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ok a hard one
April 06 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
i guess on the previous friendship etc and what the circumstances are what risk is it to you and how would that affect your current situation????? cheers
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RHP User
15 years ago
but this was definately not aimed at me right???? / Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am just unsure how marrying someone will save their life.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Okay my Tassie friend if i were to marry such an old friend would it ruin mine ? and if it does can i blame you and then maybe you will have to marry me to save mine !! lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Taipan12'Okay my Tassie friend if i were to marry such an old friend would it ruin mine ? and if it does can i blame you and then maybe you will have to marry me to save mine !! lol Can you say that a little slower please???? Dont think I quite got it...going round and round and round in circles..... . Kisses Focus hates early mornings but loves the reasons behind them
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RHP User
15 years ago
Not wife ..!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
An old friend? Maybe. It would depend on the circumstances. Not to mention inheritances, divorce fees..etc. Hmmmm.....that "maybe" is getting shakier by the minute.
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RHP User
15 years ago
depends i guess but Yeah why not .. dont have to live with them, and divorce is simple these days
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RHP User
15 years ago
To save someone's life yes I would. I agree with Wowwow. Can we get married in Vegas though? xxMeeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
ok, say if you had health insurance, they didnt, but they need an operation that they cant afford would you marry them to save them??? yes i know its soooo american but hell why not....and if you wish to hijack, go ahead lol roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
sure.. there is nothing wrong with engine as lub on the right girl But seriously Cream Buns that is just taking the piss. but yes i would do that
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RHP User
15 years ago
No. Defacto works just fine for me thank you and it is the same as marriage...in the eyes of the law.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee'No. Defacto works just fine for me thank you and it is the same as marriage...in the eyes of the law. I dont think Roxxy seriosuly aimed this one at us...lol...that girl knows us way too welll......hahahahahahahaha.... . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
No... I probably wouldn't marry her (I mean to say... that's against the law anyway on account of the fact that I am already married)... but I suppose, if push came to shove, I'd root her senseless to save her life... being teh very caring person that I am.... So Roxxy... does that count.. or am I still a M.M. (that's mere male... remember women's day or whatever.. I mean those magazines, edited by women, for women, did more damage to women's lib than any man ever could. :pHugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Greys anatomy ????? with the program now.......was beginning to think you had been staring at the sun too much....lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Is ok to draw up a quick pre-nupt and get a solicitor to sign it off? Or if they're drowning I could throw a pen and paper first? . Yeah I'd do it to save a life but the'd have to put-out and have their bridal registry organised, and flowers.... . If they're dying from syphallytic-gangrenitis or leprosy, the deal's off.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Missb i was going to say Greys this week...but being Tassie i wasnt sure if the mainland had it this week or if we were years behind and no one would have a clue hahaha but yeah Greys is what has made me think of it lol . Fionabee and Focus...yeah i know you both way too well, i had a feeling what you would both say hahaha , Taipan whenever your ready hun...my dress is hanging in the wardrobe waiting for just the day you turn up on my doorstep lol . roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Krissy thats a hard one hun...good luck with it though and be very careful xx . so wowwow you going to cover her in cream and lube her up with engine oil before you walk her down the isle or will you wait for the honeymoon for that??? . yes you are a M.M Stalky and we wouldnt have you any other way lol...i love mere male some men are just dumbarses, you cant deny that lol . roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose' Krissy thats a hard one hun...good luck with it though and be very careful xx . so wowwow you going to cover her in cream and lube her up with engine oil before you walk her down the isle or will you wait for the honeymoon for that??? . yes you are a M.M Stalky and we wouldnt have you any other way lol...i love mere male some men are just dumbarses, you cant deny that lol . roxxy I am going to have to stop reading your posts, until i recover hahahahahahhaahaha
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RHP User
15 years ago
Marriage is just a piece of legal paper. If it was going to save someones life, why would you even think twice (and I know I'm simplifying what would, in resality, be a complex decision for the sake of thise discussion). It's not a marriage certificate that makes a relationship anyway.....it's the two people involved. Two people living in a loving defacto relationship are just as committed and entitled as anyone with a stupid bit of paper.Turning the question around, you could also ask - would you let someone die by not signing a document that could save them.
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RHP User
15 years ago
There's a lot I would do, but marrying someone? No.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't see in what situation in real life that could actually occur. Though I've long suspected my cock and general presence both had mystical healing powers.One real life situation I guess could be someone being neurotically emotionally blackmailing, "If you don't marry me I'll kill myself." Again, something that could be out of the sometimes unhealthy Middle Ages romances. In that case, no, I would not marry them. I'd encourage them to get the psychiatric help they needed and then get far away from them.
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RHP User
15 years ago
well now i know its from a T.V show Fuck no the fucker can die makes for better t.v and God Knows that show needs all the help it can get
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RHP User
15 years ago
"marry me or il kill myself"...id hand them the gun but if i could help someone just by marrying them...then yeah id think about it...like Andraxx said, its just a peice of paper roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
but only if it was someone I cared for
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose' "marry me or il kill myself"...id hand them the gun but if i could help someone just by marrying them...then yeah id think about it...like Andraxx said, its just a peice of paper roxxy Just a piece of paper? I am outraged!!!!! Now we all know that marriage is not just a piece of paper. It is serious stuff. It is not be be entered into lightly for any other reason except "because you can". Nope, forget all the shit about happy ever after, soul mates, love and committment. People get married because they can. sorry Roxxy...I just could not resist...the devil made me do it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
i dont mind...im in a better frame of mind this time round lol so say whatever you have to say Fionabee but to me you dont need to be married to have love and commitment...that to me should have been there to begin with so probably the only way id get that piece of paper again was if it saved someone elses life roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
to marry someone for citizenship....for health insurance...or for any reason like that is fraud...and you can be charged as such.So no...I wouldnt do it.JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Krissy I know where you are coming from...I knew a lovely gentleman on the Gold Coast in a similar situation...I was offerred a substantial amount of money to undertake this venture...with papers to be drawn up by a solicitor (including divorce dates etc) but still I couldnt do it....hmmmm...maybe I have been conditioned in earlier life...nnow I wonder who by???? . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'TassieRose' "marry me or il kill myself"...id hand them the gun but if i could help someone just by marrying them...then yeah id think about it...like Andraxx said, its just a peice of paper roxxy Just a piece of paper? I am outraged!!!!! Now we all know that marriage is not just a piece of paper. It is serious stuff. It is not be be entered into lightly for any other reason except "because you can". Nope, forget all the shit about happy ever after, soul mates, love and committment. People get married because they can. sorry Roxxy...I just could not resist...the devil made me do it. I'd agree that entering into mariage for love is a totally serious event and should be treated as such. But you're talking about the act of love and marriage. The marriage certificate is just a representation. I've been married and been in a long term defacto relationship and I was more in love with my defacto than I ever was with my ex wife. I never took my defacto relationship or the decision to live together and merge families as anything but serious....more so than when I actually got married the first time to be honest.As I said, this is simplified for the sake of this discussion - but if I was single and simply signing a marriage certificate could save someones life - why wouldn't I do it? I'd be assuming this wasn't a stranger and was someone that you actually knew of course. But in it's simplest terms, for me, this would be a easy decision.To each their own though - some people have religous of other reasons that I'm sure would compell them to disagree - and that's ok :-)xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Absolutely it is an interesting situation...but that complication isnt worth it....what happens if you find the person who really does accept you and wants to be with you forever...what if they ant to start planning your lives together...you need to be seperated for a year before you can become divorced - thats along time to put your life on hold..... . Noone can tell you what to do here hun only you can make the decision...just make sure it is well thought out and remember what MissBJ has said - it is fraud... . Kissses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Marry an Irishman with a gorgeous accent so we both have dual citizenship. . . . hell yeah! Marry someone to stop them being deported . . . . .well if I liked them as a human being and I had no other major commitments relationship wise at the time possibly.Can't really see any other way I could help someone out by marrying them . . . . .WILDly helptful
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RHP User
15 years ago
anti gay marriage does suck I have a couple of family members who are gay (and I am bisexual) but the gay members of family who are in committed relationships cant marry their partners and they really dont share the same rights as hetero relationships....but for my family that wouldnt matter no way would we stand in the way of my cousins partner exercising her right has my cousins life partner (and anyone who did would have to contend with me) . But back to question.....if you answer most fo the questions on ana exam without assistance but look at anothers for the answer to just one have you still cheated??? of course you have...even if you attend all those couselling seesions you arent entering into a life long committment from the get go (ok so many marriages end in divorce but they dont start off with the idea that in a year we will seperate then in 12 months after that we will divorce they do start off with the idea of being together forever) but as a means to obtain citizenship - sorry hun but because of that you are still conducting fraud . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
I would rather die then marry someone like her !
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RHP User
15 years ago
About the gay marriage stuff. Had one in Hobart last week. Equality for all regardless of sexual preference I say. Meanwhile, anyone know an Irishman who wants dual citizenship
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RHP User
15 years ago
I mean it depends on the situation; Say a massive metorite was heading towards earth and the space shuttles were only going to save people with my surname,.................NO! im not sitting in a small tin can with two wifes bitching at me !! They say;'' in space noone can hear you scream.''.....bullshit
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MissBJ'to marry someone for citizenship....for health insurance...or for any reason like that is fraud...and you can be charged as such.So no...I wouldnt do it.JMO...BJxxx I'm with you BJ... It's illegal and I've been burnt three times already sending money, bread and potatoes to my hot russian brides 'to be'. And got nothing in return... well certainly not a bride, they just seem to disappear. Talk about rejection sucking!! And costing!! . Besides, who wants to marry someone who needs an operation.... I mean there's the hospital visits (parking can be a real killer at the Alfred), the flowers and cards you have to send... And then there's the after-hospital care they'd expect. Marriage is more serious than buying a used car, most people have a pre-purchase inspection done on a car so everything is mechanically in order... I'd argue that's a good idea pre-marriage too.. you don't want her conking out around the corner..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Andraxx' Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'TassieRose' "marry me or il kill myself"...id hand them the gun but if i could help someone just by marrying them...then yeah id think about it...like Andraxx said, its just a peice of paper roxxy Just a piece of paper? I am outraged!!!!! Now we all know that marriage is not just a piece of paper. It is serious stuff. It is not be be entered into lightly for any other reason except "because you can". Nope, forget all the shit about happy ever after, soul mates, love and committment. People get married because they can. sorry Roxxy...I just could not resist...the devil made me do it. I'd agree that entering into mariage for love is a totally serious event and should be treated as such. But you're talking about the act of love and marriage. The marriage certificate is just a representation. I've been married and been in a long term defacto relationship and I was more in love with my defacto than I ever was with my ex wife. I never took my defacto relationship or the decision to live together and merge families as anything but serious....more so than when I actually got married the first time to be honest.As I said, this is simplified for the sake of this discussion - but if I was single and simply signing a marriage certificate could save someones life - why wouldn't I do it? I'd be assuming this wasn't a stranger and was someone that you actually knew of course. But in it's simplest terms, for me, this would be a easy decision.To each their own though - some people have religous of other reasons that I'm sure would compell them to disagree - and that's ok :-)xx A few months back I asked for the reason behind marriage. Not exactly why people got married but the reason behind the institue of marriage. Many raved on about the day and the dress and the most conclusive logic was that they got married because they could. The whole topic got rather heated and eventually was closed. Many on here have not forgotten and took it all a touch too personally as it seems that they are still bearing a grudge....mainly the couples. Personally, I can not see any reason for marriage, the institute I mean and Roxxy is well aware of this. Oh I get why people do it......emotionally.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'SORENTOSEXY'I mean it depends on the situation; Say a massive metorite was heading towards earth and the space shuttles were only going to save people with my surname,.................NO! im not sitting in a small tin can with two wifes bitching at me !! They say;'' in space noone can hear you scream.''.....bullshit Funny
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MASONSTORM' I would rather die then marry someone like her ! That gorgeous little foreign girl with blonde hair, a fetish for pleasing her man...in every which way? The one who doesnt speak english but wears a gold cross around her neck?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MASONSTORM' I would rather die then marry someone like her ! someone like who sweet thing????....you can quote if you want, you just click on reply to quote...then we will all know who and what your talking about thats if you have the balls anyway churchboy roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'SORENTOSEXY'I mean it depends on the situation; Say a massive metorite was heading towards earth and the space shuttles were only going to save people with my surname,.................NO! im not sitting in a small tin can with two wifes bitching at me !! They say;'' in space noone can hear you scream.''.....bullshit hahahaha too funny roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MASONSTORM' I would rather die then marry someone like her ! I don't know if dead people can get married.... Be a bit like Weekend at Bernies.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Whats your gut feelings tell you? whats the main words and doughts that keep jumping into your head? Istincts works in the animal kingdom just fine , unfortuately us humans dont use ours enough ! How many times have you heard people say.... i should of listened to my gut feelings! Marriage to me is someone you want to spend the rest of your life with grow old together and lots of laughs like your soul mate ! Been there done that ! And now my soul mate is me and myself for now, and i'm loving it !!! Just ask him him him Lifes perfect when you are HAPPY ! We cant be everyones Angel and take on their troubles, as cold as this sounds but its your life Tassie XOXO If hes not my soul mate then the answer would be NO !
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RHP User
15 years ago
Girl Interupted type of question - not to mention last week Grey's Anatomy TV show episode.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I wouldnt marry anyone for ANY reason ......Marriage has no useful purpose
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'readhead'Girl Interupted type of question - not to mention last week Grey's Anatomy TV show episode. yep and like has aready been said...it came from last weeks Greys...so ya gunna answer the question, or not??? roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
In reality human beings are far more complex and difficult product to accommodate socially than is the traditional and socially convenient construct. Yes I have read the other answers but I couldn't help not to think of what I said above. People have certain inherent drives that are not within their ability to control , so you will find that mostly they'll say things and ask questions that will project a certain image which might not reflect the reality ( myself included). I know that my answer will raise fundamental issues with your readers but to really answer to your question I will quote Richard Tarnas and his book called "The Passion of the Western Mind" where you can find a very interesting ideas about the relations between individual and common good. If I had to marry a friend or even a stranger in order to save his life, I'll do it. The leitmotif here is "saving someone's life", so I guess what I am saying here is that the level of social or material inconvenience that this action might create in one's life is by large incomparable with the "value" of a LIFE. Hope my answer made you happy - roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
marry someone to save their life? what the? not a chance either of us could marry anyone for any reason other than love.
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