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what drags you back ?

June 21 2011

Had a friend of late who left RHP and then came back , popped her head in just to look around ......... not sure if she will stay. I too have left , kept profile open then popped back again..So simple what made you leave but also what brought you back ?.Dont expect a rush of replies but interested to hear what you leavers have to say for yourselves!Brae ............

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Sometimes I like to see how close to the fire I can get without getting burnt ! . I try and occupy myself with other more vanilla pursuits but I miss chatting to my RHP friends and reading the forums. . The only problem is that I occasionally run into an absolute gorgeous man and my mind starts to wonder... . Hugs Saturn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The first time I was on this crazy site I was intrigued & curious,met a couple of guys,had a bit of fun.Then......found the forums when they were really fun!Meet & Greet drinks nights began and I met some great women as well.(No, I am not bi)Formed some fabulous friendships with fellow forumites.Became dis illusioned and no longer curious with the men.It appears many here form their own opinion of people who post on the forumsand do not bother to get to know the real person......so the forums lost their appeal.Time for a break..Strangely,I found I did miss the fun & witty banter of the forums so I returned a few months ago.And discovered the fun & witty banter had nearly disappeared as well..The forums are what differentiates rhp from other sites,that can be good and bad..Men here seem more interested in chat.... to me it seems a lazy way for them to get their rocks off.Men on other sites will actually meet,treat me as a sensual sexy female and actively pursue a fun friendly relationshipbased on me and them.....not just a sex toy and not just based on words and comments seen here..Bit of a double edged sword isnt it....lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    He misses us big time. Huggs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    And the fact that other sites are just boring. This is my second time back and once again at the stage of wanting to call it quits but the instant posting rights are all that are keeping me here right now. I never bother with searching profiles just head straight to the forums, which can be good and bad. But there are quiet a few brilliant and funny posters so I have to hang around and get educated :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Although I don't contribute as much these days. That, and the hope that maybe someone will look at my profile and decide they might want to contact me and that there may be a connection. I rarely search other profiles these days, too many cock shots that I can't view and profile builder content. There's no point in even lookinhg at them due to the amount of effort (none) that's gone into them.Procrastination when I'm working at home too. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Krissy_G' I guess RHP has become part of my life (gawd that sounds so pathetic) Nice photo Krissy, Your photos are getting very good!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The forums keep me coming back Brae and the forum friends I have made along the way. . . And if I didn't have JustEnough telling me every few weeks that anal sex is bad for me... I might just forget. Thanks JE xx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We seem to end up taking breaks here and there due to things like work,family,friends and just life getting soooo busy that planing to meet people and get out to events just becomes a chore.......but once things settle down its great to come back and meet some nice, hot, horny, open minded people that want to share some no strings sexy fun :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Forums = food for the brain :)Friends = fair dinkum souls who treat other people well and make me smile :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Good topic, I think it gets boring sometimes in here to be honest..Then you take a break and it gets abit boring away from here too.. Sometimes the topics get rehashed...or there are agendas.. Yes some will say that i am the boring one ..!! lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Or just the downright bitchyness? Love them both equally, confession time, yes i do I love the characters and although i was once very much in favour of "a fuck is a fuck" the lovely thing i took away with me when i left nearly 6 months ago is that i met the most intelligent, sweet, generous, gracious, kind, thoughtful, down to earth, open, honest and damn sexy, sensual and sublime people in real life. I got to take some of them into my real life with me when i left which i really didn't expect. That we would have something in common other than sex has been a pleasant surprised. I'm very fortunate to have shared this time with them and miss them terribly. But there is still msn and coffee and dinners out and if i'm really fortunate, we are welcomed into their homes which just blows my mind. This whole experience has been WAY beyond my expectations.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I will say though that it's a VERY small amount you get to take with you when you go.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Mr/Ms editor....to make any sense of the posts people need to see ALL of them...not just the follow up P.S ones (unless of course they are severely offensive in some way) Just a hint. Can i have your job? xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'goodgirlssayplz' Mr/Ms editor....to make any sense of the posts people need to see ALL of them...not just the follow up P.S ones (unless of course they are severely offensive in some way) Just a hint. Can i have your job? xx Well it was a mistake but your doing caused mis understandings as well. With a partner 99yr old, 60 years your elder, no photo, hardly what you would call a high standard. lacking crediabilty??? A profile like that is a bit suss? Just a made up one?? Put yourself in their shoes, How many fake profiles would you think RHP would have to deal with? Is it good for bussiness? Primary it is a sex contact site which is how they make their money and in turn supplies the resources for a free forum. So profiles should make some attempt to have believable information! But also question why RHP approved those ages as well, so some staff training may be required. Hey welcome back. Be Good now!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You do raise some very good points though, i just didn't think it was really much use in "advertising" since we are no longer playing. Hence the lack of pics, info. etc... Quoting 'JustEnough' Quoting 'goodgirlssayplz' Mr/Ms editor....to make any sense of the posts people need to see ALL of them...not just the follow up P.S ones (unless of course they are severely offensive in some way) Just a hint. Can i have your job? xx Well it was a mistake but your doing caused mis understandings as well. With a partner 99yr old, 60 years your elder, no photo, hardly what you would call a high standard. lacking crediabilty??? A profile like that is a bit suss? Just a made up one?? Put yourself in their shoes, How many fake profiles would you think RHP would have to deal with? Is it good for bussiness? Primary it is a sex contact site which is how they make their money and in turn supplies the resources for a free forum. So profiles should make some attempt to have believable information! But also question why RHP approved those ages as well, so some staff training may be required. Hey welcome back. Be Good now!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Why is it that so many forum topics seem to be disappearing lately? What is going on? xxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'Why is it that so many forum topics seem to be disappearing lately? What is going on? xxMeeka I have noticed that too, forums closed down 3-4 days ago and comments still appearing in my current "my stream" Thought RHP had a way to ban me from specifuc Topics...lol (got thinking how are we going to gate crash that!) Funny you develope a feel for them and think...thats sailing a bit too close to the wind and a couple hours later topic gone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well jumping back to the main topicAs someone that has joined here as a single then in a cpl and back to single againI must admit i have that met some good friends thou not playmates from here i can only comment my personnel reasons for coming back again and again and again.Ok well lets get over the usual guy things of perving on pics and in the camroom (it gets boring after a while), there's the flirtation fun and teasing that goes on in the forums and chatroom in words and in actions. to me just trying to follow the theme can be fun sometimes between others with the guys trying and the girls tantalizing them even more with out showing to much, i just sit there pissing myself with laughter as this goes on. then there;s always the case that we all live in hope were all here for fun fun fun!!!BeauOh yeah and well with all the cock shots on the site i thought my pic was a little more interesting now that why i changed it for a bit of fun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Why is it that so many forum topics seem to be disappearing lately? What is going on? xxMeeka I know! I was hoping my whinge about men not liking to fuck might round me up some trade! ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    But I didn't see anything wrong with the last few topics that were shut down. How do you know if you have written something too risqué? RHP editor ... do you let the offenders know? JustEough, hahaha. Can just imagine you thinking that there was a conspiracy against you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Girl' I know! I was hoping my whinge about men not liking to fuck might round me up some trade! ;)Exactly, I thought we did very well in that topic PBG. Who got it shut down?xxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I wonder when a thread gets shuts some must be mis behaving, maybe a suitable punishment would be Meeka with her strap on and no lube! lol. Thats should settle things down.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'MrsPeachypear' Quoting 'goodgirlssayplz' Mr/Ms editor....to make any sense of the posts people need to see ALL of them...not just the follow up P.S ones (unless of course they are severely offensive in some way) Just a hint. Can i have your job? xx I'm pretty sure the posts are approved in reverse order... dunno why. Hugs ya... Mrs P Also consider instant posting and delayed, but entered on the forums on time written. So of course nothing will follow as if having a conversation or at a party. I have a theory that instant posters see posts before others as well and therefore act as mods! Hows that!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    MrsP What I think happened was Goodgirls changed their profile name and made up a unbelievable age if you had her on your friends list you would have been alerted to who she was via "my stream" and your friends list changing. On another thread I had GoodGirls come on on and call me names rather than just staying on the subject, then I looked at the ages which was b/s, no photos, and a locked profile and sent a note to RHP saying this is a very poor quality profile, poor form name calling ...not a party type attitude and asked RHP if this was the standard they worked towards on their website. Then went to another thread and reconised her style, blew her cover ..lol.. and reliased I had just made a mistake. What you are seeing above I think is RHP deleting a profile and all that profiles postings, and then reinstating nearly everything. As the posts are still deleted from the thread where I asked RHP to look into the standard of that profile. Surprises can go wrong! And look forward to her sometimes cheeky comments that are allways wrong!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ....it's hard to keep away from a forum in which everyone has the same common goal....to talk about sex and relationships. It's a level playing field in that everyone can contribute in some way, whether it be from experience, a story or simply an opinion.....or even just wishful thinking. . Personally, rhp is a break from the daily schedule of sense and sensibility . And before Morticiaaa there was OneBrightStar....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Morticiaaa............ are you really OneBrightStar?? Never picked that up, except that I still love your posts. xxMeeka