M63 F59
spur of the moment or planned
June 21 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love being spontaneous...but...unfortunately have had too many dud fucks to want to keep doing it! There is no way of knowing if someone is a dud until you actually meet them...and I have had my fair share of them! I think I have found all of the duds in Melbourne...now it's time to meet and greet first and see if I have that "POW" (in my pussy) when I meet them before fucking them! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have too many commitments which mean I can not just walk out of the house when I feel like it. I also do not like the (none) safety aspect of meeting someone just off the cuff like that. The world is still full of whack-jobs. I prefer to get to know the person before any intimacy anyway. The idea of sex with strangers does not appeal at all.
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RHP User
15 years ago
For me it's how it feels at the time..if the connection is there then go for it ..if not put the kettle on and have a bicky ..
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RHP User
15 years ago
l do admit, l love sex with strangersalthough i'm not into the quick shag. I find quick shags are always dud fuks. lf i want that l would get into dogging. My favourite is an organised rendeveax to fullfill a fantasy of mine. With a stranger of course
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RHP User
15 years ago
I would be happy with either one... | | Wonder if the "hopeless and pathtetic approach" might just work?
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RHP User
15 years ago
In everything else I am spontaneous. But I have never been especially spontaneous in sexual matters. When it comes to being with a partner I've already selected, sure, I'm Captain Impulsive. Selecting that partner, however, I do just a little more carefully. I'm not one of those people who will "pick up" at a bar and bring a stranger home, for instance. I'd be much more likely to get her number, call her, meet with her again, and then... On my RHP profile I say that I do prefer to meet someone before playing but I haven't painted myself completely into a corner. I've said that I do occasionally have my spontaneous moments, and I reserve that right!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Are you talking about the first time you meet someone? I find that having sex straight up usually results in it being a one of situation. And for me, not very satisfying either most of the time, so I agree with funloving on that one. However if you are talking about boys you already know, well, both scenarios can be fun. The anticipation of meeting up can always be fun. Wet! I do love being spontaneous too. Often you can have the most naughtiest fun when it is spur of the moment. HOT!xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Because Chilli the sex is often not that good, so not worth doing again. I suspect because you have no real connection in the first place. Although I have had one off situations that have lasted months as well. Now, that is only in my limited experience too as I almost never do one offs. I don't do randoms as a general rule :P xx Meeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
JUST FUCK ME !!!!!!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'slippery_halo' In everything else I am spontaneous. But I have never been especially spontaneous in sexual matters. When it comes to being with a partner I've already selected, sure, I'm Captain Impulsive. Selecting that partner, however, I do just a little more carefully. I'm not one of those people who will "pick up" at a bar and bring a stranger home, for instance. Not into picking up random strangers nor meeting random strangers. If it is someone that I already know and have played with, I dont mind meeting in the park in the middle of the night, getting a text message as he drives home from work at two in the morning that just says yes or no...........
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RHP User
15 years ago
I know.. I mean.. what's up with that approach??HUgsStalky Quoting 'AllNiteAllLucid' JUST FUCK ME !!!!!!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
hi again & thankyou for your feedback I see alot of people are thinking I mean just meeting a stranger, not!! (unless it was johny depp ) I guess I didn't explain myself properly. I meant someone u have met,know & are firting with. thanks sinfultwo
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RHP User
15 years ago
Poor Allnite....... Want me to send you dirty messages so you don't feel left out :P xx Meeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'AllNiteAllLucid'JUST FUCK ME !!!!!!!! You are so romantic. Such a turn on!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yeah well that was my spare of the moment side talking
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes please Meeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Definitely spur of the moment. Nothing better and hotter when in the moment and ready for the unexpected. When you plan its more of a disappointment after you have high expectations and work yourselfs up only to be let down....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yep I love all that stuff Chilli but sometimes I just like to meet a stranger , fuck the living daylights out of them , and all the rules can go to Hell.... ....
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RHP User
15 years ago
we cant do 'spur of the moment' at any time..... kids/jobs/committments etc just do not allow such a thing.... not being able to host doesnt help either (damn kids lol), but that will change. for now its going to be planned meets only, as neither of us are into just falling into bed with whoever is available...theres nothing in that for us at all.........
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RHP User
15 years ago
Try an experiment. Ask how many people are keen to get dirty at that particular moment and im willing to bet that most would not be keen. Too busy etc. There will of course be guys who would drop everything for a shag. I would too, if i could (or chuck a sickie from work lol) Spontaneity is an amazing thing, a great rush. You do things that you wouldnt normally do. I enjoy spontaneity in all facets of life, but i think when it comes to sexual encounters...its a little trickier. Mind you, if it happens spontaneously and spur of the moment, its absolute dynamite!
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