the more the merrier

I know I'm not the only one that enjoys a bit of fun in a group situation, but its hard to find people to play with. been a couple of times to clubs and had some plays with small groups but I find the scene pretty quiet. Also (dont mean to offend) there seems to be more older couples into it. Is there any of yous out there find the same? or haven't I yet cracked into it? Is there any groups out there that welcome new play friends? I'm single but also have a lady friend who enjoys the scene as well.