no means yes and get lost means take me im yours

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  No does mean No however it depends on the delivery. I have know a girl where no meant not yet but if you keep working at it... which i did and yes she did say yes...I know this because we talked about it after we got all hot a bothered. But one occasion there is a No which is the full stop at the end of the sentence. But that doesn't mean that it's a nasty No it's just a firm No.

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  Letsgetcrazy09

  14 years ago

  Oh littlered   For a minute there I thought you had rolled in hundreds'n'thousands and were in need of having them removed....then I looked at your profile and saw it was only glitter ...hehehe   It could be the way in which the NO has been given, but generally a no means no and a get lost is just what it infers....well for me anyway......that being said there are those that are very persistent.   Cheers Lets

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  if a girl says, 'no' to me, i assume she must have misheard/misread the question. just joking. . sometimes no does mean yes. for example, if someone asked me if i was wearing my sisters underwear last weekend, my answer of no would in fact mean yes. not just joking.

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  QLDtwo4fun

  14 years ago

  No means no. It one of the basic rules of swinging. And of good sex.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  No can mean a definite maybe, any real estate or sales person will tell you that. Its when its taken in context and how its delivered   No is a complete sentence if its said in a firm tone with no room for doubt, followed by facial expression , body language as in you walk away or slap a persons hands off your body.   On the internet we only have written and picture cues And they are conflicted   i.e. I have a sexy picture of me, partly naked or naked etc. That would indicate ,with social norms and signals I was hot to trot all the time. So its a mixed message, yes we are on a sex site and guess what we can say no thanks ,   Yet in fact we advertise the goodies, we just vet the people we want to hand over those goodies too. Online persistence can work on the odd occasion where the person is a good writer, with some skill in either making a person interested or making them laugh, the latter appeals to me.   Yes we all get talked into things or just change our minds, it can work the other way when we say yes And then a face picture is sent and the attraction dies instantly, not because the person is an ugly fucker, (well yes sometimes) , but mostly because the attraction is not there   That is why its best for men to offer up a face picture FIRST. Its just depends on where the communication takes place. The best thing to do is just say no thanks the once, and do not engage again. The art of seduction is getting a person to change their mind about wanting to have sex. Ask Casanova :)

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I always try to be polite and thank anyone who messages me. In the few short weeks I have been on this site I have     received three incredibly rude responses to my no thank you...one man was so abusive I reported him.   The next day he sent me an apology explaining that alcohol had been invloved and his abuse was apparently meant for another   poor woman.   I have been on other sites for a couple of years and never experienced this kind of rudeness.   I dont have any naked pics,my profile pic is a flowerso there is no visual advertising as such   flower fetish that I am not aware of>,my written profile is fairly to the point so I find this sort of reaction a little puzzling.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  If it's said with a smirk, no matter what the words, I hear it as 'take me I'm yours'. And that's regardless of whether it's the checkout girl, policewoman or parole officer saying it. . While it doesn't actually take very long to work out if someone is attractive or not (I think it takes me 8 milliseconds and I can do it from about 600m), you need to make the delivery look like you've out some thought into it. For example review these examples. . Let's say you're out in a Northbridge bar and haven't been mugged or accosted indecently yet... a guy wearing low-hanging jeans and a peach coloured polo with the collar folded up makes eye contact and your brain goes 'nup - loser'. He comes over and pulls out his favourite "Is heaven missing an angel?" line. In an effort to make sure that he gets the hint asap you say 'NO" before he manage to get as far as 'Is heav.....?" To that guy, you have just made a terrible hasty mistake and just need some more help to correct it... He'll be spending the rest of the night trying to crack onto you because a) You spoke to him b) He's trying to help you overcome your mistake. . If you want to be heard: Step back and look him up and down - you need to do this long enough to actually feel uncomfortable yourself, and then wait about 5 more seconds. Then make a gesture like he has something hanging out of his nose and say "No thanks". He won't be bothering you again.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  apparently means I'm just playing games and I want you so bad I just need to admit it to myself.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I let it stand at that but will revisit the suggestion some time later to see if they've changed their minds. ....It could happen.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  No, dont stop! It all depends on the delivery.... . . I love it when a guy plays hard to get.....

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  In the vanilla world no means no. In the BDSM world the only word that means no is the safe word.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I don't know the safe word! (sob) I'm a gonna....

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Quoting 'Letsgetcrazy09' Oh littlered   For a minute there I thought you had rolled in hundreds'n'thousands and were in need of having them removed....then I looked at your profile and saw it was only glitter ...hehehe       hahhahah it was glitter sequins, althought he ther day i did have some fun with sprinkles, ive just got to resize the pics before i pu them up

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