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question for the men and ladies does.....
December 11 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
I may be biased and I may be wierd but as I se it we are all getting older , we all have a little spread and that is all a part of what makes us who we are. A bit of size never hurt anyone and I see it as sexy shape, as long as you look after yourself and do see yourself as sexy in your own mind, you will give off the good vibes and shine in everyone's eyes. And if you would like a judge of it all pictures can be sent to my inbox or plane tickets can be left at the checkin counter for me to pick up. Pete - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Personally, I like a bit of padding, and dare I say it.....I LOVE watching the wobbly bits wobble :OCurves are sexy and oh so more umm, womanly?:)
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couplefairride
11 years ago
Personally I find it quite attractive. Bit extra squish is delish. But not too much. It's hard to come back to a extremely flat stomach after child birth and even weight loss. Means you lived a life. H👩 - Posted from rhpmobile
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QLDtwo4fun
11 years ago
Sexy people come in all shapes and sizes. It's more about attitude, so get out there and have some fun.
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MissBishere
11 years ago
my stomach is in no way flat. I have never had any negative comments from men on this site. I do ensure they see pics up front as no one needs to go through that awkwardness Hahahaha. This is rhp after all though and there are all types that like all shapes and sizes. it sounds like it is more a personal issue you have. I think you just need to take the plunge and meet a man and let him show you that it's not something they consider. Screen well and take it at your own pace and enjoy yourself.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Question.....why ask what a man's thought:s are on the subject, when in your profile you seek women. Sh ould you not ask them, there thoughts.... knots
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Sexy is an attitude not a look. Own it girlfriend and they will cum. 😎
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' Sexy is an attitude not a look. Own it girlfriend and they will cum. 😎
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
My worst body part ATM is my belly - it's cursed!! AND I mean cursed. Has been for many many years now... LOL! FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quote: On Safari.. Sexy is an attitude not a look. Own it girlfriend and they will cum. Seyflower.. so true' concentrate on being sexy not the extra kilos.. thats the key..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Like I've said before, muffle them with your pussy and they'll never see any of your bumps or bulges. If they protest, grind harder. Trust me, I haven't heard a complaint about my muffin top yet 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can't help but think... from what I've seen, heard and read in this site.... that if its a choice between "a bit of extra padding around the stomach on a woman and.... no woman at all and the evaporation of any slim possibility for sex.... ...... then you can probably guess the answer. Love yourself....... people like what they like and if they like you.... flow with the go. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
I guess it depends what I might have been expecting. From reading your post and reading your profile, depends on your view of "average" I guess ? Do you think your profile description is a "fair" description ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
50zcool I put average because I guess I consider myself average I wouldn't say I'm stunning or even attractive but I'm not exactly ugly either which is why I put average I guess different people have different opinions on peoples looks some might look at someone's profile and say attractive some might look and say average, in my honest opinion I'd say I'm average - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
All depends on the girl. Some people are ugly, some are beautiful, and there is the 101 shades of pink and some in-between. There is a point where the attraction is marginal, at that point the little extra bits may well make me look else where. If it is all "going on" with the rest, I am more than happy to affectionately blow raspberries on the flabby bits till you squeal like a little piggy. So the answer to the question OP is dependent on whether you are a nice person or not, and as everyone is nice here on RHP that would mean you are too. So YES yummy.... just ask I and ill do my best to make you squeal.. (in a sexy nice way of course.)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just to clarify, I was talking about body description not looks. 😃
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RHP User
11 years ago
Rather have curves any day. Its nice to have something to grab hold of! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
We've found that in a club situation, attitude is the key. We have "interacted" with people that we most likely wouldn't have if we were simply going by their profile and had a great time. We have also not pursued activities with some that look absolutely stunning because we didn't feel that connection on the night. If you attend a club, get there early. Interact with as many people as possible. Don't hide in the corner and expect the world to come to you. Every night is different based on who turns up. You just need to put yourself in the arena and own you.
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RHP User
11 years ago
A lovely blonde slightly overweight girl served me with the best attitude . ? I couldnt help but be attracted to her personality and her warmth.. Really ' its all about that person within , if she's happy' things happen..
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On_Safari
11 years ago
We're all average, some of us think we're attractive, slim, extra padded, curvy, voluptuous, athletic. Others will view you first and foremost I believe against how YOU view yourself and if they don't like it then to hell with them. You are the best person you can be and some people actually suck no matter how attractive they think they are, that's another topic though that's been horsewhipped to death. I often say thos when the topic comes up though....I may not have looked sexy at 96kg but in myself I felt pretty, sonetimes sexy definately desirable and sassy. I was made to feel sexy and I guess I was lucky with those I met. I'm at 68kg now.....and those who knew me before still say I've always been sexy. It's not your size or shape that's most sexy about you gorgeous girl.....it's how you feel about yourself that makes you appealing to others. (Big smile) I used to say my dress size along with my weight, age and shoe size were all just numbers or letters, and I can wear anything from a size 12-20 depending where I shop!! It made people smile and with all our clothing coming out of asian and eastern countries no bloody wonder clothing sizes are so bloody erratic and unreliable!!!! (disclaimer: I am not implying anything here other than clothing manufacturers have lost the plot!)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey Im short, stocky, have celulite, stretchmarks, wobbly bits, flabby bits, gray hairs,oh the list goes on!! Yeah i could focus on all that, and have insecurities galore, but hey... I feel sexy, sassy,confident,happy in myself and know who i am and what i want out of life.And sexy lingere doesnt just look good, it hides the bits we dont like. So buy yourself some sexy lacey stuff and go and have fun.
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RHP User
11 years ago
No matter what people say,the reality is this site is mainly about the physical..Bodies rule here.. Of course not in the fora cos we forumites are above the mundane:)...xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks guys, it's so true attitude and personality do play a big part in how people are attracted to you I am a friendly outgoing person and love to have a good time I had 1 bad experience with someone I met at a night out with my friends and when we were out the person was all over me then invited me back to their place once we were there started to undress me and stopped suddenly put their hand on my tummy and said nope not happening can you leave please, I just about died from embarrassment that was 8 months ago and I haven't been able to get the courage to try again even though I have had people want to I'm so scarred from that experience, I know it was only 1 bad experience which is why I'm trying to get out there again :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Certainly didn't deserve you!! Maybe he gad a panic attack at the thought of you discovering his "shortfall"? You dodged a bullet, I'm just sorry he got you that far!! 😳 Brush it off, it was a one off; I used to feel the same about my apron, I couldn't hide it. I waa dating someone once who appraised me naked one afternoon stabding on the balcony of my apartment, his comment, "I don't like your boobs or your belly, but we can fix that." His ex-wife had had breasts done (she's now a close friend), I was gutted, in hindsight I should've dumped his arse then and there.... Thing is it was his issue not mine, he has severe erectile disfunction and couldn't meet my needs so he'd put me down to make himself still feel attractive. WTF!! It made me so paranoid, aoart from not getting sex it also made me very self conscious, unattractive and undesirable. It took a long time to get over that and a lover at the time who helped me get my mojo back. Be thankful he never got to sample the delights of your body.....YOU DODGED THE BULLET and he missed out BIG TIME. No one does it like a curvy girl!!
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