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"nipple play"and "genital play"

January 24 2010

Do many people know what these terms mean when referred to in a "fetish" context? Like the Fetish list on RHP for example....I keep seeing profiles where nipple/breast play and genital play are listed, sometimes as the only fetish listed (which is pretty rare... liking breast and genital torture/pain usually means you're into some sort of BDSM, no?  lol :P Or is it me whose got it wrong.... would love to know! :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    But you are more than welcome to come visit me and we can figure it out between us ;-)   Wayne

  • wannabyummymummy

    wannabyummymummy

    16 years ago

    that is a very interesting point you make there Miss_spelled,maybe some sort of a guide to what these things refer to in more detail would be helpful to the newcommers like myself i must say there are things on those lists i am yet to discover the meanings to, mmmmm may need to reconsider my own profile.....thanks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Just tick 'em all... you'll be fine ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I guess it means something different to each person who selects it.   I recently met someone once with bulldog clips on each nipple lmfao...... and many people have nipple piercings to try and enhance sensitivity... Now... although mine are completely insensitive some blokes have disclosed that their nipples are directly connected somehow to their dick. So tweak away and try your luck.   Hugs Stalky

  • Ringleader

    Ringleader

    16 years ago

    Liking, or Licking?   I have the worlds most sensitive nipples. Even the very mention of nipple cripple makes me tremble.   But its a definate fetish for me. Dishing it out. Not copping it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    They may as well be - you can do what you like to my nipples and nothing happens.  It dates back to an office stationary accident (stapler) when I worked in a mailroom.   *sad serious moment* I think it makes me less inclined to play with a partners nipples...  Am I missing out on something?   PS - I agree with you MissSpelled... I don't know what they mean.  Same with Breath Play.  But I now carry mints just in case whatever that is happens.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    miss spelled,   (hope I spelled that correctly)   I think in this context "Fetish" as a category is probably not referring strictly to BDSM practices. I would think therefore that 'nipple/breast play' and 'genital play' are references to 'toying' with ones nipples/breasts or genitals with things like ice cream, ice cubes, honey, sex toys, fingers, lips etc   On a BDSM site I believe that references to them in this 'Fetish" category would mean more severe play usng intense objects like Whartenberg Wheels, tens units (electric) and practices like binding, pegging, needle play, cutting, candle wax  caning and the like....yep, some people have their privates pretty heavily brutalised.....   Maybe I am wrong...wouldn't be the first time....but as this is not specifically a BDSM site but rather a swinging/sex/meeting site I would think that references to fetish practices are more mainstream and vanilla in meaning....having said that there are a lot of edgy types on this site (hooray) whom might see 'nipple/breast' play as something heavier.....myself included.   I have some deliciously wicked, tiny silver clothes pegs from the US that would very quickly sharpen one's attention to their nipples and might only loosley be regarded as "play" by anyone but the hardened submissive...*smiles wanly*...lol   I have some lovely playthings in my black Bag of Tricks (I may start a post on this subject I think ! lol)...   Aside from all that and back to your topic miss spelled, I imagine just about everyone likes their nipples and genitals payed with.....it suprises me that not everyone has those boxes tick(l)ed on their profile.....cautious of having a "Fetish" perhaps ?   BadDog.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    To be honest with you, I just see breast/nipple/genital play as pain free playing and not within the context of BDSM - just people who like playing with boobies and mutual masturbation maybe?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    The meaning could be mixed depending on what options are selected.For example, on their own they could mean sex play focusing on just the nipples or genitals where as if mixed with BDSM - Soft option it could mean the use of Ice or Champagne as a soft form of pleasure / pain.If someone added the BDSM - Hard then one would assume clamps, hard spanking etc.It really depends on the person as mentioned by Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    cos it gots me a bit puzzled too...i mean...i lurve nipple and genital play...but is it meant ta be painful?....jose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    really guys? because listed as a fetish and if you google BDSM nipple or genital play... it is definitely related to sexual pain...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Only saw a few replies before posting the above comment.... hmmmm RHP censoring lol :PI have now had the chance to read everyone's replies and I thank you all for commenting.... BadBadDog and Majere75 comments in particular made me question and re-think my own ideas... sometimes I have the tendency to relate everything back to BDSM-HARD.... I can be a naughty miss lol  Oh dear Mr Jean Girard... don't get me started on breath play... with breath play I only play hard, no soft breathing for me :P ..... but if you'd like a couple of original ideas - http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Breath-Play-25739Oh dear, oh dear Mr. Dog... don't tease me with tiny silver clothes pegs from the US... 'coz I know exactly what you're talking about ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Miss_spelled..I tend to think the same as dog..only i would think it was the soft form BD.im not into the the hard BDSM>>>now if i was asked to the be the dominate one id have to problem..hehe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    KY Jelly.... tick Ping Pong balls.... tick Clothes pegs.... tick Play piercing needles.... tick Speculum.... tick Torch.... tick

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey eunuch... have you seen those LED lights you can get that mount on your forehead~ hands free? You can get them at camping gear stores... they hardly use any batteries!   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Not only that but batteries may no longer be required if the the current batch of techno-wizards get their latest gizmos off the ground. For they are proposing to use fiber-based nanotechnology in underpants to generate electricity by harvesting energy from ones movement. We would need to wear briefs with the hole for Percy in the front, so that unabated humping and associated electricity generation can take place without the undies removed. Though the electro stimulation may lead to a very high incidence of premature ejaculation. Not too sure if these things will be washing machine friendly, as the agitator will certainly build up a large charge. The products fatal flaw may be electrocution when removing them from the tub after the spin cycle. So we'll be one step closer to an android state with LED lights on our forehead and a power station in our underpants. Next there'll be fart powered butt plugs, piss driven hydroelectricity and I'm sure they'll find an alternate use for every other orifice. Expect there'll be some electrifying times ahead whilst giving head...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    and whilst I don't like pain as such, when my nipples are played with in the right way, I can orgasm. So I love nipple play in a nice play sense, and I love being meaner to other peoples nipples in the BDSM sense.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    You are not supposed to wear the bulldog clips over night...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'customer69'Nearly lost my nipples...painful I bet they were painful! The person I met with them on had them connected to a chain... Attached to nipples at the opportune time. Also wearing a large butt plug as I recall. Kinky fukr was edging.   My nipples aren't usually sensitive but put bight marks in them and whoa.   Hugs Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    The more i read the more excited i get!