what are the rules?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I would be more than happy for people to say they have met with us.  It is hard to find real genuine couples on here so a word of mouth would be a good way to cut the crap and give us the opportunity to meet others.   We figure that if we like a couple, then chances are the couples they have played with will be of interest to us too.  Obviously not all the time.   On the flip side we wouldn't pass on info about someone else unless they said we could.   K.

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  tamworthguy46

  16 years ago

  Well i suppose if someone was saying something nice about someone else, That is probably not going to worry anyone !....On the other hand, if it was something negitave i would imagine that would cause some friction. I recently had someone off RHP who i had met with a couple of times, talk adout part of our experience in a forum.And someone sent her a private message asking her who it was ?.....She in turn sent me a sms asking if it was ok to tell, I in turn knew this other person and said it was ok to tell.......It was nice to be asked, and i would have asked to ....so everything is sweet......Forums probably arn't a good place to kiss and tell on though.......unless your trieng to warn people away from a psycopath or something ?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I agree with Kilee with regards to other couples. She's 100% right. Couples are usually happy for other couples to know that they are real and genuine and word of mouth can cut down on time wasted looking.   I know of a swingers site overseas where couples who are already known to meet up & play can report back to the site (with no negative or positive comment) on other couples they've met. The site then puts a gold star on your profile which simply means "these people are real and they do meet up to play". Once you have your gold star, then you too can report back to the site when you find other couples who play... and so on. Seems like a good system to me, and no need for any negative feedback.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I've always been a never kiss and tell kind of guy.... right through high school, and beyond. You'll note that whatever I say that Ive experienced, I have not given names.   As for who is genuine and who is not... well I place little faith in the verifiecation system... I thnk it's easy enough to write myself a reference if I wanted to.   Hugs Gaz

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I like to know who ppl have met, doesnt mean I need to know that they also slept with them. Two different things to me. Why be secretive who your friends are, just means that they are real ppl.   xx Miss Honey xx

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  while i often speak about my experiences....i rarely give names...unless it is one of my close friends and its common knowledge that it was them i played with.Oh..and names are given if we are on cam...not much point not saying who it is when everyone can see them!But i think...asking first is just good manners...and dont say anything about someone you wouldnt want said about you.Just my opinion....BJxxx

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hiya all,I actually I ask someone from this site because I am more interested in what they are like as a person then the chatter they are because we know how fake alot of people are  Its just that alot of people who chat, actually are different from what they are in person. I don't need to know who has slept with who tho,,, bugger that I guess I am an amateur person studyer and think there must be more to life than chat and am really curious as to what sort of people chat here and what makes them tick.PiercedP.S. I don't mind people asking if I have met so and so but if it gets repeated what I said then watch out, trust factor here as well

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