unexpected endings to play meets

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Has happened to me a number of times! Newbies often have a "hard" time performing when they are not used to the scene. Stage fright! It's quite normal really, and has nothing to do with the Mrs or whether he was attracted to her or not. In fact, I bet the guy feels awful & embarrassed right about now. I would message him to say it was all okay! You are both new to the group scene too? Cause believe me you would know that this situation isn't unusual, and that's okay. A lot of us women think a bloke will get a hard on by just looking at a hole in the ground, but apparently it's more complicated then that. LOL! Oh and for future reference, some guys may not always come either in group situations. That doesn't mean that they don't love what is happening or that they are not very turned on... Every man is different, and so again it is not because of the Mrs or anything she has or hasn't done.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Sorry, I am assuming that all three of you were new to the group scene. Apologies if that isn't the case.

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  On_Safari

  12 years ago

  You're so encouraging. That's great!! ~ thumbs up girlfriend~. xx

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  yep nerves kills a play many a time when another dude is involved. its very common. Fortunatly next time he tries he might be less scared :) If you ever feel like giving it a crack again, just drop us a line :)

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  Mr_Invisible

  12 years ago

  Its nothing to do with the woman... its the mans issueI've been in that situation myself and felt embarrased tooNot usually with couples... but during a gangbang situationI was fine when recieving oral from the lady but when I got to the other end I was unable to perform.Once I was in a couple and we invited another man along for the ride... he too suffered the same fateSo I slipped out to the kitchen and fumbled around in there for awhile getting drinks and making myself scarce.. .when I returned the party was back on in ernest and everyone had a great timeMaybe next time get Mr to slip out for drinks while Mrs encourages the man to perform... worked for us

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'Meeka100' Newbies often have a "hard" time performing when they are not used to the scene. Stage fright! It's quite normal really, and has nothing to do with the Mrs or whether he was attracted to her or not. In fact, I bet the guy feels awful & embarrassed right about now. I would message him to say it was all okay!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  My first and second meets with couples was so nerve racking! It is quite hard to meet all expectations maby guys should bring a back up hollow strap on or something? Just an idea - Posted from rhpmobile

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  1playfulcpl

  12 years ago

  mate its not her just nerves seem to get the better of some ppl we had 3men in a row do the same the wife thought it was her an wasn never going to play again but we have had better experiences since then its all about how the fun is going an how comfy they really are in that situation

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  👍👍 That is all.....- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quite some time ago, a lover and I organised a threesome with another g she had seen a couple of times. Everything went perfectly. The look on her face was spectacularly beautiful as she really let go and enjoyed all the sensations. It was quite prolonged before he came, but once he did, he jumped straight into the shower, came back to the bedroom where she and I were still fooling around and just said he had to go and walked out the door. It shattered her confidence. Although I know it is an ongoing fantasy of hers, mmf is definitely still off the books because of this experience. I have never had a rede some end that way before and I thought it was quite bizarre. It still makes me a little angry that it ended that way and how it made her feel.

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  Playful2looking

  12 years ago

  Cool reply Meeka.. stage fright in a threesome as in Mfm or Fmf is understandable because the third person is coming into a relationship where the other players are comfortable Example they have a long term partners who know their way around each other's body; where as the extra player is on the outer. This is why some single females may not show up at all where as the male will generally show but may get stage fright on the night. I guess for couples try and find the person you wish to play with then play a couple of times until the situation becomes more natural. We have a guy that joins us when we feel like a threesome we are good friends now and the sex is better. the first couple of times things were a bit uncomfortable and the sex was a little rushed . Now we take our time and have a great night. but that might be just us find what works for you.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Prior to discovering RHP, I convinced hubby to get me a male "escort".. All was well and we were very very keen.. However, when he arrived he was so nervous that he stripped of immediately in spite of the fact we were still dressed and then came in like 5 minutes.. After 15 when he couldn't get up again and spent way to much time trying to work out were to touch me whilst touching himself, we gave him his money and sent him on his way.. We felt so bad for him that we paid him the whole hour.. I think someone thought it would be a lot easier to sell himself..   The lesson's we learnt.. Lesson 1 - Always get a photo (he wasn't what I pictured a PRO to be) Lesson 2 - Check that they have had prior experience Lesson 3 - FORGET THE HOOKERS AND GO TO RHP.. Our time here has been short but we love it..

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