mens thoughts on a chick crying after an intense orgasm

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  My thoughts on the feelings you are experiencing are this, what is happening is you are going into what I call and self preservation and protection energy. After your orgasm you are feeling very open and vunerable and mental you just go into yourself, this is not a bad thing and it will pass, just allow and explain to you partner that it is not him or you. just allow it and enjoy the process that follows. Hope that helps xx

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  There has been a thread previously on this subject hsvcouple.  It might help to read that if you can find it. I remember this happening to me too (hasn't in a long while) and I felt the tears were a way of bringing me back to myself.  I believe that sex such as you are describing can be transcendent and its like a fusion of souls.  The crying is the way that you come back into your body and separate your soul from his. Beyond2012 is right, talk to him about it and let him know that you are not trying or wanting to exclude him, its just a reaction to the intense emotions you experience, thanks to his wonderful lovemaking. May your fantastic sex continue.Wildly cheering

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  We're obviously doing this "Girls squirting during orgasm" thing to death aren't we??   And we keep getting blamed for the wet-spot.  Ridiculous.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  it was because i was calling her nasty names whilst in the throws of passion,,,

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Here's a secret. After I've blown a load, I turn into a cooing dove... you can ask me anything and chances are, in my delierium, I will probably tell you... I do not think I am the only man like this. Those of us who are prone to fall asleep after sex are all like it.. talking to us is like talking to someone on Sodium Pentothal (truth syrem). But crying.. and withdrawal? I kind of understand the crying.... letting go of all those emotional controls ... an orgasm can do that and if you if you're that way incllined to cry, then go ahead and ball your sore red eyes out... no problems... but cutting your dude out by withdrawing into your own little thoughts.. well I think that is emotional control... so loosen up and let him in... otherwise that's the opportune time to ask him anything you want to know. This is why I promote the idea of fucking first and asking questions later. If you want to get to know me.. sure, let's root. :p   Hugs Stalky

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  This has happened to me a few times.......I feel that when it does happen it means I am really into him and feel a very strong connection...minds and bodies as 1...   I have never withdrawn....Quite the opposite...want him more...hours and hours..lol..     ahhhh....I hope one day to feel that strong connection again...tis a beautiful feeling..   Go with it an enjoy...     huggies   sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  With age I have come to understand that strong emotions will trigger all sorts of responses....all natural I can now cope with crying woman in all sort of situations. Some use it use it to manipulate men in the workplace.SO cry away as along as they are tears of joy!!ciaoHermes

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  It happens to my wife infrequently, usually after those times when it hasn't been possible to have sex for a while.She says its just a very intense release.Its wonderful being so close to her then.RegardsMr. SR.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  ......everytime I orgasm and I'm alone

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  A couple of years ago I had this with a lady, always bought her to climax, but sometimes she was in tears ! Always asked if she was ok, but always went ga ga on me !Thought I hurt her , but she always came back for more ! This thread makes me understand, cheers !

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Perhaps it's a new relationships or new lovers thing , that is after someone has come out of a long or intense relationship and is now 'on the mend' with someone new. It happened to me one time , she had fairly recently come out of a long marriage , yes cried alot , like for a few mins then again later during another bout. And shaking , real shuddering and trembling , really intense orgasms. She was really apologetic , but I really loved it , made me feel like I was the man lol but it was actually a little bit special because she was moving out of pain and into pleasure , into new fun , a new future. Loz

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