M51
shy girl
October 12 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
I read your post and immediately thought "stop treating her like a sex object, start appreciating her as a whole, delightful woman". I can only speak for myself, but the more a man connects with my mind and heart the more likely I am to be relaxed in my body, and ultimately, to be willing to experiment and be adventurous.
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jeremy8484
13 years ago
im confused , i know its probably the ultimate man on man thing but man on woman thing???ik each to there own and all ... but your being kinda selfish and um if you finally do convince her (without drugs lol) PLENTY of lube, if you think its too much put more :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
just bend her over and say''hey baby have I got a big surprise for you''....that is sure to work
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
I'm the same - a person must connect with my mind first before I can be anywhere near attracted to them! What attracted me to my husband was his incredible mind - his ability to work on the farm, in the cotton, respect for the ppl around him, his commitment to study, his love for his sport and the love he has for me! With all of that it has shaped me into the person I am - naughty n all! My advice to you - listen to her! It sounds to me you want to change her into something she isn't n by pushing her you won't get the results you want!
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RHP User
13 years ago
You definitely have worded this forum incorrectly Shy is not really the word you should have used Who wants anal you or her ? You don't 'put naughty' thoughts in her mind so you can perform a first time act which in your words is the ultimate for you How about wooing and seducing and appreciating her first. Anal is extremely intimate and can be very painful if not time and attention to her reaction is given Personally I don't think in this regard you are the ultimate man for her For 37 years of age you have a lot of maturing to do
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have to agree with you (the male here) we found a lot of guys today take a lot longer to mature.... I think he needs to take a long look in the mirror.... A lady needs to be treated like a lady not a pice of meat....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Stop trying to, let it evolve naturally as msvelvet, and brave heart have said, have you SPOKEN to her??
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RHP User
13 years ago
just wait till shes asleep then ..bang !! just put it in . Nah just kidding dont do that lol im not a big fan of anal its takes too long to put it in , and its too much trouble imo considering theres an easier hole just 1 inch away. maybe watch porn with her see if she likes anal? if she doesnt u still have another option thats still pretty good lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Verve - Lube - A small pecker and do as Ms Freya says!
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Taby_DK
13 years ago
Unless she is a kinky person naturally and likes doing that sort of thing and diving right in, I hate to say it but take it slow. Before I met my boyfriend anal use to be something I down right refused to do because I was scared of the pain, most men were just once offs or I was just something to fuck to them and they never treated me as anything more and so I felt they were not worthy of my trust. I did not trust them enough that they would not hurt me physically and anal isn’t just something you do. I personally feel anal is something special between partners and even though we swing I’ll never do it with anyone else other than my guy. It takes time and preparation to get use to the feeling of being penetrated back there and you need to be stretched because well cocks aren’t meant to go there in the first place lol. Even now for me after doing anal quite a few times I sometimes find it painful and we have to stop even after preparation and I think it just depends on the day and how horny I am to if it’s successful or not. When boyfriend came along (we were playmates for about 6 months before we started dating) we started to form a bond and I started to trust him and I felt like I could do anything with him. Unlike other men of the past he didn’t treat me like just a fuck and other than in the bedroom he’s always treated me like a person and with respect. So I gave him and still do give him many sexual favours and gifts I’ve never given to another man. But yes go slow, gain her trust, treat her like a person no a piece of meat. T.
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RHP User
13 years ago
... yep, but they're not pretty and will definitely make your eyes water :-p
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RHP User
13 years ago
maybe if you like it up the bum as well, then you can say its great honey I liked it and maybe you will as well give her a big fat strap on and a dab of butter cause butter makes it better
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RHP User
13 years ago
If she doesn't want to try it, don't force the issue, literally! This has to be a mutual thing and not about u getting your rocks off. Perhaps u shud talk to Hardtruckin 2011 and Mishieviouslad.......... This is all NOT about u! Or is it??????? Food for thought..........
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RHP User
13 years ago
At the risk of not being naughty enough for RHP ! Why do you guys think all women will like Anal sex ? (oh yeah thats right because of Porn movies, hehehehe )
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mr.Lion just maybe Mr.Lyin'....and having a wee lend of us
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RHP User
13 years ago
because surely if he was a magical lion, he wouldn't need to ask people for advice. wouldn't you just go straight to using magic ????? or just growling lots and scaring her into having "naughty thoughts".....Maybe she just doesnt want a lion up her arse - seems fair enough to me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
If she doesn't want to do it, that's the end of it. What you want t do now is to go out and find yourself a wanton trollop, who's into anal, and screw around behind your missus' back. Trust me, no one's going to have a problem with this.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I had a funny thought this arvo ..... If you beleived everything in Porn movies...there would be horny housewives all over suburbia doing hot Pool Cleaners (probably more prolific in the 70,s ) HOT Pirates would be totally real (the men r studs & the women are DD Barbies ) also all nurses are the horniest people in the whole world hehehe no seriously I think 80% of women dislike Anal hahaahaha soooo funny ! mind you I,m sure I will be diproved by people on RHP because girls on here R exceptionally HORNY !
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RHP User
13 years ago
jensman what a thing to say!!! it's a wantin' trollopx R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Hotlove'I had a funny thought this arvo ..... If you beleived everything in Porn movies...there would be horny housewives all over suburbia doing hot Pool Cleaners (probably more prolific in the 70,s ) HOT Pirates would be totally real (the men r studs & the women are DD Barbies ) also all nurses are the horniest people in the whole world hehehe no seriously I think 80% of women dislike Anal hahaahaha soooo funny ! mind you I,m sure I will be diproved by people on RHP because girls on here R exceptionally HORNY ! what?? nurses are the horniest people in the world..otherwise why do they wear those short skirt uniforms and fishnets? ? and high heels ?? there hot and horny i dont care what u say lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Poor Lion he was hunted......but truly to introduce a woman to this pleasure takes a lot of time and the right pressure. I suggest that when you go down on her a little rimming. Then when you are playing or fucking a little pressure with your finger or thumb on the anus, gradually building to inserting the finger. You will either get her pulling away or enjoying this sensation. Please do broach the subject with her after that and yes lube, make sure she is super horny and let her decide the pace by pushing back onto you. Its not to be rushed and not necessarily as hard as you may have seen in porn.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Hotlove'I had a funny thought this arvo ..... If you beleived everything in Porn movies...there would be horny housewives all over suburbia doing hot Pool Cleaners (probably more prolific in the 70,s ) HOT Pirates would be totally real (the men r studs & the women are DD Barbies ) also all nurses are the horniest people in the whole world hehehe no seriously I think 80% of women dislike Anal hahaahaha soooo funny ! mind you I,m sure I will be diproved by people on RHP because girls on here R exceptionally HORNY ! and they all wear fucking ugly shoes
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erotictouch4u
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' maybe if you like it up the bum as well, then you can say its great honey I liked it and maybe you will as well give her a big fat strap on and a dab of butter cause butter makes it better and if his woman won't use the strap-on on him then I think there is a cute little lady somewhere in here who would ET xox
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RHP User
13 years ago
Honestly, I don't know. It seems to be an effect I have on most of the shy women I meet... Best of luck
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