RHP

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sex addiction.....fact of fallacy??

March 17 2010

sex

This is something I have struggled with over the years... I thought I just had a very very healthy libido but after reading up on this subject and viewing the medias ideas on what is classed as 'sex addiction' now realise this may be a very real condition that I am suffering from (and yes I did say suffering). I would be interested to know of others who truly do struggle with this affliction/addiction and how they deal with it.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    HI my name is Taipan and i am an addict.. I think there is a good healthy apetite for sex..We all have thoughts of sex during the day or every hour etc etc..Whats wrong with that ? I think the people who say they dont think about it because they arent getting any may fib. or are in denial .Do they lay in bed and masturbate? Unless you are a sex maniac that leads you to do illegal things to others then i suggest you find a partner that shares your needs..Umm lucky guy !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sex addiction would imply that you take on dangerous or wreckless and detrimental behaviour to satisfy your needs. Just as in a gambling addiction. Its not a problem if you like to have a bet and go to the Casino. But if you are in hock and have lost your house to feed the pokies than it is a problem. In the instance of Tiger Woods for example a few dalliances is probably par for the course (excuse the golf pun) given that sporting heroes are the new "Rockstars" but if it compromises his marraige, life and career then it is an addiction and he needs treatment! In the case of sex it is normal and healthy to have a good sexual appetite, but if it puts you or people you love, your health or your assets at risk, then its going to far.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    No such thing. That's an ailment designed by religious prudes who would have you reject everything pleasurable for the atonement of your "sins". Well teh news is.. I ddo not beleive in the concept of sin as Christians would have us accept it. Yours is a healthy libido.... sex lowers stress levels... increases dopamine levels.. improves circulation and well being... a sense of and community with men.. plus it's your body's very own built in uppers... and mighty cheap form of sleeping pill. Awwhhh. I feel so..... relaxed now. HUgs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I reckon it could be the case. I have periods where I am so horny and need sex or sexual relief I cannot think straight (hence I am on here). Other times, I really couldn't be bothered. I have looked into my diet and a variety of other surrounding, local factors and nothing is out of the ordinary. Mine is probably just a dodgy, devious mind - or as they say one head takes over the other.