M38
older women
October 09 2008
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RHP User
17 years ago
yea right mate..............in my dreams.................the reality is we all want what we remember as younger folks.... I'm startin ta think Martha Stewart's lookin good..........................aww thats it Martha, yea, yeah,oh, ah, aw fuk thats it Martha flip that egg
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hiya Matt, My two cents worth.... I, myself prefer older guys... just a preference i guess. In saying that, it doesnt mean that i havent been with younger before :) And the sex with them has been fairly good too ;) its the bangin on my door pissed at 2am i dont like lol Good Luck :) Tiges
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RHP User
17 years ago
a couple of years ago I SWORE off younger guys (as in under 25 y.o etc), but very recently and much to my delight, my faith has been restored by a marvellous 21 y.o WOOOOHOOOOO. Hey, I'm not looking to get into a relationship with one that old (young), but lordy they'll do to pass the time.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I don't think it purposely works out that women go for younger or older men. It is different aspects that women look for. Most women look for what makes them feel happy and secure. Someone that they can have a laugh with and enjoy life. You may want to broaden your search and not be so specific in age, there is always someone out there for everyone.
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RHP User
17 years ago
i've met a few ladies my own age... LOL they rock!! but they thought i was imature.. --frowns-- LRE (the elder)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Right, I think the old brain cell has recovered enough from the last effort to take another workout... Older guy with younger girl, older girl with younger guy, “you’re only as old as the one you feel”, etc, etc. I think we get so hung up on a person’s age we forget the most important part – your own happiness. Most of my relationships have been with older women (I’m sure Freud would have something to say about that). I need the mental as well as physical stimulation in a relationship, and for whatever reason that seems to have been with older women. I’m not saying that I’m not attracted to younger women. I have met some amazing women in their teens and early twenties who had the brains to go with their obvious beauty. By the same token, I’ve met some people who should not have been allowed to leave high school (methinks I’m probably one of them!!). At the end of the day, we are all different, and our needs and desires are different and ever-changing. So in short, don’t get hung up on a person’s age, or the very thing you may be looking for may escape your grasp. Slinking back into the darkness to resuscitate his brain cell again... Shadows.
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RHP User
17 years ago
what is an appropriate age gap then? My last partner was 38, but where does one draw the line? 36, 32?
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RHP User
17 years ago
one should draw the line at what ever point works for you at the time! If you connect you connect, why deny yourself for the sake of a number on a birth certificate, simple as that. I will never understand why people get so hung up on numbers.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Age is just a number. I like the idea of a younger guy, my hubby is in fact younger than me, but only by a few months, does that count? My few encounters with younger men have been so so, but would not discount them altogether, they can't all be that bad surely. lol So many young guys get off on the thought of an older woman, the age difference becomes irrelevant once the guy is over 30. Mind you, if i was to have a younger man again, he would probably be late 20's to early 30's. LRE I would give you a go ;)
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RHP User
17 years ago
There was awhile I could not even find anyone near my age. I had a 23yo living with me only 1 1/2 years ago. In fact she was living with me for 3 years. Not a gf as such, more a friend with benefits, I never wanted her as a gf due to some of her not so good habits. But did have some good sex. So there was about 12 years diff there. This year though I have been with 3 women in early 30's and one late 20's. Must be a bad age because the ones my age seem to not want my age and the younger ones aren't interested in it either...can't win.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Ill leave the younger guys to other ladies in future. The last one I spoke to thought a wank was better than a shag in that it was over quicker and one could do more exciting things, like watch the news and sport. Poor dear deluded soul !!!
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RHP User
17 years ago
Being an older woman at the ripe old age of 38, i feel im able to add something to this. i think its a matter of connection, if you dont connect with someone it wont happen regardless of their age. I have 'connected' with guys as young as 20 and as old as 50! I have found young guys have less stamina, but want it more, older guys have more stamina, but want it less. There are good and bad in all age groups men and women. Keep looking Matt They are out there, some one will want you, Just gotta know where to look. Pity you didnt live in Vic ;)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Well when i was 'in the market' , with hubbys permission i never slept with any man over the age of 30.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Wikipedia tackle this subject under a listing titled "Age disparity in sexual relationships" where they define a mathematical formula to judge whether the age difference in an intimate relationship is socially acceptable. They call it the "Half-Your-Age-Plus-Seven" Rule. Mathematically speaking, the rule is: Age of Younger person >= (Age of Older person / 2) + 7 For example, if the lady is 45 then it is socially acceptable if her younger sexual partner's age is equal to or more than 29.5 years of age. But then these things are more likely to take place behind closed doors, so no one should be there to judge. Rule of thumb differences... Younger - Older 16.0 - 18.0 16.5 - 19.0 17.0 - 20.0 22.0 - 30.0 27.0 - 40.0 32.0 - 50.0 37.0 - 60.0 Here's how some noted Hollywood age differences compare.... Tony Randall and Heather Harlan (50 Years) Groucho Marx and Eden Hartford (40 Years) Woody Allen and Soon-Yi Previn (35 Years) Frank Sinatra and Mia Farrow (29 years) Humphrey Bogart and Lauren Bacall (25 years) Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones (25 years) Rod Stewart and Rachel Hunter (25 Years) Liz Taylor and Larry Fortensky (20 Years)
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RHP User
17 years ago
I really dont think age has a hell of a lot to do with anything unless of course your looking for an accessory. I have found that most women under say 30 are great to look at but cant string to words together, I did say most not all. I would think the reverse of that is, they want to go to clubs and listen to doof doof music and i couldnt think of anything more boring. So do what pleases you, the best thing about getting older is the pier pressure lessens and your care factor crystalises. PD
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RHP User
17 years ago
that's why i only shag and don't sleep :)
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RHP User
17 years ago
but they can probably spell better than I, lol. PD
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RHP User
17 years ago
We have a huge age gap, and get looks from people whenever we are out, be it shopping or clubbing. We are very much in love and have an amazing relationship. We have played with young cpls (under 30) and its fantastic to see how much the young woman enjoys what she is experiencing whereas I feel sometimes that I have been dudded as the young guy has no idea. Not all but some.We have also played with cpls my hubbys age and its great as the older guy really knows how to pleasure a woman. What is very disappointing is that cpls my age dont want to meet us as hubby is too old and cpls his age dont want to meet us as the female says that I am too young. Go figure !!!! It really sucks that so many people get caught up in the age thing. It's all about personality and attracttion for us......not someones age .
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RHP User
17 years ago
Bazzle, Im a lady i dont say words like fuk and shag lol
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RHP User
17 years ago
I have dated much younger men over the years....they are fun for a while. I hooked up with an older guy (53) last year and havent looked back...he's more mature (of course) but lots of fun and is better in bed than any other man i have ever known!!! As the saying goes....if you are on a good thing...stick to it....I am stuck like glue!!
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RHP User
17 years ago
Am I the only one that wants to know the name of Soubs' 21 yr old?? lol Matt, I've recently been with some younger guys for the first time ever ... both were 27, I'm 35. I'm drawn to the loveliness of young skin, young muscles ... mmmm. But I end up more worried about the un-loveliness of my older skin and ... uummm ... well ..... no muscles! I also found they were eager but not especially skilled ... tho I think an ongoing liaison would help that, and I'm under the impression that's why a lot of younger guys are drawn to older women anyway, because of the opportunity to 'learn'. You look cute, I'd probably give you a go lol, as long as you didn't mind wrinkles, stretch marks and flab :)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Matt, As an older guy on this site I can tell you straight up age has VERY little to do with what women are looking for. This is a site for hooking up, where the number of women is FAR outweighed by the number of guys... to the point of being ridiculous actually. It all comes down to what the women on here are looking for... if they're after nothing more than a friend with benefits (which most seem to be) then a guy around the same age, with the same interests will of course be more attractive. If they want more than that and are actually wise/mature enough to know what they actually want (and that goes for guys as well as girls) then age is not an issue. It's WHO you click with, not the year of their birth that counts. I have been with younger ladies as well as older. I found the younger ones, as a generalization, to be far more concerned with THEIR status by being seen with you, that anything you may have to offer out of the bedroom... ie, flash doof doof car, muscled sixpack and crappy looking gansta bling.. the older ladies, closer to my own age, knew that what was between the ears was a far more important aid to sexuality that what dangles between the legs. It's horses for courses mate.... what are you and they, desiring at this point in their lives? On a personal level I've found the mid thirties age group to be my cup of tea as far as the ladies go... I love the soft skin and attitude without the bullshit of bars, mobile phone obsession and crappy doof doof called music. Trust me when I say that childbirth does WONDERFUL things to a womans body if you are wise enough to realise that stretch marks, softer boobs and a more rounded tum actually MAKE a woman. But, it's your choice... at the time.... same for them ;)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Matt, "seems that alot of women are now in search or older guy rather than the younger guy" Hope your observations right, it might mean I may get a chance to experience some good loving again, lol (attraction/connection/desire/giving/receiving & the great sex part as well - have a read of Ravens profile, I like the way she puts it). Peoples opinions will depend on their level of maturity, unfortunately most dont have any or see the thing they dont/cant have and criticise someone else having it or worse restrict people from enjoying what they should. Our wants/needs & desires can be a complex thing, let alone mixing it up with the reality of where we are in life and what is available. Enjoy what you get and get what you enjoy.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hi everyone. I am a younger woman compared to my hubby, 10 years difference, and I find it exactly right. As for women, we swing with older women in threesomes, and I find that the experience and maturity of the "older" woman is so much more stimulating. I don't have a mother complex, just so you all know, I just think a woman of an older age group knows what she wants and how to enjoy love making, both with another woman and a man. And a lot of women in that 45+ age group are now looking to explore what they didn't have years earlier. But at the end of the day, we love women of all ages, so who cares what the age is, as long as they want to enjoy themselves with us.
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RHP User
17 years ago
im supprised someone hasn't mentioned that quote of "youth is wasted on the young" i agree with it more every year also id agree with everyone else who says its a matter of personal preference and that age is just a number... to date, my most succesful relationships have always been with an older woman, i dont aim for older or younger and i dont shy away from one of those groups either (although i do think people who were born post late 80's missed some pretty cool things, but i already wish i was born earlier a few decades earlier) think of it more in terms of life experience... as long as someone isn't using thier extra life experience to manipulate someone else... its all good so don't despair matt, you'll find one, or more to the pint, one will find you
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RHP User
17 years ago
I guess I've read enough,
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RHP User
17 years ago
I can not thank older women enough for the experiential and emotional sexual encounters i have had with them. OK, I'm an old bloke, but in my day I have had exceptional experiences with women older than myself and all I can say is that they are there with the same needs as a man,(probably more) mainly juggling family life, work life,social life,etc. As joh ,et al states,(correct me if i'm wrong) when you're young your rootin like rabbits, enjoying it and wondering when it's going to happen again! I have enjoyed and am still enjoying middle aged women. I love women who spray(have been with two) and would definitely like to meet more, I love it!!!! Those young girls are probably a bit nervous meeting middle aged men who look at them sideways! DISCLAIMER: Ignore the profile, I am a great bloke,really!?!
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RHP User
17 years ago
Wow what a read , older woman has been a topic i have been interested in for some time now , I have had a desire for older woman for a few years now { I still love younger though } the past year or so my desire for older woman has become stronger & stronger , but the thing is when I am fantasizing about a mature woman she is much older than what you guys are talking about , I'm talking 50 , 60 or more , a pic of a mature woman with grey pubic hair turns me on so much , I have never had the pleasure of a greying pussy & have never spoken of it , fear of people not understanding & thinking that I have some sort of problem ????? any positive feed back & advise on how to approach a mature woman with out making an absolute ass of myself would be Gr8 ... Ben...
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RHP User
17 years ago
I have been on here for a couple of years now and have met most only met guys that were around my age or in my age range. Then last year I met a younger guy of 20, we were seeing each other every fortnight or month for a while then it got a bit more serious. Then things changed and then well people started talking and judging us to much and it ended. I was called a cradle snatcher and all, people kept telling me that he isnt mature enough for me blah blah, then even though some of those people wont admit it, they wished they could have someone like him as well. Age doesn't make a relationship nor do the people around you. No matter what the age difference i you like each other enough and get along great what does it matter? Take a look in the dictionary for the meaning of 'Mate' and it won't mention age i bet.
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RHP User
17 years ago
When I became single again I had a rule for dating younger guys. ie Must be 10 years older than my eldest son. Now I have a wonderful partner who is 6 years younger than me & I couldn`t be happier. I still like to play here tho...lol Old habits are hard to break!!!
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RHP User
17 years ago
I dont think that "searching" for a particular type or age of guy was forefront of my mind after my separation. It took me a good 12 months before I even felt like getting back into the social scene and I've got to admit that most of my dates or relationships since then have been with younger guys. I've been told that they like to treat women like women and enjoy us "oldies" being comfortable in our own skin. I think that if there is honesty and a natural connection there and it feels right then it cant really be wrong. I'm having a great time! Cheers, Rosie
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RHP User
17 years ago
Younger men have always been my weakness and I make no bones about it. Why? Generally speaking (obviously this is not true for all) they come with very little baggage, are more enthusiastic about life, have great bodies, are experiemental and keen to learn more, appreciate a woman who is confident in her body, less judgemental, wear funkier clothes and take greater care with their appearance. Does all this make me shallow? Yup, it probably does but I do not care one jot. I have had the pleasure of meeting up with many younger guys over the years (yes, even as young as 18) and have always had a blast. Call me Mrs Robinson or what you will, but young men over gents my age and over will usually always be my preference. Ruby xxx
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RHP User
17 years ago
That Sydney women aren't mentioned here. I keep telling people that I'm single because I cannot find anything good about Sydney women. Some may look good, but their issues!!!!!.... I've been out with a few girls raised in NSW country areas, and they seem 1000 times nicer/better than Sydney-raised women. I'd agree with you others as well about WA & QLD women too, I've met and hung out with both, and both are way better than the rubbish I have here. Melbourne women seem nice and relaxed, but similar to Sydney women in a way. Has anyone ever been out with a woman from Darwin?....I gather they'd be similar to Perth women?.... Anyway, my 2c worth, watch my stocks with the Sydney women plummet even further (as if they couldn't go any lower? haha)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Young males or females around our childrens' ages and younger always scare us because it maybe one of their friends. Very scarry - wouldn't know how to react. Really cheesed off when after all these years coming across a couple we knew from children's friends parents. Why have we wasted all these years getting together. Even some a little older than our kids are very wham bam and off to party. How deflating. Folks whose kids have grown up and left home are all so friendly, interactive, friendly, playful, ready for morning back-ups (so wonderful) and breaky before heading onward. These special friends have dessert and drinks at interval and recover for special greatness that many younger cannot appreciate or participate. Experience with folks our kids ages and younger, both female and male very rarely perform to the level that they skite they can achieve. thanks
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RHP User
16 years ago
older women shit on the younger ones but are so hard to find.they are easier to get along with and are more honest and just say whats on there mind and the sex is heaps better and more fun.hope i find another one soon.hehe.
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