Cheekyarses

Cheekyarses

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to swallow or not to swallow

August 27 2012

This topic has probably been discussed many times before - but I thought i would ask again...What is it that men like about women swallowing, or cumming all over their face or body? And how many women or men out there like swallowing, or do they prefer to spit it out?

Comments

  • jandv

    jandv

    13 years ago

    For men i think its a visual thing to see him cumming on the body/face and as for swallowing, it feels REALLY good AND back me up here guys. Its the best feeling sex act !!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I cant give you a good answer but for me it is a mental turn as much as anything. It still feels just as good if i cum in som tissues or on the bed or wether but the thought of being swallowed is my big turn on

  • Verangia

    Verangia

    13 years ago

    I always swallow after receiving a healthy load ... why else bother blowing them to orgasm??

  • playful4u

    playful4u

    13 years ago

    From a guys perspective it is a visual experience and making eye contact during the act is a turn on. Yes, the feeling is amazing when you cum and a willing mouth is there to finish you off until the end, accepting and pleasing. I agree it is the best feeling sex act, providing it is enjoyed by both parties. Two mouths are even better Quoting 'jandv'For men i think its a visual thing to see him cumming on the body/face and as for swallowing, it feels REALLY good AND back me up here guys. Its the best feeling sex act !!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    It's a great feeling when you can unload a thick, heavy load into a girls mouth. Can't put my finger on it as to why, just something really organic and natural in a very sexual way about it. Over the face is more of a visual porn style thing I think, looks great...just got to find a girl that will like the idea of licking my own cum off her face, then deeply kissing her after. Really want to try that one haha.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I reckon its horses for courses, but of course a bit of training goes a long way for both. Time is our destiny remember.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Apparently it also cures morning sickness. (hehehehehe)

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    13 years ago

    Most likely for both parties. In or Out, it's all good.

  • m3bmw

    m3bmw

    13 years ago

    If a man is willing to swallow all your juices while he is going down on you, then its only polite to swallow, or at least spit it out discretely. Jizz aint battery acid you know, kinda rude to spit it out like a dirty loogie

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Psychologically it feels pretty awesome.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I love it because it means the girl is really into you. A girl who isn't really into the moment is hardly going to swallow, I find it a very intimate thing and so a massive turn on. I'm not going to begrudge a girl for spitting but it means so much more if she swallows. Its very rare though, so never an expectation. I have zero interest in coming on a woman in anyway. I see it so much on porn and I just get nothing out of it at all. Obviously it has to be done in a play situation but I'm really not a fan of it.

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    13 years ago

    It does feel great.I'm not so much over the face,it a little to much like a porn movie. When a woman swallows for me its like an intimate act,she is giving me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    im definitely a swallower but love it even more when i clean it out of a nicely filled pussy yum i just love to have the cream pie i love cum in all its forms

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    When a women is giving me fantastic oral and doesn't stop until she has swallowed it's so much better because you can just really enjoy the pleasure without having to stop and think "shit! shit! where is this going?!!!....ahhh nooooo tissues weren't on standby (squirt) bah! its on the blanket!" Or worse yet you lose the feeling and have to start all over again.Also for the coming on the face - for me it's a power thing. I do enjoy being a on the more dominant side of play so doing that is big tick in the power box for me. Mrs Cheek hasn't made comment. I'll see what she thinks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    if a guy is willing to go down on me, then it is all a part of giving him a blow job to swallow or take it where he wants to put it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    There is a majority of women out there that cant stand cum in their mouths, which doesnt make then a bad lover. Mrs L can't stand cum in her mouth but gee, she sure knows how to entertain a guys cock in other ways, and sure does love it all over her sexy body. My point of view on the subject is, The feeling of blowing into a willing mouth as they look up at you as if to ask, "Did you enjoy that?" is Devine. So if the lady isn't a swallower, but knows how to entertain your cock, and to cover her body in cum after it, is also a Devine experience.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    why stop half way through the act why build the guy up to say stop & spit or not take it at all esp if as my fav is to go 69r its give N take. & i love to take as much as i give let me go down on a girl any day ill keep going till she cums & then some so why not expect the same from her & as for her just doing the job on me when that time cums its ladies choice i say as long as she gets you there its all good if she swollows or not hope to hook up soon naughty_lg

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I don't really have preferrence. For me the experience as a whole does it more for me over what happens at the end. So swallow, spit, or me catching it in my hands, I'm more about mutual pleasure.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    But I have never, and I mean never, tasted any guys cum and thought it was good. Each to their own, but thats my opinion, however I do enjoy the swallow, as a gift to you, I do find it very sexy to please a man totally, so yes will do it. (without screwing my face up :) Those of you who liken it to if its good for the goose... well if your spunk tasted like me, that would be awesome.

  • Aussie_SS

    Aussie_SS

    13 years ago

    Another subject that would depend on each person, I have had girls say i taste nice compared to some previous partners they have had. A diet low in bad fats, Guys need good fats for hormone producton, and carbs for energy pineapple juice is said to add a sweet taste to cum. So spitting could be cause you taste bad, or the partner does not enjoy cum swallowed.   Its like me saying every girl has licked and loved my balls, My friend has only had that happen once and she told him yuck shave your balls, so i give a lesson on keeping them balls hair free if you want them sucked on. Not saying a full porn star look but keeping it presentable compared to other parts of your body hair etc. So that could also depend on the person or if the girl enjoys doing that at all.   This thread made me think of a friends cousin one day saying at a wedding that he will never ask his wife to suck him off, he does not want that image of her in his head and that is his way of having more respect for her but that is his comments and alot of ladies and guys will agree or disagree.   But in the end, my thoughts are if the girl likes to swallow i will enjoy seeing her swallow but sometimes banging and blowing inside her are a turn on aswell for many. Its sex i love variety, variation & spontaneous actions so a quickie in public might need a cleanup with cum being swallowed ; )     If im into the girl i enjoy going down on her, but have friends that wont kiss a girl down there, for me it depends on various topics above but i do it enjoy it with the right partners for sure its a craving and i have had an ex gf say the same about giving me blowjobs she just craves it.   thats all my thoughts, got to head back to work and start taking the train instead of driving to work my energy should not be typing when single lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    If I love the guy I'll swallow - its all about showing how much you care really isn't it?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I've only had 2 ex gf's that swallowed. Others have tried but didn't like it, others was just out of the question. One of my ex's liked to swallow but hated me cumming on her face. Sometimes she would surprise me by continuing to suck when i told her i was cumming. An another ex, who was a hot older woman (i was 23 and her 42) with a delicious body loved it when i came on her face and even moreso in her mouth. Buth there are not many things we didn't try together. She had such a hot ass and to my delight, she loved ass play. But apart from that, it's quite hard finding girls who actually enjoy swallowing and not doing it cause they feel 'forced'

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    even thoughi am an overly hedonisticpleasure seeking GENTLEmani don't understandthe psychological obsessionsome men havewith wanting women to swallowpersonallyit does nothing for meunless i can seethat she genuinely enjoyed itand was not coercedimagineputting a womanin such a situationwho does not want to be there.what an anti-climax.