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people ignoring profile info
May 31 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
We ve had that a lot. :) I guess it happens' just take it as a compliment and carry on searching. You'll reach there sooner or later.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We have the same problem and know of many other couples finding this more and more! You spend the time writing in your profile, making clear what your looking for to not only be honest but to avoid any disappointment or mislead anyone, but it doesnt get read, or gets ignored, or you get the 'im special enough to change your mind' emails...gah.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I get more contacts by the male half wanting to get together with me, and when I suggest we wait until their woman is "not away" I never hear back from them...... I do make the odd contact to couples who are seeking couples does this make me a bad person, or just someone making a polite contact ? I do not ask to play with the lady only. Interested in your thoughts, glenn
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RHP User
15 years ago
Nothing on my profile says I'm interested in playing with couples but they still contact me. No big deal really.......you can either reply with a "No thanks" or delete, but a 1000 forums about people not reading or respecting profiles is not going to change anything so why worry about it. It can only bug you if you let it. btw..............I am not interested in couples :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Not couples or females. Many people think that because I am a dominatrix I am bisexual but I can assure you this is not the case. A simple "thanks but you aren't what I am looking for" message does the trick.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We get it all the time. We took a lot of time and effort to write our profile, and it can be annoying for us to get all the responses from single guys. At the beginning we tried our best to reply to everyone, but as we get so many messages now, we simply don't have the time, and just ignore single guys.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Misstress T.. bang on the Money not that hard is it ?
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm not sure why but maybe its because people always seem to want what they can't have--- thrill of the chase kind of thing... I have on my profile to not message me if your old enough to be my parents but that doesn't stop the 50+ year olds from messaging me! And I have a few guy friends on here that say "staight" in their profiles yet it doesn't stop the gay boys from messaging them. I guess yeah there is nothing you can do to stop it but just hit "block" staright away and it won't tend to annoy you as much :) x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well well hello there eve, its only because you are so hot and horny that all the guys want to play with you eve. YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT, and you know deep down inside that if i asked you to play alone with me mr cns you would,,, ok now that thats out. Eve its always going to happen we put that on our profile to and we still get hits from single guys not that i care if miss cns does but thats another story.so i might send you some flirts and see how i go hey lmao.. Big mwahhs eve xxxxxxx damn i did'nt make much sense did i ,,,, arrrr well. i know what i mean and thats all that counts.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We dont't get this either. We all know that not everyone reads a whole profile but what about when you go to send someone a flirt or message and the site comes up with 'but they are only looking for a woman' or 'you are out of the age limit' and you have to click 'send anyway' to keep going. They obviously ignore that page entirely and think' but I'm different'. We hate the friend requests from people we haven't even spoken to yet.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks everyone for all your thoughts. To cnsfelswat .... you are crazy but i love ya for it It's not so much that it's single guys doing this as some couples do as well, my point was more that it doesn't show much respect to put half of a couple on the spot & ask for single play. And i do realise it's not just couples being sought after by people outside their criteria. No major worry for me, was just curious how common it is. Cheers everyone
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RHP User
15 years ago
yep we are bombared with guys , of all shapes , sizes and ages . Wanting us to meet during the day ( no matte rthey we both work Mon to Fri, or guys away on business trips , or plainly obese guys etc . I reserve the right to choose whom I play with, plus I never play alone( though they still want me to meet them by themselves dispite what I tell them) , its an agreement I have with my hubby. Our profile ad says that we want the guy to have his own place , but it does not stop the flirts and messages , we have received well over 2000 now. We find that guys think you you can come out at a drop of a hat and never consider that it does take some planning to make a night to go out and play . Others we have met for drinks and coffee etc , and they have the expectation that they are going to get lucky , as I said I reserve the right to choose whom I play with , when we say goodbye ( we are never rude etc ) they get all upset as if it is a personal afront When we decline their invitation via messages on the site , some come back very abusive , and they get blocked . But yes some guys either need to get off the site or simply grow up and realise that 18 to 20 stone men are not everyones cup of tea M
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RHP User
15 years ago
Are these same single males a bit retarded? Because i dont understand how our profile would even appear in their search unless they said they were a female or a couple??? Maybe their possible retardation inhibits their use of the search tool and they mistakenly stumble across our profile 4 or 5 times??? We have even written NO SINGLE MALES!! at the top of our profile so you cant miss it but it hasnt helped........... (Mr) foreverlove
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well i guess it comes down to this... if you never ask the answer is a guaranteed no. So can't hurt to ask hey. I message females looking for men (not couples) if they're really cute and a few of them have given the response we were after so no harm in trying right.I don't get why people are so touchy feely on this website about who contacts them or this or that. Is it really that much of a big deal? if you get unwanted attention ignore it and block the person if it continues.
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Mr_MrsJones
15 years ago
I really don't know what all the fuss is about. The way people talk it is like their message box is full of "Please fuck me I think you are the most awseome chick on the planet" messages. We honestly DON'T get this kind of message more than once or twice a year. After reading the forums for a while I am beginning to get a complex and I am thinking that there is something wrong with us. PS I also don't get why people find it so hard to click "Sorry I don't see our planets colliding" but they are cool to come on and make a whole forum topic about it.
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
Yep same here!! It seems a lot of people just look at the profile pic and decide to write or flirt? People writing is fine but when they are all the things we are not looking for we don't get it? If they had read our profile and see the differences then they wouldn't bother messaging in the first place...just wasting their time. Can't figure them out???
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Mr_MrsJones' The way people talk it is like their message box is full of "Please fuck me I think you are the most awseome chick on the planet" messages. Damn, how come we've never received any of those! LOL (MRS)
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RHP User
15 years ago
we receive many messages and flirts each week..........unfortunately tho, theres a huge amount of guys who dont bother to read what we are seeking.......... but we deal with it and move on....... we have become accustomed to the pointless messages and nuisance flirts....its all part of the game......
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'foreverlove7985' Are these same single males a bit retarded? Because i dont understand how our profile would even appear in their search unless they said they were a female or a couple??? Maybe their possible retardation inhibits their use of the search tool and they mistakenly stumble across our profile 4 or 5 times??? We have even written NO SINGLE MALES!! at the top of our profile so you cant miss it but it hasnt helped........... (Mr) foreverlove Your hilarious, I always love replies from you guys......We are so over msg's from people who we stipulate we are not into in our profile. Our profile even says "No flirts, if you can't think of something to write yourself, don't bother" & yet we STILL get 5+ flirts a day, grrrrr, drives us INSANE.
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