M63 F65
romance at home?
November 27 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
This site is just as you said, an added extra. It's not our life, and we could easily go months without meeting any girls/couples or contemplating meeting any girls/couples. If we feel like it, we arrange something, otherwise, we are happy to be just us. We have actually chosen the 'just us' route over couple/party nights, as we often just prefer each others company. We only ever play together, we have never wanted that 'open' relationship aspect or even seperate rooms. It's about being together and allowing others in for that time that we choose. We have busy lives, and make 'us' time on a regular occasion, with date nights, special random presents/treats and just treat each other the way we would want to be treated.Doing something small everyday, random notes and messages telling the other how special they are, how they make you feel. I'm honstly interested to hear from the couples that have open relationships, or play as singles... mich x
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RHP User
14 years ago
I put the cricket on the T.V and she goes to Yoga...Fucking Perfect
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RHP User
14 years ago
We keep a few thing just for us like kissing on the mouth and that sort of thing.the small stuff that couples do. We like doin the nasty with each other and when it's just us it's more comfortable. We have our ups and downs like anyone, few flat spots here and there, but we both don't want to be with anyone else in the relationship sense. She gets me, I get her, we have a good life together...... We just both like a bit of strange on the side :) we find if we keep a few small things just for us like kissing then that becomes special and there's no real jealousy
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RHP User
14 years ago
Jane explains it well when I have asked her what's different with us. Saying we just fit right together. After 14 years together with a very healthy sex life over that time. like others would know you get to know every aspect of each other and how to push all the right buttons, mentally and physically.You need to put in the hard yards together to get to this point. There is love in the equation to and its a totaly different ball game.Swinging is just an extension of our own sex life together. Working as a team we fore fill our joint fantasy's together. Creating situations that we need other people to experience them together. When we do play with others for us it just acts as fuel that's burnt between us befor and after the event's with others . Stoking our home fires as a couple.Like I said in another post to us swinging is sharing are own sex life with others and not just having sex with others. We always steer the ship to insure we have somthign to gain as a couple from swinging.Tim
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RHP User
14 years ago
Arent you the sweetest couple on here..... one would think any way. Now where was that post on hot cocks and pussies - oh damn was it removed because a couple posted an inuendo which really had nothing to do with with topic. Bite me
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RHP User
14 years ago
sounds good....except the yoga.............we are on the right track then... the play is just that..... play, and we can take it or leave it. we indulge only now n then, and only when absolutely everything lines up.... we'll never consider ourselves to be 'hard core' as theres so many other things besides sex that we enjoy.......
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RHP User
14 years ago
who is your comment aimed at?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Brings our sex lives to new highs! What beats swapping partners (not randoms) with the OPPOSITE SEX and back to your love for life?
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RHP User
14 years ago
quote MikeandShel: we indulge only now n then, and only when absolutely everything lines upI think that's a good point regarding . play only when everything lines up. To often do jane and I get to the point were we say. If it all dosn't play out smooth and there is to much compromise or fuss or drama then we loose interest and just do our own thing. Don't get me wrong we realise you need to put in a efort to expect one in return . But we find there realy is a big differance with the couples that are ment to be and you click and the ones you don't. All the little things have to line up. Not always easy but great when it dose. I guess that's why we prefer regular playmates when we do find people we click with .One part of being in a long term solid relationship is you have a the future to look forward to together. Who knows what adventures are ahead for you both its exciting.Tim
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'justenough' Brings our sex lives to new highs! What beats swapping partners (not randoms) with the OPPOSITE SEX and back to your love for life? the 'after' sex....its for us much more intense and satisfying than the actual play..... once we send our playmate home, or return to our place, its really 'game on'....nothing will replace what we share, its only ever going to be fuel for the fire we have burning 24/7......
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RHP User
14 years ago
is it that some people need to post shit which is totally irrelevent to the topic at hand. The trouble with these forums is the nasty inuendo's. Does it really matter if this place is the only social outlet for some or for the inept sexually disadvantaged. Personally l think it's great they at least have some outlet. l dont believe these forums are a freak show or even any thing that comes close.... They are interesting and at times a good laugh, now and again you get some odd comments however at least people are having a go. The negativity of others is what really annoys me. Ive been reading the forums for 12 months now and some people are very negative towards others opinions. We have the given right to disagree to any comments however we have no right to judge others. All our perceptions are different and that's what makes us different........"Quoted from another poster""should read 'freak show'......theres a few shockers on here....i think this could be their only 'social' outlet..... social networking for the socially inept and sexually disadvantaged.... lol.... freakbook by RHP..."Yes poster i am aware you may of posted this as "tongue in cheek" though really was there a need for it?!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Wouldn't a good porn movie and a bottle of something bubbly 'stoke' the fires just as well?? Using others to keep your home fires burning...mm, wonder if they know they are the sacrificial lamb lol - all the black sheep on here must love it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'is it that some people need to post shit which is totally irrelevent to the topic at hand. The trouble with these forums is the nasty inuendo's. Does it really matter if this place is the only social outlet for some or for the inept sexually disadvantaged. Personally l think it's great they at least have some outlet. l dont believe these forums are a freak show or even any thing that comes close.... They are interesting and at times a good laugh, now and again you get some odd comments however at least people are having a go. The negativity of others is what really annoys me. Ive been reading the forums for 12 months now and some people are very negative towards others opinions. We have the given right to disagree to any comments however we have no right to judge others. All our perceptions are different and that's what makes us different........"Quoted from another poster""should read 'freak show'......theres a few shockers on here....i think this could be their only 'social' outlet..... social networking for the socially inept and sexually disadvantaged.... lol.... freakbook by RHP..."Yes poster i am aware you may of posted this as "tongue in cheek" though really was there a need for it?! yes there was a 'need' for it, as its exactly what the place is. people who dont have the skills to meet others face to face, come here and behave like its designed specifically for them... and the truth of what i wrote is that its a sad but honest indictment of who we are as an adult population........and its freaks like we have encountered on here, that ruin it for many that would play openly and thoughfully with others. you know full well that i was 100% on topic. it wasnt meant as a tongue in cheek statement....more of an open dig at those who behave poorly. if honesty offends you so much, then i'm sorry, but i cant help you with that at all...the forums, if anything, provide and insight into the sorts of people we'd encounter while playing, and the variety and diversity of their opinions...its mine that its a 'freak show', as we've encountered some horribly nasty types (strangely all singles) who deliberately and intentionally set out to offend and cause arguments...... we posted new pics on our profile...and received nasty messages from a couple of individuals who post on the forums, who dont believe they are genuine or recent....go figure? if thats not cause to believe theres freaks among us, what is?........... if you had something removed from a forum, then look elsewhere for the cause, as we've certainly made no complaints about anyones submissions...perhaps someone else took offence, or the moderators themselves removed it of their own accord... whatever the reason, its gone, whatever it was, and should be long forgotten, unless you're carrying a grudge, in which case, i can assure you its very much misdirected....as theres nothing that you can lay at our feet except honesty.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'is it that some people need to post shit which is totally irrelevent to the topic at hand. The trouble with these forums is the nasty inuendo's. Does it really matter if this place is the only social outlet for some or for the inept sexually disadvantaged. Personally l think it's great they at least have some outlet. l dont believe these forums are a freak show or even any thing that comes close.... They are interesting and at times a good laugh, now and again you get some odd comments however at least people are having a go. The negativity of others is what really annoys me. Ive been reading the forums for 12 months now and some people are very negative towards others opinions. We have the given right to disagree to any comments however we have no right to judge others. All our perceptions are different and that's what makes us different........"Quoted from another poster""should read 'freak show'......theres a few shockers on here....i think this could be their only 'social' outlet..... social networking for the socially inept and sexually disadvantaged.... lol.... freakbook by RHP..."Yes poster i am aware you may of posted this as "tongue in cheek" though really was there a need for it?!you seem to be guilty of the very thing that you accuse us of............. how does that work? maybe its you who needs to be more tolerant of the opinions around you...........our experience as a couple will naturally be very different to your own.... as will our opinions.... the attitude of men is that because we play, my wife must therefore be a slut, and this is reflected in the disgusting messages we receive, and the nastiness of the messages we get back from those we dare to say 'no' to.... to women, shes something worse than a slut, and i'm less than a man.... again, how does that work??
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'CrackUp'Wouldn't a good porn movie and a bottle of something bubbly 'stoke' the fires just as well?? Using others to keep your home fires burning...mm, wonder if they know they are the sacrificial lamb lol - all the black sheep on here must love it.i suppose it would, if you are into porn, and dont have a house full of teenagers who are less than discreet? lol.... not something we have available to us, and porns, well, a bit ho-hum dont you think?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Inspirit, We don't really mind anyones posts reflecting back their has been some great personalities that we enjoyed and obviously others did not because their posts were deleted and they were banned or left. We really dont want to see anyone go. A bit heated we think is good sometimes, everyone should be made to feel welcome and express their view ......but unfortunately some take it personal if you have a differing view. MikenShel......Yep in agreement the aftersex (for a better word) with your own wife / husband is hot! Rings our bell!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Lol, Mike and Shel, how do u 'discreetly' smuggle in black sheep for stoking those fires? Now I am seriously intrigued. '...Baa Baa black sheep.. come and keep me warm, I would prefer you any day to any nasty porn...' lol, they didn't teach this one at kindy.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'CrackUp'Lol, Mike and Shel, how do u 'discreetly' smuggle in black sheep for stoking those fires? Now I am seriously intrigued. '...Baa Baa black sheep.. come and keep me warm, I would prefer you any day to any nasty porn...'lol, they didn't teach this one at kindy.we cant play at home....so have the need to either be accomodated, or find a suitable hotel etc......... it was supposed to be easier as we all got older....but no-one told our kids obviously........
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'CrackUp'Lol, Mike and Shel, how do u 'discreetly' smuggle in black sheep for stoking those fires? Now I am seriously intrigued. '...Baa Baa black sheep.. come and keep me warm, I would prefer you any day to any nasty porn...'lol, they didn't teach this one at kindy.we cant play at home....so have the need to either be accomodated, or find a suitable hotel etc......... it was supposed to be easier as we all got older....but no-one told our kids obviously........ Yep, actually, I think 'teenager' is a misnomer - they should have been called 'boomerangs' because...they keep on coming back....grrrrh.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Passion, indulence, playfulness, adoration, affection with kisses and cuddles and random loving gestures.......fantasy and communication. Keeps us ablaze.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'CrackUp' Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'CrackUp'Lol, Mike and Shel, how do u 'discreetly' smuggle in black sheep for stoking those fires? Now I am seriously intrigued. '...Baa Baa black sheep.. come and keep me warm, I would prefer you any day to any nasty porn...'lol, they didn't teach this one at kindy.we cant play at home....so have the need to either be accomodated, or find a suitable hotel etc......... it was supposed to be easier as we all got older....but no-one told our kids obviously........ Yep, actually, I think 'teenager' is a misnomer - they should have been called 'boomerangs' because...they keep on coming back....grrrrh.yes.....with 2 and 3 friends in tow....lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
...will not fuel this post any longer.. Quoting 'mikeandshellyou seem to be guilty of the very thing that you accuse us of............. how does that work? maybe its you who needs to be more tolerant of the opinions around you...........our experience as a couple will naturally be very different to your own.... as will our opinions.... the attitude of men is that because we play, my wife must therefore be a slut, and this is reflected in the disgusting messages we receive, and the nastiness of the messages we get back from those we dare to say 'no' to.... to women, shes something worse than a slut, and i'm less than a man.... again, how does that work??
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RHP User
14 years ago
sounds like a wonderfully good idea..............
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RHP User
14 years ago
Forum debate by it's design requires both negativity and positivity. They are a function of each other without which we would all agree or all disagree, and that's just a world of agreement we'd all get bored with very quickly.
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RHP User
14 years ago
i'll stand by what i said, and my reasons for saying it, but do so politely. thanks, but that was an entirely different discussion.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I come to reply here lately to find the tread full of the same people bickering with others and defending themselves in a ton of posts . Bloody irritating as it makes people not want to join in the conversation !
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RHP User
14 years ago
we know...that people drag totally unrelated stuff into what was a fairly safe topic. feels like its been hijacked...again.
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