M54

same or different?

March 05 2011

We all have our own reasons for being on this site,single guys,single girls and couples.Most people we have spoken too have been really nice people (i do say most). What we have found is that some single men,all single woman and most couples are here because they want to be .NOT because they can't get any action in the real world but because this community tends to be fairly open to new things and most are like minded so if you are looking for something in particular it is much easier/quicker to find .It is also reasonably anonymous if you don't want friends,family or the like finding out what you may or may not get up too. My question after all the rambling is this-- If you are here finding a playmate/playmates rather than a life partner- Do you always end up with the same type of person / couple that you are usually attracted to or do you go for someone that is just totally different in looks or personality to your normal look. Like to hear-Luvsilver

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RHP User

15 years ago

definitely not the same in looks, shape, size or age. We enjoy the variety and the only constant is probably attitude, as we tend to be the type to take things slowly and prefer to meet once or twice before hopping into bed. Nothing wrong in the direct approach, it just doesn't suit us. It's a shame sometimes as we've "lost out" on some really hot couples! lol

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erotictouch4u

15 years ago

not just in quantity but in looks, age and interests. My sample-size of the RHP pool is not enough to give you a definite answer but so far I can say "totally different" in looks and "same" in personallity. . ET x x x

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RHP User

15 years ago

good question - but remember there are other sites than rhp, and the type of site determines the type of person there is... on rhp the great thing is you can take it slowly and get to know the person as the profile is designed for that- plus there is a forum not just chat and wink like elsewhere... if you combine with the general social netowkring sites you get your f-book fille in pretty quickly I'd say ;-) anyway, diverting from the topic a bit, so to answer the question yes same personalities as people who search are open minded and happy to talk abouit intimate things that remain taboo to most in the "outside world" - but I am talking about those that actually "take it further", there is a smaller portion of ladies that just peek in and when you contact them they freak out and quickly disappear. The "stayers" are wide variety of people, but like ET I have to say my sample size is small, yet have to find a couple that would be happy to do MFM with a straight guy :-( LOL-but shapes and sizes woo hoo :-)

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RHP User

15 years ago

I dont have a 'type' in real life anyway and as I get to know someone on line first, they can be vastly different from each other. It really is the personality that draws me in as I may not get to meet this person for some months. There is a lot of messageing, chatting and phone calls to get through first. Looks just get...overlooked...

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RHP User

15 years ago

Different looks, different personalities, but the ones I'll see again have the same attributes ability to hold a conversation respectful of my limits prepared to leave with a smile on their face but the leaving is important ;)

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RHP User

15 years ago

I dont think you can tell by looks... certainly looks help initially... but the best sexual interludes are ones where the particular people involved manage to meet the other person's needs at the time.... that feeling of sexual gratification.... where you are content to do nothing for a moment but lie back and think a euphoric...wow... that's what I've needed.HugsS

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RHP User

15 years ago

.....to tell as am only new here.............but your look Luvsilver is one I definitely go for......my exes have been Greek, Braziilian and Italian..............however i at the moment i am looking to have new experience and adventures and think for me now its about attitude.......

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RHP User

15 years ago

Oh I was surprised that all the replies so far say different as perusing the forums it seems people have such specific turn ons and offs (innies,outies,hair colour and location, race, percent body fat and so the list goes on!) For us we adore meeting new people we may not normally meet. We love it when we click with people that are vastly different from us.

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RHP User

15 years ago

I have to say that looks help a lot at first - no matter what everyone still has some idea who they'd like to play with, and in the end you need to meet in person sometime :-)BTW puppy with a cute arse like that you'd be forgiven any conversation mishaps!!!

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RHP User

15 years ago

Good idea for a topic and one that is a bit hard to answer for us anyway given that whilst we meet people from here and other sites, as well as parties none have really developed into a regular 'playbuddy' as yet, although there are some we hope go that way. But, that said we do have one semi-regular whom we did not meet through any site but rather has been an acquaintance for years and things have just developed a bit to now exploring the fun side of life.Now with regards to those that we have played with and would like to do so again it is safe to say that they cover all kinds of body shapes and 'physical' attractiveness but yes there are some characteristics that all have had although it is has not been something we sought.For us we must have connection with a person before we can play and that generally will mean a level of comfort with the personality of the person and it is here that we find the constant. Body types have definitely varied a bit as have the meeting methods so no real constant there.Mind you, now we are thinking about it so again good choice of topic.Shell and Gaz

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luvsilver

15 years ago

We are generally attracted to the same type of people when browsing profiles but the internet has a way of making you a tad shallow maybe.It is too easy to just flick past someones profile and on to the next and in doing this probably miss meeting some very fun and friendly people.Obviously everyone can not meet everyone in the flesh and in doing so get a chance to find an attraction other than physical looks .So mostly it goes back to that instant attraction that hits you in the face to start of with though not having the right personality to match the looks will change that in an instant.There are some very "unattractive" attractive people out there but so far we have been very lucky and would have the few people that we have met from here(you know who you are) around to our house as friends any day of the week Luvsilver.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Interesting query, interesting responses. Me - I dont 'Find' anyone really to meet in real life, except the very occasional person so I cannot offer a statistical result in the area you mention. Sorry bout that, but will say there are indeed people here of their own free choosing, can't force someone to be here. As to peoples agenda's, thats another matter. . These here Forums are the entertaining, real time, actual participants and their wonderful characters. The rest is touch & go, ambiguity inter-despersed with somewhat successful and occasional remarkable interludes. . A life-partner, that can happen anytime, anywhere and even on here. Aint that the pinnacle marker for RHP marketing?

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