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u last how long??????
September 24 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
1. once a week sometimes twice 2. depends ive had times where we go for 30 mins a nice quicky for 5 mins (dogging :P) and a few times with couples ive done all nighters where we've gone from night to morning for atleast 6 (the best!!) 3. 8 months (uni woot!) ....with lots of masturbating to make up for it!
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RHP User
16 years ago
my hubby starts getting grumpy when its been 2 nights, should i feel bad or tell him to toughen up. i usually do the latter and he apologises the next day for being a dick but it still makes it hard.1. honestly how often do u have sex?Pretty well every day, up to several times a day when we have the time to ourselves and rarely go without more than 2 days... last night was only night 1 lolol.2. how long do u have sex for?Sometimes, a quickies on the books...other times we can spend all day at it on and off lol, but rarely, need both the time and the inclination lol... and then there's all the variations in between...3. what the longest time without sex? and previrginity doesnt count.Speaking for myself... no longer than a week or two pre-marriage lololCheersMrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
1. honestly how often do u have sex?Well atm since I have a fb staying here evry day sometimes twice a day2. how long do u have sex for?Most often between 30 minutes to an hour. Sometimes a bigger fun session that lasts a couple of hours or more and then sometimes when pushed for time a quickie 8-15 minutes3. what the longest time without sex? and previrginity doesnt count.13 months from memory. Least amount with a partner was 13 times in 12 months. Then the relationship ended.
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RHP User
16 years ago
answered in the confines of our relationship: 1. for the first 5 or so years pretty much at least once a day up to as many times before one or both was just too sore to continue! Haha we were kinda sex obsessed. Then things slowed down for a few years to between 3-7 times a week. Then work, study, travel time apart etc made for time poor, tired little pups so around 2-3 times a week now - is this a slow slide into a boring sex life? NO WAY, more of our precious time is spent bonding on different levels now making for a more loving relationship 2. quickies are common but as Mr Pup is the original Energizer Bunny marathons are often the order of the day. 3. Mr Pup at the end of his "other" serious relationship became a born again virgin for over 3 years - oh and this was of his own choice and his energies were spent on getting to know himself - of course during this time every gorgeous woman he met threw themselves at him - big hint for all you guys whinging that you can't get a root - just say NO, it works wonders! Since Mrs Pup started her sexual life she's only gone without when her partner is away and like Shaunnny she makes up with it pleasing herself. Charly...why no sex when pregnant - we're both looking forward to horny pregnancy sex!
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RHP User
16 years ago
My answers are just too varied to be able to answer this with any sort of brevity... So I won't. However, I have noticed that I, too, start to get grumpy..... & pissy & grouchy & cranky & angry & testy LOL after more than 4-5 days without....even if I masturbate every day (which I do)...after day 4 I'm climbing the walls :P
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RHP User
16 years ago
Since that day I have not gone longer than 3 weeks without sex with another person (for clarification). The 3 weeks has only ever been while in a relationship as well. When single and the longest time for that was 1 year in the last 20. I only went 2 weeks without any sex. There wasn't many repeats and I even knocked a few back. The one's I knocked back were bloody good the next time. Knocking back makes someone want more. When we get into the massages, oral and moving around the house, up to a couple of hours (doesn't happen to often now with a little one). Generally about 1/2 hour is the norm now. Usually get a blow job and a root once a week on average now. Not enough in my books, this is why I'm allowed to play. puppy - pregnancy sex was the best. I miss pregnancy sex. That was 2-3 times a day and 3-4 times a week. And talk about wet.
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RHP User
16 years ago
1. honestly how often do u have sex?Normally once or twice a month. If i have a regular play mate or partner, daily2. how long do u have sex for?Sex as in intercourse or sex as in time spent playing with partners body?Depending, playmates involve flirting and playing before intercourse. All in all about 2 - 3 hours, intercourse wise with playmates 3o minutes - an hour.Casual hook ups are general chat + sex, sex time alone 30 minutes - 1 hour and a half depending on prior stimulation. I would like to make a side note here stating that by stimulation i mean both mental and physical.With a committed partner....and assuming there's nothing else i have to do that day, basically as long as we can. My last girlfriend use to spend a lot of time with me, at the time i didn't work weekends so i had a lot of energy, i have fond memories of waking up at 5am (normal wake up time) and not getting out of bed until 2 - 3pm. Ahh i miss that girl. Don't miss the drama though.3. what the longest time without sex? and previrginity doesnt count.After my last break up i had a 11 months off sex completely (masturbated nightly however). Came off that...3 weeks ago. That's the longest for me.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Once every 4-5 weeks..lol....he never feels like it and always too tired,,,,,,,I often sugest it but im slowy giving up,,any ideas anyone?.He doesnt have a problem getting it up once he does feel like it though...(i know he often wanks,ive seen him but he dont know,,lol)Im no model,but concider myself to be in good shape and told im attractive,,,,,what could it be,,lol I know theres no one else,i feel so deprived so i joined this site,(ive not met anyone yet)but i know i will get alot of bad feed back from some ppl,and im preparing myself for that..lol.. I also come on to read the forums i find them interesting and makes me relise what im missing,,,,
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RHP User
16 years ago
How often:When I can get it: but with most of my partners at least once a day, but there is always that honeymoon period ya know, that 4/5 times a day if you're being lazy.How long:Half an hour is average an hour is more likely and in my dutch ex''s case: she wouldn't cum through penetration without 2 hours of solid pounding. My real nasty recent ex's (it was a bad relationship) complained that I went to long. She was all after 10 minutes - it takes me ages to cum. Ya can't winnem all I guess..Longest time without:6 months: I think if I couldn't masturbate, I'd have taken my own life: I masturbate probably 5 times a day if I have a day off because in my city, the women DO NOT put out.
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RHP User
16 years ago
i had absolutely no libido when pregnant, u can go one of 2 ways either super horny or stay the fuck away.i also had giant babies, and im not really very big, so it didnt make for very comfortable sex when we did. im making up for it now. hehehso from the responses about half an hour is average. with the occasional marathon or quickie. love quickies at times, with 2 young kids sometimes its all we get.we had a deal if i gave him head everyday for a month he would pierce his nipple, i did it, so he did. unfortunately the piercing didnt agree with him .
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RHP User
16 years ago
My hubby only wants it every 4-5 weeks...... Says hes too tired cos hes getting too old for it ( hes only 46).......... Im up for it 2-3 a week,im told im attractive and curvy ,so i have to make do with the vibe.lol.....
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RHP User
16 years ago
1. honestly how often do u have sex? i am staying with my fb and the sex with him is unreal 2. how long do u have sex for?i love to go for hours 3. what the longest time without sex? and previrginity doesnt count. i havent had sex for along time
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RHP User
16 years ago
As you might know, Ive been married since 1986. In that time libidos rush and wane like the tide so these questions are kind of irelevant. What I will say is that there was this one particular time where I thought "Hmmmm I'm sick of always instigating sex in this relationship... I'm going to abtain and see just how long it takes for her to respond"... Sadly, I was a complete sticky mess within a week. Tissues lined the office floor and I could hardly touch my dick it was so sore from wanking. She was completely stoic.... as if nothing had happened. As if she didnt even notice that I'd gone on strike. It was devastating experience. I've never been that silly again. Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
times all the above comments by 2....we are in a polyamory relationship so i am very very very tired..lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Can't imagine a day going buy where we haven't had sex. It has never been any longer than 2 days without us going at it. Previous relationships for both of us was where the other partner was happy if you skipped a day or two or three. He used to think there was something wrong with him and I thought the same ( our other partners made us feel as though there was something wrong with us and that we we sexual deviates). I will always remember his comment to me when we first met was that he had never met someone who could match his need drive and enjoyment. Just luck I guess to find a compatable partner. Time varies from the quick morning one because the clock is ticking to the all nighter when it is the week end or we have just visted C.I. or he has had lots of rumbos lol. Longest time without was with doing it only once a month for 4 years and that was with my ex, that's why he is the ex. lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
1.rarely have sex,but really wish i could catch up with a woman who would like to...bundynat.... get a hotmail or something so i can contact you... im totally interested !!!! 2.Love the foreplay.............ill go forever 3. Been a very long time....... hoping bundynat wants to change things soon.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yanno Gaz , tried that a couple of times ; Doesn't work ! It's great to get out and explore some variety . yanno role playing and taking turns in theme & location has a lot going for it .. reguardless of frequency . Some hot moments make up for the mundane if each is prepared to make an effort & get into spicing it up a bit ... Watever you're fantasy .. :) Ans. consential biweekly releif .& weekly themed workout .
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RHP User
16 years ago
1. honestly how often do u have sex?3-4 times a week. I would be happy with once a week but like your DH mine wants it every night so I compromise in the middle lol2. how long do u have sex for?Mostly around 30minutes3. what the longest time without sex? and previrginity doesnt count.2 weeks- and that was just after I'd had a baby
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RHP User
16 years ago
1. honestly how often do u have sex? hard to put a time frame on it very lucky if i get it 2 times a month wank 1-3 times a week would do more of the real thing if i could 2. how long do u have sex for?30 min would be tops can take an hour to get permission 3. what the longest time without sex? and previrginity doesn't count. 14 months :(
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RHP User
16 years ago
Answers 1. honestly how often do u have sex?Usually at least once a day, but often twice a day. 2. how long do u have sex for?Between kids and work it is usually quickies, 10-15mins with a couple of longer sessions each week. I would love more sessions and longer sessions lol. Greedy I know.... 3. what the longest time without sex? and previrginity doesnt count.About a week lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
1. honestly how often do u have sex? Not often enough2. how long do u have sex for?i have discussed both of these with some friends but i imagine the answers from all u sexual deviates will be quite different, hahha.my hubby starts getting grumpy when its been 2 nights, should i feel bad or tell him to toughen up. i usually do the latter and he apologises the next day for being a dick but it still makes it hard.oh i lied 1 more question As long as the girl/s in question let me go for. I tend to find that anything over 30 mins will take its toll on the girl and hinder any chances of a repeat session any time soon. 3. what the longest time without sex? and previrginity doesnt count.we went about 6 -7 months when i was pregnant. i swear hubby was ready to rape and pillage. 2 hours is too long for me but it would probably be around 8 months (final year of uni)
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RHP User
16 years ago
how often??? not enough how long for??? usually last about 30-45 mins longest without?? right now it has been 4-5 months not a happy man right now hahaha the longest I ever lasted was 12hours I had to finish it myself with pain going from my balls deep into my abdomen and my cock was in agony barely any skin left hahaha
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RHP User
16 years ago
how often???Not often enoughlongest without??Now........far too longhow long for???All night with the right partner
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RHP User
16 years ago
1. Once a month or every other month on average with an FB, if I have a friend with benefit, it's once a week or every other week. 2. Well, if actual penetration, I tend to get bored after 5 mins. If you include foreplay, which is my favourite thing, add an extra 15 mins on average. I've never actually had a boyfriend to have sex any more often. 3. Six months.
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RHP User
16 years ago
1. honestly how often do u have sex?Well...it depends on whether or not I have someone at home or nearby....but usually...when I have a fb....at least every other weekend. 2. how long do u have sex for?Um....depends. The first go is usually short and hard and sweet....then the ensuing times are more lengthy and experimental. Like Cassava....I too love foreplay...all that stuff I did before I was fucking...and could happily spend hours pleasuring and being pleasured. Actual intercourse....pretty much til I cum is good....after that...I gotta say....I lose all enthusiasm! (But if I get to settle down...doesn't take me long to be good to go again!) 3. what the longest time without sex? and previrginity doesnt count.I would have to say that it was YEARS. Not that I minded really....you learn to go without when you have other things taking up your time (I'd just become a single mum). Even now...I'd rather just play without taking my pants off...unless I'm with someone I feel emotionally connected to.I don't fuck just for the sake of fucking.Just my opinion....BJxxx
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