single ladies...what attracts you, in a couple?

we have been hoping for a while, to enjoy a lovely, bi, single lady's company....we had met and played a few times, with one very nice lady, a few years back....but apart from that...we don't seem to be able to intrigue the lovely females on RHP...we have interacted with a few single woman...but a few of them, we became suspicious, were not actually women..(god knows why some people play these games)....and one lady, we had the pleasure of chatting to...well, she just acted a bit weird...she went on webcam with us...did a whole strip show (a very hot one,i might add)....then when my husband went down to taste me...(thinking she'd might appreciate seeing, that he is a giving lover...in case she'd decide to give us a go)...well , she just disappeared....we think maybe she took offence ,thinking my hubby wasn't interested enough in her show..who knows....anyway...my question is....what gets your attention, ladies, when it comes to couples?what makes you look again...gets you curious for more?what makes you respond to an approach with interest?what intrigues you in a couple?(appreciate any advice)