterpret the signs - ie if you or the other person are down and either one consoles the other, it could be mistaken for something more, so it is always best to get a reality check and realise what sort of site you are on, otherwise you may be headed for heartbreak, the other person may not realise you are falling in deep, even though initially both jumped in with eyes open wide. Sure, it can happen, and what a wonderful thing but be mindful of what type of site it is, a lot are on it to attend to their physical needs(which sounds cold but that is a fact), but with that can be respect of others needs and wants etc, it doesn't necessarily have to be wham bam thank you mam/man, sort of a relationship in a way even though no strings attached, some people may have been in bad relationships before or quite simply getting over the pain, but want their physical needs attended to. Who knows maybe she was spooked for a moment, given time she may get back to you, only time will tell, in the meantime, either take time out or re evaluate your time on here, ie. emphasis on fun
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Yes it is - very possible!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
You go for it! And it has just as good a chance of bringing you happiness as love you discover anywhere else.
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RHP User
13 years ago
aggree with MsVelvetblue...... love does find you...no need to search.....found my soulmate here.... and I wasn't looking......well I was doing a bit of perving ...lol ... and she is one hot ......but also a wonderful person full of life and spice...and I am very lucky to have met her......
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