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October 08 2012

hi as a pre op transexual girl ,and wondering what the future holds for me ,,,id like to know ,how many people ,,guys and girls who would accept a trans person as a life partner or permanent lover ,,,id dearly like to be in love again ,,,am bi ,,,ans financially secure ,,,,i think i have a lot to offer ,but only seem to attract people that want a quick tranny experience ,,,or am i destined to a life of chastity ,,,,as im not into quickies ,,ideally i like a regular ,boyfriend or girlfriend ,,,hugs and xxxxxxx catherine ,,,,,

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RHP User

13 years ago

I don't really have any advice, but just wanted to wish you much luck. As a RN I work with several transgender men and women and I have a lot of respect for how they deal with every day challenges. Big hug! xxx Mia

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RHP User

13 years ago

Hi Catherine, I have absolutely no idea except that as always it would depend on the person and if we had a lot in common, yada yada yada. But... why the fuck not!!Hope you find what you want! And when you do... tell me what the secret is because I clearly haven't found the secret forumla. LOLMeeka xx

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RHP User

13 years ago

If the chemistry was there, then there is no reason why it shouldnt happen.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Sometimes it is just difficult or seemingly impossibe to find what we really want.But I am ever the optimist and believe that all things are possible,if we are open to new experiences . I am interested in the person regardless of age or gender , for me attraction starts with the mind,my experience of relationships with women is fairly limited but I would never say never My ex housemate is a trans girl and she has been in a loving relationship with a woman for six years.For two years it was very difficult for them as my friend's partner lived in New Zealand but she moved here three years ago and they are incredibly happy.

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RHP User

13 years ago

I think that each to their own on this one, some people will be open and others not. I think the main thing here to remember is to be true to yourself, those that wish to join your journey for a reason, a season or a lifetime will do so because of the person you are, not the body with which you possess.

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RHP User

13 years ago

For it to be any other way would be unacceptable in my mind.

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13 years ago

Being post and having your birth certificate and pass port changed is the easy thing. Sometimes life can get a lot harder when you are trying to live stealth. Unfortunetely there are going to be many heart breaks along the way. You can get on famously with peeps and then when you feel confident enought to tell them about your history they just ditch you and shut you out. That causes soo much hurt. Fortunately there are some truly amazing people out there that accept the person and not the facade. very few and imbetween. Wishing you all the best. xxx Krissy

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RHP User

13 years ago

cant answer the question but i would think NOT .. But i do know another Transgender from here who i reckon is a fucking cracker ... she knows who i am talking about ..mates for life Yeah

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13 years ago

Quoting 'wowwow11'cant answer the question but i would think NOT .. But i do know another Transgender from here who i reckon is a fucking cracker ... she knows who i am talking about ..mates for life Yeah

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RHP User

13 years ago

Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'I think that each to their own on this one, some people will be open and others not. I think the main thing here to remember is to be true to yourself, those that wish to join your journey for a reason, a season or a lifetime will do so because of the person you are, not the body with which you possess. That's what I meant to say.

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