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ok iv got a weird one
April 04 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Is a great resource. Human sexuality is a malleable entity with many poor souls spending way too much time wondering why they are the way they are. Maybe he is just sick of cock and needs a sea change..I can understand that...cant you? Ok....thats a big NO from me too..lol Local sexual health clinics are also a great source of info and counselling is available under the better outcomes for mental health initiative. Hope he sorts it all out soon! xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
he has never wondered...i think thats why he is soooo confused he has just always been homosexual....no confusion at all so you think he needs a sexual health clinic....thanks myname xx roxxy xxx...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Umahh..Im so crude lately..lol Yeah, I totally get where your mate is coming from. We're such a conditioned mob....just lerve to pidgeon hole ourselves..but yeah, there are ample resources out there for him to get some answers. GP's are the means of referral to counselling under the scheme I mentioned previously however the G & L help line will be able to direct him to local support services once he provides specific details as to what he is seeking. Sexual health clinics are also a great one stop shop for referral advice too. xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't think anyones sexuality changes but we should all explore it more thoroughly. I don't know your friend from Adam, but I can only guess he's overwhelmingly disraught my someone and has decided he's sick of guys. Unfortunately we don't get to choose our sexuality... but why can't a gay guy get turned on by hetero sex? There's nothing wrong with that. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Last night i was out with some friends and i met a guy (friend of a friend) who at 30 has now decided he is no longer gay but is/wants to be straight. The conversation centred around the fact that he was finding it difficult meeting and chatting up girls because he had never been in that sitauation before and picking up gay men is infinitely easier than meeting women, especially if you are after a long term relationship. Once he had left, there was some debate amongst my friends about whether he was a straight guy, a gay guy, a big guy, a straight gay guy or gay straight guy ;-) - it made for some interesting conversation. Personally I think it's just dawned on him that he really wants to have kids/family and that to do that the easiest way is to try to conform to straight life. He must have straight tendencies for sure because a fully gay guy just couldn't fathom living without cock, and I'm sure he loves women and is attracted to them in some way otherwise he wouldn't be contemplating relationships with women. My best guess is a bi guy who has reached a time where he feels compelled to lead a straight life.....for now anyway. ;-) Cheers Shiny
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RHP User
16 years ago
Here's hoping that people actually change sides. In real life I'm totally smitten by a lesbian chick. I have never hit on her but sometimes our eyes meet and I see something there. I don't know what though. Fab
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RHP User
16 years ago
shiny...that must have been one hell of a conversation you all had lol...but i think thats why he is so confused...he has never ever wanted pussy, he has never wanted a family...kids gross him out hahaha....he is a male gay whore and thats being nice lol thanks stalky he is overwhelmingly disraught ....at the beginning of the year he broke up with his boyfriend of 6 months, but he seems to be over that, but it is something for him to think about....but does that mean if im heartbroken, il wake up and want pussy????....god i hope not...lol good luck Fab...you never know what will happen in the future, but dont hold your breath babe lol roxxy xxx...of to send the princess to sexual counciling
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Roxxy He will find his way , be there be fair !
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RHP User
16 years ago
its a bit disturbing watching a confused gay man watching pussy porn the mind boggles with the world we live in roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I had a gay friend go through the same thing and he found his way in the end with love and support from his friends. It took some time but he got there and is now happy as a bi guy. You just have to let him find out for himself.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Why is he's so worried about what it means? Perhaps he's just never considered that bisexuality could be in his make-up because he's always been so happily gay and the break up has triggered a dormant urge :) Over thinking, or obsessing over what it may or not mean could become a bigger issue.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde' I suggest you consult the wisdom of Seinfeld Re: Changing Teams, on the off chance you're not kidding, I would suggest you let him go down on you, but I'd be pretty sure its only a temporary thing. He'll go back to the dick sooner or later, I mean at the end of the day, an ass is an ass but still, give the poor bastard some breathing room. I mean surely he has a right to change his mind? I mean I've never heard of giving a queer, straight-lessons but who knows, might be a damn good business opportunity there. I'd suggest the poor bastard gets a cat scan MRI then he can reassess the chemicals in his brain. If symptoms persist see your doctor... if you see a rash, discontinue use immediately... nick hun...are you saying going down on me will send a man gay???? roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Domina...thank you, so maybe this happens a fair bit then im glad your friend worked it out...it must have been hard i know it is for my friend XS..you are right he has never considered being bi...he has always been a cock man pussy has never (well never use too) turn him on... he thinks boobs are the ugliest things in the world haha roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
that i'm 100% lesbian...yeah, i know it sucks, but hey!...i'm cool with it...lol...now i think we should get the naming rights out of the way to start with...your friend is clearly bi-sexual...just hasn't had any desire to explore the pussy side of him...and now he does...so what?...good luck to him i say...give him all the tips he needs to meet someone...maybe you need to be his chaperone....or maybe he can practice his pick-up technique on you...hell...maybe he can pick up a bi-sexual man for you...and you a chick for him...well...just an idea...not a bad one i don;t think...yep...a damn good idea i reckon...cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
until i realised....even though your 100% lesbian, thats cool cause i have a pussy... what a relief ......see we are still the perfect couple lol...(in my eyes anyway) i hear what your saying about him being bi...by the look of it he must be...something has awoken in him a desire for pussy and thats where im confused ...do you suddenly wake up and want different to what you have always wanted????...pussy does nothing to turn me on, but is it posible i could start to crave it???? thank you all for the help roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
let me assure you...i will NEVER wake up craving cock...*damn fonts...wish they would go larger*and if i do...i will know for sure that i am dead...and buried in hell...lol...cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
i see ya got a pic up...cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have never felt any confusion over my sexuality. I have always known I was straight.... Many gays have tried hitting on me over the years and some of them are very direct with what they want...they just wanted to use me! Rox I am using you like this guy? Perhaps a little more than you let on ? So in my view, I think if there is any confusion it will work its way out but I think once you have been to both sides the other side is never far away. If you can deal emotionally with it I wish you good luck. Most of us here hide our feelings, fear of being hurt is paramount in our thinking, the wall is up, hey its just sex we say, but when its over and you are alone with your thoughts what do you really have? So what do we do ? We start to rationalise it all, and in this case perhaps you are thinking to yourself thats it, he is straight now, maybe I can have him ? However in the back of your mind doubt will always exist. Just ask yourself is it fun that you want, or something more ? I think we all know the answer.
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RHP User
16 years ago
i gave up waiting for you to come some sexy shots so as always i done it myself roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
This is something only he can sort out ..but the fact he has friends he can turn to for help ..will help him to work his way through things...roxxy all you can do is be there. Quoting roxxy "nick hun...are you saying going down on me will send a man gay????" I don't think so roxxy ...but if you need a guinea pig ...pick me..pick me lmao at comeandgetme68........ did you say Never?? Quoting roxxy again "does that mean if im heartbroken, il wake up and want pussy????...." and ' is it posible i could start to crave it????' roxxy ...is there something you're not telling us....are you worried about something????...lol
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