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respect to others and property
October 15 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
this is so true chaos
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RHP User
14 years ago
I agree chaos that it is important to respect the hospitality of people's homes that have been made available to either stay at and have fun at. Recently had someone get drunk beyond their capability and cause massive frustrations thanks to their "selfish" and "irresponsible" actions and my house recently and they caused me massive headaches and anger and also angered other guests at my place. Always ask for permission to do things, always leave their place how you left it and always show utmost respect to those that are going out of their way to provide a place to stay/have fun at. If indulging in alcohol or recreational drugs always maintain some self control of your abuse and do so in a way that you do not destroy,damage and cause any hurtful instances to another member. This has now caused me to never invite a person back to my place again after spending hours dealing with drama and cleaning up a mess that no one should deal with at 3am...
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contemplating1
14 years ago
Aww, soz to hear, If one is invited into anothers world, that one should respect the hosts, and their property! Unfortuneately not everyone shares those values, and put self interest above all. Take care,
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contemplating1
14 years ago
Aww, soz to hear... If one is invited into anothers world, that one should respect the hosts, and their property! Unfortuneately not everyone shares those values, and put their own self interest above all. Take care,
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contemplating1
14 years ago
Aww, soz to hear, If one is invited into anothers world, that one should respect the hosts, and their property! Unfortuneately not everyone shares those values, and put self interest above all. Take care,
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mensbits
14 years ago
LOL and here's me thinking you just threw things around! :-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'contemplating1' Aww, soz to hear... If one is invited into anothers world, that one should respect the hosts, and their property! Unfortuneately not everyone shares those values, and put their own self interest above all. Take care,yer well u think u can trust ppl but u cant
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RHP User
14 years ago
having hosted bundy beck at my home ,,,,,,id say beck ,your welcome anytime ,,,,,,,she contributes in every way ,,a nicer guest ,one couldnt get better ,,,,,,all the best darling ,,,,,pinky xxxxxxxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'GargoylesUntd_FC'having hosted bundy beck at my home ,,,,,,id say beck ,your welcome anytime ,,,,,,,she contributes in every way ,,a nicer guest ,one couldnt get better ,,,,,,all the best darling ,,,,,pinky xxxxxxxx thanks pinky xxxxxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ohh thanks Chaos Also Chaos be nice curtious to ur guest..... Like dont let dildos fall from the ceiling while they sleepHAHAHAHAHAHA, was a funny nite.Heading to urs... see u soonVee
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RHP User
14 years ago
respect that should b inbred in all good people..... hi guys firecracker here..... miss yas....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'tieknee1'respect that should b inbred in all good people..... hi guys firecracker here..... miss yas.... omg huni long time no see how are ya ?? :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Completely agree with the people above.That's definitely one of the things Tom and I haven't done yet because we're worried about people not respecting our place... Because of this we shell out a bit of extra cash for a hotel room (which is pretty fun too hehe)I suppose once we play with someone long enough that we trust them and feel comfortable around them then it would be ok though :) After all we live v. close to the city so it's convenient!Katexoxo
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eukie
14 years ago
I find it funny, that some of those in this topic that preach ' Respect ' are the kind that would ' borrow ' money from others - and not even have the courtesy to return it.. If I can be proven wrong, then I'll retract my comment.. That person know's who they are..
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Innercircle
14 years ago
It comes down to ground rules.We inform all our guests for parties that:1. no means no2. If asked to leave, do so3. no glass near the spa4. no smoking in the house5. no drugs whatsoever6. clean up your own mess7. if a door is closed, don't go in there.8. no sleepovers unless prior arrangement9. if someone is causing trouble, being creepy, or won't stop hassling you, tell the hosts.10. arrive on time!and most importantly, WE chose the music :P
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sounds like a good set of ground rules - all perfectly reasonable and sensible. Showing a little respect for someone and their home is a pretty basic thing to do. I probably go a little too far in that regard - to the point where I could be with the host and wouldn't dare sit down anywhere until asked, even if they sat down. Partly a respect thing, partly a comfort thing. I'm not suggesting people should be like me at all - there'd be a hell of a lot of awkward moments if they were.
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DonnaBrett
14 years ago
Haha...love the music bit guys....that is the one most annoying thing about parties or clubs! Quoting 'rockercouple80' It comes down to ground rules.We inform all our guests for parties that:1. no means no2. If asked to leave, do so3. no glass near the spa4. no smoking in the house5. no drugs whatsoever6. clean up your own mess7. if a door is closed, don't go in there.8. no sleepovers unless prior arrangement9. if someone is causing trouble, being creepy, or won't stop hassling you, tell the hosts.10. arrive on time!and most importantly, WE chose the music :P
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DonnaBrett
14 years ago
We have NEVER had a hassle with people not respecting our home & stuff! Not just with swingers, but regular parties as well. We've had up to 70 odd people in our home at times..never a single thing broken or left in disarray & our house is practically a museum LOL. Sure s sticky tiled floor from drinks..easy to mop out the next day. We only mix with proper people. If anyone ever got out of line..they would get no second chance. People know our stance on smoking and drugs in particular and have never crossed that line!
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Innercircle
14 years ago
With the limited exposure to you guys that we've had on here, we reckon your place is just like our... so many cool nicknacks and memorabilia, that people are more fascinated than destructive :) God damn, the last swingers party we held here ended up being an LP record appreciation night ;) I still don't know if we were disapopointed, or stoked! Quoting 'DonnaBrett' We have NEVER had a hassle with people not respecting our home & stuff! Not just with swingers, but regular parties as well. We've had up to 70 odd people in our home at times..never a single thing broken or left in disarray & our house is practically a museum LOL. Sure s sticky tiled floor from drinks..easy to mop out the next day. We only mix with proper people. If anyone ever got out of line..they would get no second chance. People know our stance on smoking and drugs in particular and have never crossed that line!
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