the does and donts of anal sex

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Some of us dont like rimming.....why anyone would want to lick someone's arse is beyond me. It feels gross...all slimy...yuck...yuck...yuck! Then there is the risk of things like worms...I mean, when was the last time you drenched yourself? How do you know when the person who's arse it is you are licking has de-wormed themselves lately? No matter how clean a person is, the fact remains that the anus is where nasty little worms lay thier eggs....and they are the least of your worries! You cannot possibly be THAT clean. For me it is a no-go area.... and I ain't neva eva gonna lick arse!!!!! My partner MAY indulge in anal sex...if he so desires (and most do not) but only after I have had my fun.... that seems only fair to me...as I dont particularly enjoy anal either and I sure as hell am not gonna get my jollies through anal.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Learn about it. Learn how to do it properly and NEVER fuck an arse like you fuck a pussy. 95% pf guys make this mistake.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  We're very curious as to what people recommend as we were hoping to try this sooner or later.We figured watching a few videos would help... or even better if we can find a girl to show us how it's done. Any thoughts?

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  We're very curious as to what people recommend as we were hoping to try this sooner or later.We figured watching a few videos would help... or even better if we can find a girl to show us how it's done. Any thoughts?

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  captainkaos

  14 years ago

  I am not overly keen on it but a few women really like it.   Use alot of lubrication and start slowly and with a finger only to see if your partner enjoys it.   I have found that some women get extra enjoyment when doing it doggy style and slowly inserting a finger up there. The girlfriend I had at the time used to love it and had intense orgasms that way.   If both of you like it then you can use something bigger.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  The anal play you see in porn is too hard and aggressive for beginners. Start with something small like a gloved finger and lots and lots of lube. Take it slowly and carefully and don't forget to trim your fingernails. Move on to something a little bigger when you get used to the small stuff. Some people like to be pumped and some just like something to sit in there and vibrate. But like anything you do, if it doesn't feel good, don't do it. Use gloves and put condoms over any toys you use. Have fun.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  take your time.......gentle is the key, and listen. ask and hear. take it only as quickly or slowly as she wants....and you'll usually have fun.....rush and it wont be.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  My partner loves anal sex as a everynow and then. I always put my finger in her arse while sucking her pussy as it turns me on and keeps me down there longer. Always take your time we finger each other most times we have sex. We dont always have anal sex unless she turns around and tells me to fuck her there. Major Major turn on for me but still stick to the rules take it slow and don"t spoil a good thing. By the way there is the times were she wants me to finish in her arse and yes her pussy just flows from it. So remember to think with the right head and do not dril like you are looking for water.lol

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  slow and gentle but most importantly trust in your partnerand if its something you both want ------well just enjoy

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  as goodgrlzsayplz says... Its an arse, not a pussy.. lube, finger and slow and gentle is the way to go... after you have heat the situation up with some foreplay and etc... Try anal beads with lube... another dimension indeed...Dont just jump in..... or something might jump out hahahah!A woman either loves it or hates it.. I had some that just get off on it and others its like ground zero (no go zone)

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Lube and gentle approach. Rose leafing and style...and don't forget to ask first.

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