this is not Facebook or twitter people!!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I get the same too...I get friends requests from guys that have not even sent me a flirt! My friends list is rather short...all but one are people from the forums as I love what they write and keep up with their posts! I too have seen guys and girls profiles with friends in the hundreds....no way am I going to say yes to them just to make them seem more "popular"! I would say easily I reject around 20 friends requests a week and it does get annoying! xFunlovingx

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Just as an aside...I dumped the friends list entirely and don't do validations. Not unlike FB or some others, I prefer to keep my friends close enough to know who they are and the rest is no one else's business. What with me being a genuine sensitive new age guy and all, it's a strange world out there... | ...and I do worry. | | I can only imagine what it must be like for the ladies...glad to here it.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I get it all the time but I like to make sure I know all my friends. Well at least I have met them all....I think l CM just love roasting a good S.N.A.G.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  i cant figure these people out when they send the requests andyou dont know them at all I did ask this question at a meet and greet from rhp ages ago,i was told that guys send out these request for friends because when woman look at their profiles and see that they have a hugh friends list they getout a lot and are popular with couples and woman so they must be safe and good in the sack I also fell in to this trap my man and i invited a guy over who had a hugh friends list Well to cut it short we found out that he hardly knew anyone on his friends list and he was a dead root in bed and as about as dull in conversation as a dead person So nowwhen we meet and greet we ask these guys if they have a hugh list if he knows them all and we will be checking

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I do not accept any friends that I havent spoken to and clicked with, I dont see the point in having a huge friends list. I dont care about appearing to be popular. I once had a request from a guy with something like 513 friends! No thanks! I take quality of quanity any day. Going of track a bit - I am new to rhp and just dont get why some guys constantly click on my profile? If they like what they see, why not just send me a message or flirt? What does it mean when a member does this? Any insight to this would be most welcome. Wannabyummymummy - sorry if im stealing your post!!!

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  wannabyummymummy

  14 years ago

  these are what we like to call 'window shoppers' they will constantly browse your profile with no apparent reason and watch them run a mile if you send them a flirt LMAOi like to send the 'i notice you notice me and now I've noticed you' flirt it cracks me up they usually respond with a positive comment or they don't reply and block you and you never see them again so either way a win really.I don't understand the train of thought that more friends makes you look more popular, when i see a HUGE friends list i usually just a keep on a goin, nothing to see there not of interest to me how many 'fake' friends you have not even of value to me how many REAL friends you have i am looking for a connection between me and the person in question that leads to awesome sex!!!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  thanks for the info? Still dont understand why though? Guess it is one of the many RHP mysteries lol I actually find anothers friends list irrelevant, as you dont know the connection they have with each other.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  but isnt this a 'social networking' site? ahh......fudge....lol....yea we get wanker invites.....have quite a few hundred we havent even looked at...and many many more we've rejected....but they keep on sending them, bless their little hearts...

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I think it is more about if you put someone on your friends list they think they will have a better chance scoring a meeting with someone as a lot of people wil go check out the friends list when they are checking out someones profile, we have had a few requests from guys lately who say they saw our profile on someone elses profile. bothtogether6

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I get about 20 requests a week AT LEAST and most of the time from complete strangers who haven't even messaged me... I have met and know EVERYONE on my freinds list and wouldn't have it any other way.. I don't have this written on my profile about not adding ppl who I haven't met but I would have thought for most people it would be common sense!!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  agreed miss_cc :P

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I think there's a small majority on here that think the more friends you have, the better person you are, or more liked and they see it as sort of a competition. Don't think I've ever bothered with the friends list really. Sure there's been ppl I've talked to from here, whether via messages or via the phone, but I don't see the need to broadcast who I do know and who I don't. Only thing along that line that really gets my goat, is getting flirts from ppl that are obviously researching or whatever it is they do, and the next day, their profile is deleted, rhp should really get onto those types of fools if they could, make this place so much nicer.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  ahahahahahahahahah(just for all the others also missing Earls laff)

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  One possibility is they hope you'll accept and their picture and it will appear on your profile thus increasing their exposure. Especially if you're a high traffic profile. Are there such a thing as RHP Stalkers or RHP Flashers or even RHP Reclusives?

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