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July 31 2010

hey guys its mr ncis69 just wanted to say that i am so sick and tired of time wasters on this site. seriously dont people have anything better to than stuff around with other peoples lives. i mean i have kids and a job and people will respond and then not show up. i mean dont people have anything better to do than sit on websites and mess with others lives. i mean seriously, whats the point of sending a message and then handing out your msn or phone number or worse arranging a time and date for people to meet up and then not showing up or responding to let you know they arent able to show up. even a message saying not interested would do. hence the reason why im out of the game now, the time wasters have absolutely ruined it for me. hence the reason why i will no longer be playing. my wife may still be interested in women or couples that is the reason why the profile will remain on this site. but it going to be some time before i will chat or respond personally to msn or messages cause im tired of been stuffed around. im sure many other people on this site are legitament and genuine but its the people who arent who have put off. i just dont see the point in messing with people. and i hope that my wife doesnt get messed around or having her time wasted by people who just like to stuff around. so in retrospect is it really worth sticking it out or am i just wasting my time on this site? and please do not stuff around my wife cause she is genuinly a nice person and is interested and pissing her off will only make her take the same course of action that i have. and i hope that doesnt happen. as we do both enjoy life and having fun doing so. just to finish up im not looking for sympathy but i do sympathise with other couples, men and single women that have been stuffed around. so if you are going to message my wife please do so with sincerity and maybe if she tells me thats it a good thing we can all play together but until such time should i just quit the game? mr ncis69. ps. this is in no intent to slander other couples or women who are geniune and who are still willing to meet up.. just the people who say they will and then dont.

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RHP User

15 years ago

wow... erm thanks for letting us know.

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RHP User

15 years ago

I totally understand your frustration with those on here who turn out to be not genuine, don't turn up, lie, cheat, steal and torture puppies (probably) but there are some genuine people here who can make it all worth it :-)There are definitely genuine people on here. You're one of them so you know you exist! Don't give up, the couple who are real are probably emailing you right now to say how much they agree with your post :)

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RHP User

15 years ago

mate this is how we feel all the time we have made arranges with a few females in the past that have never showed, only had one or two couple bail at the last minutes it every annyoing isn't it

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RHP User

15 years ago

yep, its all about the yummy factor...god, i lurve yummy x o x

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RHP User

15 years ago

agree with you there mrncis...when I used to actively meet people, on average 9 out of 10 didn't bother showing up, or canceled in the last minute and I never hear from them again.I can understand maybe if I was the one asking these people out, some people may feel pressured into saying yes. However it was not the case, it was always them doing the chasing and pressuring. Like a lot of people, it's not easy for me to meet anyone. My work hours are completely anti social, working nightshifts and the majority of weekends, and I also have a lot of dance commitments, rehearsals, training and performances sometimes interstate etc which pretty much takes up the rest of my free time. Hence the reason for me being on RHP. To meet people in my own time and not in my general circle.But oh man, the no shows shit me!!While I haven't quite given up on meeting anyone on here, it's however, low on my list of priorities on rhp. I love the forums and the people watching, that's what keeps me coming back, if I meet someone who ticks most of my boxes, bonus, but I won't go out of my way.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Capital has the right attitude here, this should only be a small part of a varied life so don't get too disheartened. We've labelled ourselves as time wasters in the past as our lives are very busy and our friends and family will always take precedent over a prospective play-friend. That said, if we organise a definite meet then we turn up. It's just completely rude not to. We only play infrequently and we like to meet couples we think we'll get on with so then when the urge hits we know who to call!!!!

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RHP User

15 years ago

But capital if i read right u sent a message to Leeroy Gibbs and recieved a auto reply back. But your like 14hr's drive sth or nth of them, if they can't get people to turn up from there own state, how would they expect yourself to keep your words. maybe i have misunderstood your post but aybe not. S n K

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RHP User

15 years ago

If you have no expectations....you get no disappointments.Lots of peeps that are full of shit in the world...not just in here.JMO...BJxxx

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RHP User

15 years ago

Quoting 'MissBJ' If you have no expectations....you get no disappointments.Lots of peeps that are full of shit in the world...not just in here.JMO...BJxxx as always BJ :)lilmiss x

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piercedfun

15 years ago

hey mate you will get people likethatevetywhere in the world you go if you go into chatrooms and chat to some of the regulars you will find those people will show up if arranged or better yet arrange to meet at ci and if they dont show up their loss and your gain

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