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the myth of the message
March 03 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
of messages and firts. I know from comparisons with them that I get about the same as most of the younger, more attractive women. I am certainly not "innundated" with messages. I manage to reply to all. Perhaps it is like the size of a mans penis...greatly exagerated!
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RHP User
13 years ago
You are not alone :-) I do however welcome messages from friends and prospective friends. They are nice :-) And I did recently get some lovely messages of support from concerned forum frolickers which I found touching. However the majority of messages are from cheeky little possums. Those just make mromantic e smile but then I feel a little sorry for them because they have just mailed in vain :-/
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ms Freya, a lot of blokes on here are looking for an easy lay where they don't have to do much ground work. You are obviously a lady of class and distinction and that requires effort. They are not the right men for you. You want something extraordinary not ordinary. Although my most favourite message will always be from the SexyKoala man whose first message to me was he wanted to suck my titties. Classy. LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
Meeka,that is very kind,but I know that there are women here who feel it is just them and I wanted to pont out ,that is not the case.
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RHP User
13 years ago
pontificating me lol...meant point
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quality over quantity.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Been here a whole day, had lots of views and not a single message or flirt. 'Spose I should mention that I very rarely got messages on my last profile despite the regular views. Maybe because there is no confusion about my profile? Good on ya fellas! Peachy
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RHP User
13 years ago
I remember you saying on another thread that you have received something like 4 messages ever on RHP. Isn't it ironic?, and, I want to share this to give others (especially the guys) some insight here, I have in the 4 weeks of being on this site received 1934 messages from men. The irony being that out those 1934 guys there are only 4 men I am interested in as potential anything and that I would actually want to meet in person. I am aware stats maybe exceed the norm due to my being new? But if it's any consolation, at least this proves that, not all women want to be inundated with messages. Some of us on here would be happy with just 4. As the other 1930 are superfluous to me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
as another poster mentioned on a different forum, when females are new they are inundated with messages which then taper off. This was my experience anyway (although it wasn't so much when I was new, as when I decided to put up a pic of my arse that I was inundated with contacts ). At this stage I certainly don't get more messages than I can handle and I have time to reply to all of them. Maybe I'd get a bit more contact if I lived in a more populated area but as deepblue pointed out for her, the majority of men who contact me don't interest me at all anyway, or their profile is just the standard template with no photo which is another automatic no as I certainly don't have time to be pursuing all of those guys to see if they might be suitable.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just viewed my stats and it said.... I have sent 2,229 messages Reply Rate: 143% I have received 3,183 messages Guess I was popular in school tsk tsk MEEKA! I bet you get more because you're a known arse breaker
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RHP User
13 years ago
say that I don't spray messages like an excited puppy... I tend to read womens' profile and I think I have sent about 3 messages this week and only to women with a profile that has come close to what I am looking for. I was messaging Freya in a previous profile but due to her being interstate it was not practical to meet so I let things lapse. Freya is a lovely lady and comes with a delightful way of expressing herself. Yes men are men and tend to "think" with tthe wrong head most of the time and as women you will be seeing the product of this form of expressing our "mind".... Good luck and have fun kiddies. Mike
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RHP User
13 years ago
thank you for proving my point.As I said,there are people here both male and female who are tremendously popular just like in school,you naughty girl,but there are others who aren't.I am glad this thread gave you the opportunity to skite .
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RHP User
13 years ago
As a newbie I agree with what others are saying about newbies being inundated with messages.I too get them as well..however I'm only interested in those that really capture my attention which is not many at all believe you me. I get what deepbluesumthing is saying.Give it some more time and we will most likely be the ladies you are talking about.I do empathize with people on here who are in that spectrum you are talking about OP.You are totally right what you are saying..it happens to both men and women by what I can gather and have spoken to others about.It's not you by all means - you have class, dignity and grace about you. Foxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
Popularity is an interesting concept and frankly quite shallow. What is popular? Is it a heap of messages or is it a message or two from the people you want to hear from. Guys “spraying” messages to every woman on this site does not make one popular, it simply means you’re accessible. I am not sure who coined the term but it’s a good one........”There are lies, damned lies and statistics”.
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WHY_NOT_LOOK
13 years ago
Hey there I don't reply to a lot of my messages because they haven't read my profile... So who's wrong here? I go into the chat rooms a lot and say hi to most people unless its flat out .. Slow typer here. And if I get one more Hi how you doin? Or profile without photos up or another state. Really it's common sense. I made a profile on another site 2 sexy pics fully clothed not much info with tell me about the first date.. In 4 days over 400 messages so that was that no way am I going to read and reply to 400 messages I'm only wanting one interesting trustworthy guy with a nice penis of course ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yep agree with you Freya that many guys are under the idea that we as women get inundated all the time with messages. In my case it is so not true. Yes I get a few now and then but not the number that men seem to believe we get. For a while there the only messages I was getting were from guys I had been chatting to for a while, which was fine with me. However when I finally put up pics the flow of traffic increased again and yes that included an increase in messages but that was for a week maybe two at most. Now I am back to only the occasional message which is fine. And I will only reply to those that have put an effort into composing their message to me. As Meeka says quality over quantity any day please.
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RHP User
13 years ago
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RHP User
13 years ago
Great post Freya and you make a great point. I wish more women on this site thought like you. If they did, I might even be tempted to become a paid member.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Ms Freya, a lot of blokes on here are looking for an easy lay where they don't have to do much ground work. You are obviously a lady of class and distinction and that requires effort. They are not the right men for you. You want something extraordinary not ordinary. Although my most favourite message will always be from the SexyKoala man whose first message to me was he wanted to suck my titties. Classy. LOL I am selling tickets...so please send your fifty dollars to suckmeekasboobs care of TR looks like i will be on my world holiday any minute now....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Boy22' Popularity is an interesting concept and frankly quite shallow. What is popular? Is it a heap of messages or is it a message or two from the people you want to hear from. Guys “spraying” messages to every woman on this site does not make one popular, it simply means you’re accessible. I am not sure who coined the term but it’s a good one........”There are lies, damned lies and statistics”. and I show my self neeked , no class just plenty of saggy arse. i am shallow hal in spades yes i get to many messages cause I am a cheap root and the knock shops are busy and expensive TR doing a public service nahhh i think its cause i am on here lot and a paid member,that puts you oh the top of the list so they just go down the list is all
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Boy22' Popularity is an interesting concept and frankly quite shallow. What is popular? Is it a heap of messages or is it a message or two from the people you want to hear from. Guys “spraying” messages to every woman on this site does not make one popular, it simply means you’re accessible. I am not sure who coined the term but it’s a good one........”There are lies, damned lies and statistics”. and I show my self neeked , no class just plenty of saggy arse. i am shallow hal in spades yes i get to many messages cause I am a cheap root and the knock shops are busy and expensive TR doing a public service nahhh i think its cause i am on here lot and a paid member,that puts you oh the top of the list so they just go down the list is all
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RHP User
13 years ago
Here I was thinking I was the only one, you sahmeless shameless hussy
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RHP User
13 years ago
England is good, apologies for sahmeful spelling........
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RHP User
13 years ago
It also depends on what you have in your profile. If you mention experimenting, and this is very important NSA sex, you want to have fun, etc. There are key words that guys look for. Did I mention NSA? LOL. I once had in my profile that if something turned into something more... dare I say a boyfriend I would be okay with that. I heard crickets. Nada!!! LOL It depends on your pictures. Bum pics always work the best. It depends on what you write on the forum or if you perform in the chat rooms, it depends if men percieve you to be easy or should I say easy going, it depends on your location. For example Perth ladies would be inundated as they have lots more men there than women I think. It depends it depends. Like I said. Lots of messages is nothing personal. Come on, for all you know I could be a 40 year old virgin typing this from my mothers basement. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
A friend posted this on Facbook recently. FOR ALL THE WOMEN WHO BRAG ABOUT ALL THE MEN WHO WANT THEM, JUST REMEMBER ... THE CHEAPEST PRICES ATTRACT THE MOST CUSTOMERS." Was she trying to tell me something?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Please untie stalky..... promise I'll come out then
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RHP User
13 years ago
such a fibber TR,today I received a message from a man in WA ,he was in his 50s and said he was very interested in you, that you were a very sensual woman ....my reply...join the queue lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Please untie stalky..... promise I'll come out then Noooooo... I love him all tied up and all mine.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Bugger Bugger Bugger....... Well all i can say is I do hope the sauce bottle is being well used .... meany poo
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WoodyWoodcock
13 years ago
I reckon if you change the age range for your match age from 99-99 to say 19-90, you'll have to hire help to handle the increased mail inflow 😄🌹
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Bugger Bugger Bugger....... Well all i can say is I do hope the sauce bottle is being well used .... meany poo and tied up with meeka...this could be interesting , is that another bugger/ that strap on must be getting worn out
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