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my wife has a fukbuddy

May 21 2011

i think she may be lining at least another one up as well.it's a nice turn on knowing that she is enjoying herself sexually.what are others thoughts?

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RHP User

15 years ago

More importantly what are your thoughts?I think you should look inside yourself & be totally honest with yourself & your wife on how you feel.How will this enhance your life as a couple?It is a fact with open relationships, its the female that will have more opportunities to explore than the male partner.Will you be able to cope with that long term?Is your commitment & trust strong enough to be able to deal with the times when she is out enjoying & your at a loose end?Vix

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RHP User

15 years ago

Why you wanted to share this?

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RHP User

15 years ago

Just don't forget to check the speed of the boat as you are trolling along...fish usually aren't fast swimmers.

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RHP User

15 years ago

I so wish I could be as lateral as you. . . . Wildly Amused

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RHP User

15 years ago

Thanks, coming from a rural background helps sometimes. Even the goats know when to check under the bridges, and if you are on the troll... | ...keep the line in the water.

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RHP User

15 years ago

My thoughts are that it is nice to know that your wife is enjoying herself sexually. Heck, I don't even know her - but still feel warm and fuzzy about it. Thanks for letting us know.

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JindaleeCpl

15 years ago

My wife has had many fuck buddies over the years. It's important that it is part of your fantasy too. If you are turned on by the idea of sharing your wife with other guys then go for it - it is the biggest turn on imaginable.But ... you do need to stay in the loop. There are a lot of guys who will want to be more than fuck buddies. I think it's better for your wife to have a few that she sees occasionally rather than one that she sees a lot.v4vixen is right when she says "Is your commitment & trust strong enough to be able to deal with the times when she is out enjoying & your at a loose end?" You will have to make sure you are part of the adventure - either watching occasionally or hearing the hot story when she gets home.I hope you both have lots of fun.We do! Dave

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RHP User

15 years ago

I think you have a very liberating attitude. Would you like to watch me doing your wife? I mean, after I've fucked her with my big dick I'll wait downstairs while you clean up that sticky wet mess I left between her legs. Some people think it's humiliating work, but I often try to do my best to please all parties involved in a loving relationship!HugsStalky

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RHP User

15 years ago

Niceboycory - you're obviously pretty chuffed that your wife has a fuck buddy and is thinking of lining up another.It's not unusual to get off on being cuckolded and more power to you (and your wife) for following the path you want to go down (whatever it may be).I think it's really sweet you're turned on by your wife being sexually satisfied. :)

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RHP User

15 years ago

I guess it would be good to know your wife is being satisfied....by someone else....dont mix the whites with the colours when you do the washing..

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RHP User

14 years ago

thanks peoples for commenting on my topic.When I listed I thought I stuffed up and it didn't load for some reason which is why it has taken me a while to come back to it after finally seeing it in my history of things i've done.I guess it could've been a troll topic. Truth is I was just trying to express myself and get somekind, anykind of feedback about it. My wife is just seeing one guy only occassionally but I like to think that my openmindedness about it actually helps me to grow up a bit more.Who knows how it will work out.

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RHP User

14 years ago

And what about you? Do you have a hobby (horse) past time or some kind of entertaining way to pass the time? Is this a one way deal? I know it's hard on here for the boys to get some action when they are part of a couple unless the couple only plays together and even then it may not be easy unless the Mrs is Hot. In fact, this often hinges on either one being hot just as long as one part of the couple has some pull. Is this a distraction to you? I'm interested to know the psychology behind your situation and then you can establish the most likely outcome for the primary relationship? xx Kitty (putting the text books down now )

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RHP User

14 years ago

Well i hope it works for you mate! Do you wonder if you may have inadvertantly performed oral on her the day after the fuck buddy creampied her??

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RHP User

14 years ago

is this one of those couples who have AN "OPEN MARRIAGE" because mrs cory is gonna fuck around whether you like it or not, so you just pretend its your choice too????? not trying to be mean but SERIOUSLY? how can you not be sure whether its just one or more "buddies"??? If this is the case, get out!!!!!!!!!

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RHP User

14 years ago

Sorry, I respect your right to an opinion but saying that is inappropriate. IF a couple choose to stay together under their own peculiar circumstances they will have good reason for it. Maybe they're deeply in love with each other, for instance. Jesus... there could be a zillion reasons ... just because someone is getting a bit on the sly doesn't mean their relationship must end. I hope you learn to appreciate this statement in time.... so, should you ever find yourself in the same situation, you consider what you really want less black and white. too proud to compromise your preconceived notions about how your relationship should travel? I have to say that pride is one of the seven deadly sins for good reason, and I don't even believe in sin. This dude is beautifully open about the situation he finds himself in and honest enough to admit that he feels a bit troubled by it.... it's part of life's journey. Maybe divorce is really no answer for him... or for her. Some shifts in approach to your particular relationship are done gracefully.. .and some relationship developments are not as graceful.... but it doesn't have to develop into the war of the roses.HugsStalky . Quoting 'sexy2seek1' is this one of those couples who have AN "OPEN MARRIAGE" because mrs cory is gonna fuck around whether you like it or not, so you just pretend its your choice too????? not trying to be mean but SERIOUSLY? how can you not be sure whether its just one or more "buddies"??? If this is the case, get out!!!!!!!!!

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RHP User

14 years ago

yeah ok, i can see that might have come out a little harsh sounding, i apologise. what i meant is, as you sound kind of uncertain about how many people she is even sleeping with, it doesnt sound like a situation where you have much power or insight into. I am all for extra's in the bed, while i know it can potentially cause a lot of hurt, if you nurture the relationship, this can even be positive and and a bonding experience to allow eachother the freedom, but i'm telling you there is no WAY i would be cool with my partner rooting people that i dont know about, for so many reasons! Different strokes for different strokes, i know, and yeah maybe i'm too much of a control freak to be relaxed about the unknown factor, but there is a point when your unusually broadminded attitiude could be mistaken for weakness. Honestly i admire your ability to bare your soul, wasnt trying to be hurtful

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RHP User

14 years ago

hi peoples,I am enjoying the feedback that everybody is sending no matter what the opinion, but a special thank you to stalky above for having a unilateral point of view.Years ago I used to club a lot and was out at least one Friday or Saturday night per week dancing, drinking and all the other fun things that came along with going to clubs. This is one of the things that I consider as being totally selfish about for quite a while which was totally unfair for my wife while our little ones were younger.Which is probably why I now allow her to do as she pleases. I love her and any fun that she can have is totally ok with me now.

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