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what do you want in a woman

February 18 2013

sex

Following on the other post re dominant and emotional smarts. What is it you men are looking for on RHP , why do you come here?   what are you looking for in women on rhp, and offline. do they differ?   what quality turns you on in a woman? Are we meeting your expectations?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Mmmm what do I want in a woman?? To start with one that responds to my messages lol. I joined RHP as I was led to believe its for like minded sexual people who are looking for NSA fun. What turns me on intelligence and confidence and someone who is prepared to let themselves go in the moment and not afraid to express there sexual desires.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I may frigging learn something         Settles on couch, hand in popcorn (buttered) and munching

  • NudesRus

    NudesRus

    13 years ago

    My Penis !!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Love Fun4some comment   Damn that was my next line

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    The reason I am on rhp is to find someone with a libido that is not hidden under a bushel or ten and is comfortable with wielding that libido without fear, games, trickery or malice.I am not looking for forever and ever, I am looking to rediscover my sexuality after it was buried in a sexless marriage, but I'm finding more to it than that, and that is going to encompass more than one woman or couple or wherever it goes, it's a voyage of discovery so the goals are less clear.But the women of rhp and like sites are more likely to understand that and be amenable to it as they may very well be on a similar path.What turns me on in a woman ? The two biggies are healthy and fit (that does not equate to athlete or model okay !) and competence.I really admire can do women, hopeless and pathetic leave me cold.Other qualities are open mindedness and awareness of themselves and the world we live in.Expectations, hmmm yes in that I have met an amazing fwb who I just know is now a lifetime friend no matter where our individual paths lead.Disappointment in that many of the woman here seem to have a very narrow and shallow set of parameters that they confine themselves with.But that is probably just sour grapes on my part as the range of experience I seek is pretty broad and in some areas unrealistic ! (age)Online/offline is pretty similar but offline is a much more drawn out process as the respectable image has to be delicately peeled away to reveal the true desires. Online most wear their desires on their sleeve so it is more straightforward.I am what most label a "late developer", married late, kids late, self discovery late ! But better late than never.Like parenting, I believe my maturity has made it a better more complete experience and I am just loving it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'fun4some' My Penis !!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Nicholson when he was asked what made a woman good in bed, he answered - being there! Gotta love him.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    for getting this topic going   you lurkers now is your chance, to tell us women what you want and yes have a vent   your turn now

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Honest? Open? I have joined this site as I am sick of meeting women in the real world at pubs or clubs that are drunk or on drugs, u pick them up so to speak only to find no connection n boring sex after some of the alcohol wears off or they r coming down off the drugs! I just want to meet women that r honest n straight up and open, n feel a connection, well at least attraction! Turn ons for me personally is a women that takes care of herself n takes a bit of pride in her appearance! N say again honest!!!! Turn off's r 3 inches of makeup on tits hanging out n a mini skirt! Lol It's nice to look at don't get me wrong but keep your private bits private it comes across to me as desperate n will fuck anything that looks twice!! Major turn off n first thought is slut!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ... integrity, femininity, sensuality, and a damn good sense of humour and desire for fun.I wrap it al up and call it "sprite".She must have..... sprite. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    DG,the female equivalent of FANTA.....fukcing awesome norti thinkers anonymous.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Someone I can be 100% myself with from the outset. Most women I've met at a pub/club etc are afraid to talk about sex. Not during first conversation, but relatively soon after. Apart from that, I'm looking for a woman to explore and indulge my naughtier side with. Hasn't really happened yet but I'm certain that's because of my shortcomings re-approaching conversations rather than the lack of quality women on rhp. Although Adelaide is poorly represented compared to other states I must say

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    my profile in the section looking for... you will have a small idea of what i am looking into a woman. Also last but not forgotten in an other thread I clearly describe some extra preferences like armpits, no gossip and etc which re essential .I think most important to myself is intelligence, good sense of humour, very cheeky and very romantic and the list could go on for many many lines. I don't care much about how she looks although I do care if she looks after herself and knows how to dress up in general. Thus for real life(offline women).As for rhp..... I have only one word ; None. Of course here are some of the hottest women than I have ever seen in real life and the examples are so many, however sexy and beauty is two totally different looks of a woman, according to me always.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    When I think of the answer, my heart moves fast er tan my mind. Pride in her appearance without hiding behind it. Intelligent, with a passion for life, not just love. Some one truly in touch with their inner child . Someone who accepts me , and brings out the best in me, as I do her. : )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    what the heck...some of the things I like, and in a completely random order are:spunk and a cheeky attitude...wears sexy lingerie or underwear...does not judge me by my looks...loves animals...likes being taken control of in the bedroom...and will talk to me the next day...Does this help you in your survey

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Someone to enjoy life with. Travel the world. Go to events like Concerts, Festivals. Get up to naughty thing ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    None of anyone's business who is fucking me. Lmao! And Bump! Love the topic TR.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    confident, strong yet accepting of chivarlly. (none of this feminist bullshit)   humour, dry and black   sultry   and must know at least one form of spanish/latin dancing (its all about the hips baby) moohahahaha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Come on OP.... You're asking a lot. Prying a male mind out of the cave is a challenge at the best of times. I'll take bets most who answer don't even know what they want apart the obvious.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    From 16 years ago, senual, seductive, intelligent, beautiful & a wonderful friend too. She was amazing, wore the most wonderful erotic lingerie I have ever seen, had the softest touch and smacked just hard enough to make the hair on the back of my neck stand up. The things she had me do with fruit and the way she loved chocolate body paint.   She was elegant company at dinner and the conversation flowed evenly and smoothly between us, a wonderfully balanced partner, friend and lover.   I never realised she loved me until I was moving far away, I was single, she wasnt but in an open relationship (confirmed) and bi-sexual. I regret to this day not being with her.   I imagine a fair few of us have such regrets..........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    when i was here as a single, i tried to only meet women who were 'ladies'...ie feminine and knew it, but not 'over the top'...dont like tarts, dont like bitches, dont like manipulators, and most especially dont like women who behave like singles...when they are not. i sought friendships with women who were single, available and who were willing to at least form a 'friendship' before falling into bed with me....'easy' women just dont do it....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    TR   This topic reminded me of another one way back in 2011 about the same sort of thing. Believe me that thread went down hill and extremly amusing very quickly...the guys on this one are at least (the majority any way) giving constructive comments.   If you would like Im happy to post a link to the tongue in cheek requirements of men and the perfect woman...hahahahaha (apparently Im not her)   Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'mikeandshel'when i was here as a single, i tried to only meet women who were 'ladies'...ie feminine and knew it, but not 'over the top'...dont like tarts, dont like bitches, dont like manipulators, and most especially dont like women who behave like singles...when they are not. i sought friendships with women who were single, available and who were willing to at least form a 'friendship' before falling into bed with me....'easy' women just dont do it.... Quoting 'mikeandshel'when i was here as a single, i tried to only meet women who were 'ladies'...ie feminine and knew it, but not 'over the top'...dont like tarts, dont like bitches, dont like manipulators, and most especially dont like women who behave like singles...when they are not. i sought friendships with women who were single, available and who were willing to at least form a 'friendship' before falling into bed with me....'easy' women just dont do it.... as i am toooooo easy, that cuts me out! Bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Sexy, confident, easygoing, unashamed. A bit of a freak but not psycho. Someone with great chemistry.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'christos13' my profile in the section looking for... you will have a small idea of what i am looking into a woman. Also last but not forgotten in an other thread I clearly describe some extra preferences like armpits, no gossip and etc which re essential .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I hardly matter in the scheme of things....here or elsewhere, lol,.I'm.all the way over the other side of the continent.....plenty more out there for you to fuss about..... Besides, I found my dream gal and married her.....- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Women want a dominant male.. That is it..