ohh crappp!!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  personally if this was me id be asking myself a few questions 1..are you prepared to find another job?? ok there was only one question hahaha if this was me...id wait for him to make the moves so then you know for sure he is interested but even if he does make that move think about it before you go there...your the one that will loose your livelyhood if it all goes badly good luck with it xx roxxy

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  How would it be if you got together and then everthing fell apart? Would you still be employed? Or want to be? So how do you break the ice? Why not casually suggest he join you for coffee or lunch or offer to make him a cuppa.Or find out what his main interest is and google/research it. Asking about a guys fave topic is always good. Keep it light and casual and take it slowly. A polite no is not always a personal rejection. If he likes you he should get the hint. Good luck.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Let him make the first move so you can scream sexual harrassment if it all goes pear shaped.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Do not for a second take Fiona's advice at all. That is just cynical and the words of a real man hater that cannot let the past hurts go!! Fancy it even coming into your head to have someone charged for something they didn't do...that is just a horrible action and even worse as a thought! Giggly hun we all get hurt in our life, but how we live the rest of it is up to us! I see you as a wonderful, loving, caring woman that can take alot that life throws at you...you are the type of person to get thrown down in the mud...wait till it dries and then gets up and dusts it off! Stay that way! Never lose who you are. There are "victims" in life that want to stay that way and there are "survivors", who look at the present and not dwell on the past! Be a survivor hun....always! As for the guy at work, that is a hard one as I don't see how you both interact. Having a crush is wonderful and I still have crushes at 49 and love it! My only suggestion is to stay friends with him, if he invites you for a coffee or for dinner then say yes. You never know if it will work out or it won't! If it gets to the stage of you going out, then just take one day at a time...don't think the worse and don't go into anything with a negative attitude! As Forrest Gump said "Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get"! I wish you the best with this crush hun. You are beautiful...inside and out! xFunlovingx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Does the son work for the business?If not this is pretty straight forward to me... ask him out for a drink outside of work...His dad being the boss is really not an issue here and he should be rational enough to see that himself.If this went all horribly wrong and both of you didnt end up getting on (you and his son) then so what... it shouldnt affect the business... the business is not related or impacted niether should your personal output at work be.I've managed teams before and seen people get together and then split within the team and the only time I cared at all is if it starts to clearly affect the ability of those people to do the work I was paying them to do... if not... no problem.Just be mature about it and there will be no problem at all and you could have a great time with him.LS

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  you guys have such great advice.. hehe but I think your all right.. I'm going to have to wait this one out.. he is my boss too.. the busniess is run as a father son team.. and I dont want to upset anyone.. *giggles* oh well what will be will be.. lets just hope he makes the first move lol

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