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pillow talk,do you enjoy
November 21 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yep definately enjoy it. Although sometimes its good to just hold each other and chill out in silence
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RHP User
13 years ago
You are soooo in the wrong state MischievousLad... Sigh
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RHP User
13 years ago
Reminds me of this one time...at band camp :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
nothing without the mental engagement.Well.... sex is LESS without the mental engagement.Pillow talk.... or couch talk...... kitchen table talk..... bean bag talk..... (I could go on, however it may seem like I am showing off) ..... before and after is required at least 85% of the time...... time constraints make up the other 15%.Just my humble opinion.Boo
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Paradisepair
13 years ago
Someone fulfills one of my favourite stereotypes and it is easy for me to objectify them then I (MrsPP) don't feel I need the mental. There's a few buts here... must be hot. No talking politics, probably best for one night stands, and I would still want to learn a little more about them and their lives (which would require an actual conversation). Friends with benefits definitely require a mental connection, doesn't have to be intellectual, we find people who have a creative outlet very stimulating, humour too works for us. Our vanilla circle of friends are very quirky, eclectic, interesting and rye. Interesting is the only one of those traits that I would be looking for in a repeat playmate.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Love the leadup, which is where my husband and I lock horns. He seems to be okay with it all if its just wham bam and thank you ma'am. But I am not really comfortable with this and like to get to know fb a little more. In my opinion it just makes for a more enjoyable experience, flirtatious text messages sent between can set the mood and leave you excited and looking forward to the interlude. He is lately thinking that I may fall for someone and run off, which is all very annoying as I have to respect his feelings and back off for a bit until this is resolved. But I find the whole wombat approach ( 'eats, roots and leaves') cuts down on my enjoyment factor enormously, to the point where I just don't feel into it. How much can we both compromise? I don't know.
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RHP User
13 years ago
for sure, what would it be without? I have them before and after. The giggle the talk the enjoyment in my words and voice.
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RHP User
13 years ago
So true Freya... Sometimes you can engage someones mind and then they can be so dirty ..and horny it takes me by surprise..But in an initial email it is not always easy to engage someones mind when you dont even know them !! I consider myself an easy person to talk with and engage in any topic of conversation at the right time.. Mmmm yes i look in her eyes ..and ask her what she is thinking ?? she replies.." i'm worried about cyclone sandy ..."
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RHP User
13 years ago
We always love to chat first with people we are going to have sex with... Dam I luv a good chat hehehehheheh But as I found out some people can turn you off of sex very quick by saying the wrong thing... As I found out when chatting to a bi-guy who told me he like to have 3somes with his teen age dauther, that turned me off very quick and I have never chated with him again.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have a whole other side of me lurking under this straight-laced vanilla girl, but the only time it ever bubbles to the surface is when my mind and heart are thoroughly engaged.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You must be joking, right? What's wrong with the good old fashioned blow and go routine, who wants to talk after sex and if I do I'll call you. There's a damn good reason why I leave my phone in the bathroom and I'll ring you once the spa is full of warm water and the bubbly is chilled on ice. I know, it's a bit silly to call you from the bathroom when the bed is right next door but bonus points for being a bit creative usually count, right? That's a yes although it doesn't always have to be on the pillow. They tend to sink in the spa and are a real mess to clean later.
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RHP User
13 years ago
when i go to bed its to sleep... cant stand listening to BLAB
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RHP User
13 years ago
During long sessions I love the recovery time in between rounds. Just lying there, legs intertwined, shifting weight around, chatting about nothing. While clearly I love the sound of my own voice, I really enjoy just listening, finding out interesting bits and pieces, bonding over pop culture, sex etc. We've already talked a lot leading up to the sex of course, but this is less guarded - and I love friendships that develop AFTER the initial attraction and bedroom play - kind of like an added bones, where friendship IS the benefit, and less confusing feelings.Good times.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We need to meet :) I have a feeling we would get along just GREAT :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
We are absolute rookies to all of this and I dont think that we could even contemplate going into a situation without getting to know people further in some form, I would find hard. I think the idea of the stranger on the street fantasy is great but to really enjoy and get the most out of it all surely you would want some sort of understanding of what your after and enjoy to get the most fulfillment from it all. In my personl life it comes from the build up, teasing, maybe a naughty text etc through the day in lead up to getting home but im talking about getting the "head in the game" surely the rest will come easier and be better, hotter and sexier for all the pre game? but we are rookies....
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RHP User
13 years ago
well the day im able to have a private convo with my she devil, is the day it "feels" private, so much isnt said in recent life for the very reason is that it simply isnt private, its really a sad state of affairs, you see i married yum yum, and her only, so if im to say what is truly deep in my heart, its done elsewhere, and seeing as though we dont get out much, what you see is what you get................ hugs and kisses my "friends" ...... XXXXXXXXXXXXX
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'neptune_drift'During long sessions I love the recovery time in between rounds. Just lying there, legs intertwined, shifting weight around, chatting about nothing. While clearly I love the sound of my own voice, I really enjoy just listening, finding out interesting bits and pieces, bonding over pop culture, sex etc. We've already talked a lot leading up to the sex of course, but this is less guarded - and I love friendships that develop AFTER the initial attraction and bedroom play - kind of like an added bones, where friendship IS the benefit, and less confusing feelings. Good times. Could have written this myself. Just less eloquently. And minus the bones part.
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Paradisepair
13 years ago
Roger that ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
is a must beforehand, especially when meeting new people! Learn a little about each other, see if we're compatible mentally before ripping his/her clothes off.... Then I agree, when a friendship develops I have a vested interest in their lives and how they are. But now i have a few RHP friends that I'm comfortable with, I'd love to turn up to play in heels, dress, favourite lipstick, sans lingerie and just walk through the door and be ravished... No polite 'how'd you do?', just a good, hard, bend me over the couch, pounding! And then afterwards id be more than happy to ask how their day has been ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'neptune_drift' During long sessions I love the recovery time in between rounds. Just lying there, legs intertwined, shifting weight around, chatting about nothing. While clearly I love the sound of my own voice, I really enjoy just listening, finding out interesting bits and pieces, bonding over pop culture, sex etc. We've already talked a lot leading up to the sex of course, but this is less guarded - and I love friendships that develop AFTER the initial attraction and bedroom play - kind of like an added bones, where friendship IS the benefit, and less confusing feelings.Good times. This is exactly the way I feel also - well said (big claps)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'neptune_drift' During long sessions I love the recovery time in between rounds. Just lying there, legs intertwined, shifting weight around, chatting about nothing. While clearly I love the sound of my own voice, I really enjoy just listening, finding out interesting bits and pieces, bonding over pop culture, sex etc. We've already talked a lot leading up to the sex of course, but this is less guarded - and I love friendships that develop AFTER the initial attraction and bedroom play - kind of like an added bones, where friendship IS the benefit, and less confusing feelings.Good times. I agree fully that shows respect for each other just not blow and go as one member put it. My current male FB doesnt like it if i want sex straight up, we love to laugh, chat and listen to music. Then we have awesome sex followed a shower together and followed up by more of the same. Our sessions last for 5 hours and thats what I call a great Fuck Buddy.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's been several years since I've been able to engage in sexual intercourse for more than two of those hours straight. Verbal intercourse has to enter into the proceedings at some point. Oh shit! I've just realised, at forty, I was engaged in a single sexual liason that went for seven hours. If there is a constant slide in my sexual capabilities, in another four years, I'll ONLY be able to talk about it. Fuck! I hope the decline is on a curve.
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