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what are the averages...

June 22 2011

sex

Hello all, now before I get to the question at heart, those who have a moral issue with what I am about to divulge “yes” we know it’s could be wrong “yes” we could get burnt and “No” we don’t need you to reiterate that but thank you. Briefly - Both Married to others , been together a little over two years ,call it what you will - F#ck buddies or lovers but she is my confidante. Met through a site for the sexual need of another and our sex is amazing, erotic , adventurous , we are fulfilling fantasizes and now moving into fmf and couples – not found the right one yet but there is no rush. So there are : one night stands…stands to reason …one night Meet , greet, shag… heard the average is 6 times ( could be over in 6 days or 6 weeks) F*ck buddies…no dam clue ….would this be the same as a booty caller lol …so how long do these arrangements last ? Lovers… or should I say sexual lovers as would be prevalent to this site….saw once in this forum a women claiming 10 years that she had a lover on he side .. ? Sexual affairs? What’s the average…how long do they last ?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    God, I would hate to be average. :( xx Meeks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I really don't know what that says. I mean .. usually I can scan it and get a gist... but man... you're hard work. Still it was worth dropping in the house to check out Meeka's bum. :)How long do they last..... well... if we're talking mathematic averaging here... I'd say approx 45 minutes tops.HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It depends on the two involved. My mother has been seeing her married lover for ten years now so I guess two years is only a new relationship. I have been seeing one for 18 months. Each one is different and I guess some can last a lifetime.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Good Question loverofk There is a old joke which you have probably heard before .. What's the difference between a wife and a lover ?.....Answer ,about 45 minutes !.. But on a more serious note I think you were asking .. What's the average time a affair can last before it burns out ?...well ,I think there are many different types of affairs and I suppose it depends on which one are you in or looking for ? There is the ... Serial Affair ..these types have NO emotional attachment and are usually one night stands ..Duration ..One night !..lol Flings ....these types usually go on for a few months and just used for sex ,we know it as fuckbuddies and there is no emotional commitments ..Duration....6 times and the eye starts to roam again... Romantic Love Affairs ....these are were the lovers have a medial degree of emotional evolvement but not to serious to both ,but both know that its just sexual and has a expiry date....Duration 18-24 months Long Term Affairs ......these last for years and sometimes the whole course of the lovers marriage,a high degree off emotional involvement and can run parallel to the "real" marriage ....Duration ...10 years or more ! Which category do you fit in ?.....lol.... Hope this sheds some light and answers your question K

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I've been seeing a friend with benefits for 10yrs, he is married, i'm not. And another friend, i've been seeing for about 6 yrs now I think, he was married, now divorced. Our friendships are important to us, and we have fun. I really dont like one night stands, i think sex is better when I know his body well etc, but thats me, everyone is different, I really dont think there is an average. Whatever works, works .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I've had one semi-regular playmate for 7 years and counting, went on a mostly hiatus when we both had partners in the middle.Another playmate 10 months. I guess it comes down to what you can get away with in the time available to you and if your wants are still being met. There are no rules. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    On the occassion, the heat, the other things in common. Some are perfect for a quick visit just for giggles and others for an "arrangement" I had a lovely "arrangement/friendship"that lasted a year and I still have myself a dear friend which i never thought i'd end up with