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tall women...

September 18 2012

i feel a little self conscious in regards to my height... i am 5 foot 11.. and i would love to wear heels out.. but am too scared to be judged...so the question is...how do men feel about tall women??? if you dated someone that was taller than you... ???thoughts please.....shelly x

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Love tall women in heels. statuesque and hot. Have not dated a taller woman than me but only because it's never happened. I dated one woman who was 6'0" in heels and I'm 6'1". She was perfect. If being taller than a man makes you feel self concious…..perhaps don't do it. or, take a phone book for him to stand on when you kiss?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hun,,,, you would look absolutely beautiful in heels,,,, you are are stunning woman,,,, who cares what people think,,,, just as long as you are comfortable within yourself, then thats all that matters,,,,,   I wish I was able to wear heels,,, because hell knows I need them, only being 5ft myself....lol   I love you Shell

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    I am so envious of you!! I would love to be tall and wear the heels to be even taller!! I say - wear those heels n wear them with pride! Love yourself for who you are and embrace it!! Xxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'm si xfoot and I use to date a lady the same height. I loved it when she wore heels. But I think alot of men are intimidated by tall women because now she could be physically superior as weel as mentally superior.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I am also 5'11" and feel self conscious when wearing heal and going out with someone shorter than myself ... i find myself continually wearing flats ... even then .. i often am taller than some guys I have dated in my time and have found myself being the subject of stares and comments ... i love wearing heals, but the opportunity to do so is very limited ..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I too am 5 ft 11, i wear 10 to 15cms heels most days........I have been this height since i was 16. For 23 years i was married to a man who was shorter than me. I love it, i get many looks, i'm sure often based on nothing more than my height My height does not ever make me feel self conscious....i do not ever feel the need to wear flats. Why should i choose my footwear based on the height of the rest of the population??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Not for me anyway, I like em short or tall haha, but I can understand why a 6 foot woman wouldn't want to go out with a relative short arse 5 11 like me lol. If it makes you feel self conscious then you won't feel at ease and won't enjoy yourself on a date or whatever, will you?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Heels just make a tall woman even sexier and does not bother me in the slightest, in fact I would love it !I can hold my own and I reckon the looks and whatever would be fun to play up to.Fuck judgement, their judging themselves not you.Obedience is suicide.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Love tall women, they are sexy, amazonian in nature. I've dated 2 that were 5'11 and both were tall, blonde, size 14, just fantastic to be with. Making love to them with legs for days wrapping around me... just can't explain how wonderful that feels.

  • tomrach79

    tomrach79

    13 years ago

    I am 6 foot 2 and when rach wears heels she is taller than me and most in the room. It's so hot and people love it. wear your heels with pride! And then leave them on when you get home! ;) Tom

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Love that thought karynb, wear shoes that look stunning , not because he he is shorter should you ever downsize , hot looking heels on a stunning woman is a big turn on . Dream to impress , never downsize!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    At my work there are lots of beautiful women. Without a doubt, the tall girls in heels with great posture stand out, and draw the eye and admiration of all of us :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Love 'em.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Tall girls have a right to dress up & feel sexy too right? In fact I think you would look far more feminine ( & hot ) in heels than flats. I am tall, so can't speak for others but I would not imagine there would be too many guys put off by a taller woman. In fact it would be a turn-on. Unless he was 5' nothing, in which case it would be comical. Still, if you can't laugh at yourself, then who can you laugh at? ;) Good luck & I don't think you should worry about people judging you. Some may get jealous though, but that should not be your problem xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Mrs Ruff is exactly same height, and when she wears heels, the attention she gets from blokes is out of this world.Don't worry what people think, at the end of the day do what makes you happy!For the record though - This man LOVES tall women in heels (Love long legs) and i am not alone!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I love women fullstop. I can understand why you would feel self conscious. Society is pretty fucked up the way it makes us feel about ourselves at times and I say where what you want. Chances are there's only a few people in a hundred that may have a problem but, that's exactly it....it's their problem not yours.   I went out with a six foot two dutch girl who I called my viking princess. I'm six foot and the only time I felt a bit funny was when I was out and realised I had her thongs on. I'll admit fitting my girlfriends footwear spun me out for five seconds but everything else, like looking up to kiss her, was totally fine.   Maybe people look because they think you're attractive or envy you :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I am 6 foot 4 and love Tall girls as much as short girls ...makes zero diff to me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'tomrach79'wear your heels with pride! And then leave them on when you get home! Very well said Tomrach79 totally agree with you on that.   I Mr Elektralink love a woman wearing heels.

  • x2ForU

    x2ForU

    13 years ago

    thank you everyone for your input....i listened in on a conversation at work the other day (male colleges ) and they were talking about tall women... everyone of them said they prefer smaller women....i was always the tallest in the class when at school right from primary through to year 12...i know i can wear dresses and look great in them and can eat basically what i want and have to not worry too much about my weight.....but being tall comes at a price... i have large feet and large hands... i cant just walk into a shoe shop and get shoes.. i have to order them online, which is fine.. but not always the latest styles......i guess i really just have to not worry about what people think and wear the heels out and about....i do love heels. PS... RACH... love you too!!!♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    OMFG... my 1st serious post... X24U Do what makes you feel good. A great dress, sexy lingerie and a hot pair of Jimmy Choos is my ideal partner... I do have trouble dressing her though.. those fucking blow up dolls dont make it easy. But on a more serious note, who gives a shit? dont let peoples "judgements" of you dictate the way you want to dress or look. Your partner is the same height as you and whether or not you wear flats or a sensible heel may be how you think he may feel and not necessarily how he does feel. Any man that has a fear or a dislike of tall women is perhaps a vertically challenged person with inadequacies and inabilities to look up to a woman. Me? i lurvvvvve tall chicks..WITH those killer heels.. if she hasnt got killer heels.. she can borrow mine WEAR THEM AND LOOK SIZZLING!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I expect you to be wearing your heels next time I see you hun,,,,, which hopefully wont be long ..... We have to hit the town one night babe.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I like taller women, they display elegance with ease and their presence is hard to ignore.   Self awareness is so powerful, it radiates from us at many different levels. Subtle alterations to this changes they way we interact with others and how we view the world. Building positive self awareness takes time.   Other people can judge me, it is their choice and I cannot take that away from them. I have a choice whether to allow their judgement to affect me or to let it pass.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    There's nothing sexier than a great set of legs in heels.   Who cares about your height, if you've got it flaunt it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    orby thats one thing never got to do lol