M55
sex love or lust
September 18 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
The only sweeping generalisation I'm prepared to make around these parts is that more often than not, one finds something they didn't even know they were looking for. I've found over the years it is far safer not to assume you understand people's varying motivations for being on RHP. . Flirty x
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am looking for fun and to be a very naughty girl!! Although if love comes my way that is good too - I am not opposed to exploring a deeper connection if it presents itself to me. Although in my experience it seems that most men are only looking for NSA action or quick roots and will not even contemplate anything more. Bunch of emotional pussies! :P Are you sure you aren't getting confused sedusa, as most women do like to have a connection before getting down and dirty with a playmate that is not neccisarliy to say that they are looking for love, just that having a connection usually means better sex. xxMeeks
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RHP User
14 years ago
My brain has missed you, as have all the muscles I use in my face when I smile. That is not to "neccisarliy" say that I can't live without you, just that my world is much happier when you're in it! PMSL *big hug*
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RHP User
14 years ago
FFS..... I can never get anything pasted you Flirty! Haha.... a man will have to love me for my huge tits as I certainly can't spell to save myself. xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
....just sex. I get the rest of the cultural and romantic crap I need on the Better Homes and Gardens along the the Mills and Boon forums. I get sex there too, but they expect me to know how to spell begonia and hydrangea... and write lasciviously decadent descriptions of the lingering aromas of the deep coloured petals on the other. | Anything else is a bonus.
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RHP User
14 years ago
It ain't that black, white and err magenta sedusa! Most of us fems (Flirty can relate to this one, Meeks is more clear somehow?) don't know what we want or what we are going to want from one minute to the next?! I am all about must make a connection, get a sense of who the person is, as I like to at least try to hookup with someone that showed some signs that our turn on's weren't each others turn offs and that the other confirmed some basic info indicating that they aren't a gang banga, bikie, gimp etc But then completely contradicted myself after a forum post, because the timing was sooooo right, the fact that i was grinding against the couch had been gagging for it all weekend, and he'd at least messaged the previous evening and morning and it just sorta i'll take the risk, at least he can type a line and can turn me on doing it (hopefully not a murdrer etc) was too hard to resist even if he was one of those one line message only people. WAS SOOOO WORTH IT. But like my profile says, i don't like the one liner types not willing to chew the phat with me first. It pays to do research, you can get lucky sometimes, but it is likely to back fire eventually. Then it was only FWBs that wanted to experiment thanks, not ur stock standard 2 positions only and no interest in the whole point of RHP! I had spent a decade in a relationship, i wasn't going to waste time trying for the same 6 months out!! i could sense that he didn't want to go to the meet and greet night i was so looking forward to the 2nd night he came ova, which was the main reason i saw him a second time, so i missed out bugger!!! then somehow he grew on me, so i lost the best part of 2 or 3 mths with my RHP flavourless so called FWB who somehow became 7 night a week sleep ovas WTF?!?! how did that happen? NOOOOOO! Back to the FWBs hit a few proper ones, good back to the category that I am ONLY on here for FWB, want a connections, not just another body to wank myself with/against.... not interested in a crayfish partner. So then i think i have gotten the groove back on and out of no where evil sneaky feelings got passed me somehow and then i go and fall for someone, reading his words and believing them..... farrrrrk!!! I got thru a good dozen FWBs post marriage without falling into that trap, girls can sometimes have these fantasies take over when you aren't paying attention.... So now, i don't want sex, lust or love!! Hell i can't even watch, and i LUUUURVE to watch. hmpf, you think us knowing what we want would actually help, but in the end we honestly and truthfully WANT IT ALLLL!!!! *evil laughter* just maybe not right now, coz i have a headache
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'a man will have to love me for my huge tits as I certainly can't spell to save myself. xxMeeka*throws away dictionary*
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think its best not to complicate any of this..It takes you where it takes you..i think the iniitial thing here is great sex and exploration..Chasing mentioned Mills and Boone. .i may say Burke and Wills !!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I came here a way back to indulge in NSA sexy good times. When I grew bored of NSA...and wanted connection, I found a couple of FWB's. When I wanted more than FWB's I incidentally found love....go figure! on a sex site and all !! . This place is full of dreams and fantasies....it can be whatever you want it to be.....as long as you keep your expectations open :-) Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' I've found over the years it is far safer not to assume you understand people's varying motivations for being on RHP. . Flirty x
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RHP User
14 years ago
Whatever comes my way. Sex is a good start....who knows what may develop from there? I can make up my mind as and when thing happen.
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RHP User
14 years ago
When we read the OP statement we initially thought, yes thats pretty well sums it up. Buttt no......There is a large group, possibly the biggest group are men and women that are here to find bisexual fun. Not passing judgement but its something to be aware of when looking at profiles can save a lot rejection and wasted meetings when you learn to read between the lines.
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RHP User
14 years ago
... but I'd prefer mindblowing, earthshattering, absofuckinglutely amazing sex.
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RHP User
14 years ago
RHP is just a point of contactwhere it goes depends on the connectionmental & physicalWe all have Types we are attracted toI love Cheeky, naughty & totally sexy just like me.........lolin mind body & spiritI think yes I want more than random sexfor me I need a Man with a High sex drivethat cant keep up with my passion of SEXBut hey to Mr Right cums along Im going to have a really good time! have met some great people from hereGotta love that jensta xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thank-you all for your varied opiions and insights most infomative at times amusing. I guess at the end of the days it is a btl of a lucky dip . As a newbie to posting I thank -you for takikng the time to contribute . Is has cleared some things up for me.
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RHP User
14 years ago
its just a bit of fun isnt it? we dont spend enough time withanyone to 'lust' after them.....and the best 'sex' always happens after our guests gone home.....thats when everything really begins.............lol.
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RHP User
14 years ago
initially I joined just for sex, but added some mind stimulation to it via these forums which work very well - and the added benefit is that only those intelligent enough work out to actually continue the chat or converse deeper with me a I'd like to put it ;-)so brief answer - just sex and fun (preferably both at the same time)xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Good first post...lots of different kinds of answers and a bit of fun. I have actually met people here for all kinds of different reasons including sex. | Now if only one of them could look after my peony and wax....poetically.
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RHP User
14 years ago
First could you introduce me to them. Im talking about women who just wamt sex. Im finding fake profiles and teases. Im obviously doing something wrong.
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RHP User
14 years ago
sorry Dave I dont kiss and tell
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sorry I am Dave. I dont kiss and tell discretion and confidentialty are of utmost importance to me. Finding what you are looking for is a bit like diamond mining because most women are not into casual sex just not the way they are wired, some may do or have a few flings and a very few just love good sex. Universal law most women give sex for love and most men give up sex for love. My observation is that many people confuse a sexual connection with a love connection. many men and most women want a love connection first, and there is nothing wrong with that. So who are the talkers and who are the doers ? That I am Dave is for you to find out for yourself. To have satisfyng sex yes there has to be a mutual connection or attraction and a forum to explore this. Once again my opinoins . Thoughts anybody?
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RHP User
14 years ago
...first it was sex and lots of it.....was filling a 20 year gap Now it's FWB's and fabulous friendships. WA appears to be very social though.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I commend you on the succinct way you summed up the Homo Sapien mating dance.I must now assure you there was no literal sincerity in my post. It was a mere expression of my frustration. I am new but I know there have been threads from guys whinging about not getting replies. You replied and I thank you, I guess I'd rather a template saying "Thank you but I am not interested" than nothing at all. I understand ladies get volumes of messages and some do not get read for a while if at all, but once read, common, setup a turn down reply template ladies, its just a couple of extra clicks..we have feelings too you know.... Now lets never speak of it again.Back to your marvelous reply. I agree with you completely and so it should be, one must give and not expect to recieve. Apart from a couple of real dodgey profiles, most people I've come across are lovely.Love has been pondered over since the days of the great philosophers, still today we speak of it in an unconvincing manner. I do not know what it is but I know the bounds of language cannot contain it. Each of us beleives we have a profound understanding of love and yet we ascribe it to trivial things, "I love footy", "I love weekends" etc. Are we demeaning 'love' by doing this, or perhaps, that is love and our propensity to overcomplicate things has placed a great weight on what should be light and free. When we laugh we love, when we share we love, when we kiss we love, when we smile at each other we love. This weight is evident only when we make a conscious decision to 'love' , and when the mind gets involved free light hearted love, too often, becomes hijacked by fear and doubt. Those that have discovered this, chant the mantra "NO STRINGS!!" for love without attachment is still love. Thanks again I send my love :) lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
Had em all within my marriage, what i was missing was variety. The same finest meal every night is all very nice but it can get poke your eyes out with a dinner fork BORING after 14 years together. xxgoodgrl
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RHP User
14 years ago
always good to try a new dish new movie new book , variety is the spice if life and good or great sex and love can exist separately
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