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no is no isnt it?
January 06 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Maybe they think they can wear you down...I know we all have that problem Mikeandshel..I do the three strikes thing..I tell you twice that I am not interested and on a thrid attempt I block...however before using that option on the second warning I do tell them if they persist I will block them...some people just cant take a hint Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
if i say no and i get nice persistance then il say no again and if i get another letter asking i will have a go and tell them where to go but if i get a nasty letter after saying no...then they cop nasty back its the morons like that that need to be played with...its so much fun and it serves them right roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mike and Shel, I had a friend of mine who used to go out for the night and ask women do you want to come home for a coffee and a root. He would repeated ask that question and by the end of the night he would forget who he had asked and end up asking again. I have to say his line did actually work every now and again. | | The guys who send repeat flirts/messages probably forget (albeit there is a record in your profile) they have sent you a message before. Working on the principal that if you ask enough times eventually you will get a root...the reality is they end up burning bridges. | | the quantity approach to asking doesn't work for me at all...meaning it is not the way i would approach things. | | Just my Humble opinion :) LC
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think you only need to be polite on the first NO. Second no is a bit iffy, if they came back with a good natured response i'd be polite again or in some cases that response has made me reconsider and led to good meetings. However if they came back with vitriol or just keep sending the same first message over and over i'm not going to bother responding. KA-BLOCK!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Again and again and again ad infinitum with some people. I always start of being polite and generally work my way to pissed of, rude and then blocked.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I had my NYE ruined by 2 dickheads that wouldn't take NO for an answer... One of them I ended up yelling at that he left before midnight (hehe)... And the other one wore a drink and a spray of abuse.. Oh and there was another dickhead that kept waving me to come over to him over and over again... Like that would fucken work! It is not just online.... But I agree, with online...I just block them if they don't take no for an answer and keep flirting/messaging me.. No matter how nice they are... I know what I like and what I don't like!! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
We have the same problem, hundreds every week Why cant they get it?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Surely the powers to be at RHP could reprogramme the site, so it allows u to reject someone, and prevent them sending u any more messages... Also i am sure they could do the same, so that if someone doesnt fit your criteria, they just can contact you. Would save a lot of people a lot of frustration.. Not that i would know, a single bloke..lol..we dont have that problem...
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RHP User
15 years ago
No is no when it's noWhen we're reminded a lot of couples that met because he husband kept chasing the wife before they got married.We get reaffirmed that persistence plays off.This naturally leads itself to a situation where No means no but its understood as not now.We're in a society where the word we use has more then one meaningOf all the words in the English language, the word "set" has the most definitions. It has the highest number of separate definitions in the English Language (192 definitions according to the Oxford English Dictionary).The 1 2 3 rule seems to be something I think we should live around. It's got purpose, it's got understandable definition but it must be adhered to by both sexes. It's good and well to say something but to mean something else entirely leads people to have no idea what was said or not to care.R
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose' if i say no and i get nice persistance then il say no again and if i get another letter asking i will have a go and tell them where to go but if i get a nasty letter after saying no...then they cop nasty back its the morons like that that need to be played with...its so much fun and it serves them right roxxyHi roxxy come on dont turn me down on public forum! I send a wink and i like your profile ,you own a holden and i love em too.Classic is the way to go girl and i have a GTS monro so your cool.Your profile is sweet and i like you.Now tell everybody you like me too! xx Detonator oo
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Total_Recall'No is no when it's noWhen we're reminded a lot of couples that met because he husband kept chasing the wife before they got married.We get reaffirmed that persistence plays off.This naturally leads itself to a situation where No means no but its understood as not now. The 1 2 3 rule seems to be something I think we should live around. It's got purpose, it's got understandable definition but it must be adhered to by both sexes. It's good and well to say something but to mean something else entirely leads people to have no idea what was said or not to care.R I'm guilty of giving the polite answer rather than the direct one, i'm just too lazy to get into an argument!
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RHP User
15 years ago
You are right. No..................Dont......................Stop No..........Dont..........Stop No...Dont...Stop No!... Dont stop!
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RHP User
15 years ago
The universal rule in the swinging community is no means no, no questions asked no explanations there is no exceptions ever Its very rude and totally unacceptable if you have to repeat. All this talk about offering explanations, being nice / polite letting people down is a no brainer. No means No....Thats it , no more is required hit the block if dont like being questioned. Use this template if you wish. "Thankyou for contacting us but No thankyou"
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RHP User
15 years ago
No, no, no and once more for the moronic, no!! If I give you a polite but clear and definite no then you should respect that. If you persist I will consider you fair game and reply accordingly.
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RHP_Editor
15 years ago
Quoting 'Maxking2010' Surely the powers to be at RHP could reprogramme the site, so it allows u to reject someone, and prevent them sending u any more messages... Also i am sure they could do the same, so that if someone doesnt fit your criteria, they just can contact you. Would save a lot of people a lot of frustration.. Not that i would know, a single bloke..lol..we dont have that problem... It's called the Block List. Depending on your tolerance levels, RHP highly recommends that you block people that you are sure you do not wish to hear from again. On the other hand, please understand that some people simply don't or can't see their contact history with a particular person to know if they have been turned down already. If you come across persistent people, please use the Block function (either the 'Block' link on messages or add them to My Lists >> Block List) Please be careful with the Block function however. We get an awful lot of Help requests from people who claim they can't receive message from certain people, only for us to discover that those people had been blocked :|- Ed
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose' if i say no and i get nice persistance then il say no again and if i get another letter asking i will have a go and tell them where to go but if i get a nasty letter after saying no...then they cop nasty back its the morons like that that need to be played with...its so much fun and it serves them right roxxy Aww Roxxy you are one of our favourite forum posters, any moroons report to Detol and ourselves thats not on! PS Talking with onlythe best50, they say you are one of the best too. Cheers
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'DETONATOR' Quoting 'TassieRose' if i say no and i get nice persistance then il say no again and if i get another letter asking i will have a go and tell them where to go but if i get a nasty letter after saying no...then they cop nasty back its the morons like that that need to be played with...its so much fun and it serves them right roxxy Hi roxxy come on dont turn me down on public forum! I send a wink and i like your profile ,you own a holden and i love em too.Classic is the way to go girl and i have a GTS monro so your cool.Your profile is sweet and i like you.Now tell everybody you like me too! xx Detonator oo one day you will be tied to my bed, gagged anf blindfolded so i can have my wicked way with you i like you too xxx roxxy
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