M57

single guy seeking advice on improving profile etc

September 03 2010

hi all, this is my very first post so please allow me a few mistakes, and dont attack me for bad wording, yes ive read other posts, your like a pack of wolves ready to pounce lol im just joking!! anyway, my problem is i came on here, RHP, a while ago and sent/recieved a few flirts but that was all, so i decided to upgrade to the first level, so i could at least message the "im a guest, message me' type of reply flirt, now, when i ever do message back, i make sure i have read the profile thoroughly and i send a message being as polite as possible, i may offer an email address for further contact if required, i never grant access to my pics straight away, i always ask if they would like to see, not being pushy you see! so i send my message that they have requested and......nothing! ive had messages asking me if i would be interested in this or that, i reply, politely, and again.....nothing! what am i doing wrong? if i ever read a profile i like and feel i meet what the woman or couple is looking for, i generaly send a flirt "if i messaged you would you reply" before sending them a message, my reason for this is to give them a chance to decide if they actually want to chat or not, again, trying to be polite and not fill their inbox with random crap! i think my profile is ok, please tell me if im wrong, i obviously need help somewhere lol, im a genuine guy, i respect people, i will never push myself on anyone, but im thinking im stuck with this "single man" lable? now ive kind of lost track of what i planned on typing lol, ok i will leave it at that for now, please, ladies, or gents, can anyone offer any advice? i know you cant tell from any of my replys as they will differ from person to person, but look at my profile, offer advice on how to word a message and i will take in any advice anyone can offer, good or bad, thank you for reading, it did sound better in my head lol, oh well, submit button here i come, thank you, vince

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RHP User

15 years ago

I just noticed that no one had replied to this. Well, the only advice I can offer after reading your profile is get rid of the update part. I think that once someone starts trying to compensate for something then it puts people off. I'm just over 50 now, but I don't draw attention to the fact and i don't say anything like "altho I'm 50ish, I'm still attractive and fit etc." People can read my profile and they either are interested or they are not. That is the only advice I can give really and just keep trying I guessGood luck

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RHP User

15 years ago

You could get rid of the bit about coming back as you were hounded by idiots the first time around, then maybe delete off the part where you say you are going to upgrade, as you have already done so. Other than that I can't help as you are too fr away;). xxJode

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RHP User

15 years ago

And gee if you messaged me Id respond Good luck Sassy xx

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RHP User

15 years ago

I love your pic - pity you are in WA.After you have made the above changes to your profile, see how you go. If you still have the same problems dont take it too personally. I have the same problems as well. I think it's the type of people that these sort of sites attract (no offense to the normal people here). It's like the volvo attracts "that" kind of car. Well these sites attract "that" kind of person. Just sit back and be patient, someone wonderful for you will come along......

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RHP User

15 years ago

I looked at your profile hun and i couldnt see anything wrong with it, you just keep looking and the right one will turn up, If you were closer i would like to meet up.xx

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RHP User

15 years ago

thank you for those comments, see, another head always helps! oh and i travelled half way around the world to be here, your not that far away ;-) heehee anyway, thank you again, vince x

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RHP User

15 years ago

Ok, so one thing is for sure, you are a male of the species...apart from that...I got nothing....couldnt get past the pic....LOL

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RHP User

15 years ago

are hounded by unlimited moronic individuals, who join for no apparent reason other than to fuck with your head, that goes for men and women, young and old, sane, borderline and way over the edge. People who don't want to pay to join because they have the devine right to be contacted by paying members, people who put up false pictures, false info, and especially those who don't, won't or can't verify any part of themselves and their profile. The legitimate players of course, after sifting through countless shitful messages and copious seemingly pointless flirts, may delete you by accident, overlook you by mistake or simply not be interested. (still, a polite 'no thanks' would suffice) Personally, I know I am off my dial in a good way, I think my profile is groovy, and I have looked at yours 69truescot69 and you seem very genuine, so best of luck, hang in there.......

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RHP User

15 years ago

thank you "embodi" for that comment, not a lot of men would look at my profile (well a few have but you know what i mean haha) let alone take the time to read and comment positively so i thank you again, maybe i have just been a little impatient, who knows, anyway, i will plug away lol, thank you to all who have commented, sure made me feel im not just "another single male" truescot

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