RHP

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men being dominated by women

April 13 2011

hey guys i always wanted to know about the turn on of a man being dominated by a woman. i dont think its for me i do like to have strong women in the bed room but being dominated i'm not sure about. would like to hear from both partys on this one. boys. what are your thoughts? girls. is it a turn on for you?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Happy to dominate with my talents, but definitely don't identify as the dominant sexual partner. I prefer to be dominated by the man. Consumed even! It's the masculine thing, love it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I am a naturally dominant person (though I try not to be a considerate - theres a big difference between a dom and an arsehole), and have never understood this. I have trouble being ordered around at work, let alone in the bedroom.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' Happy to dominate with my talents, but definitely don't identify as the dominant sexual partner. I prefer to be dominated by the man. Consumed even! It's the masculine thing, love it! My ex husband wanted me to try being a dom to him. Couldnt do it. I tried but was pathetic at it and my heart was never in it. Like flirty I prefer to be dominated by the man.......just not in the B&D way.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Yeah, happy to dominate...not always though and certainly not for a permanent partner Generally I prefer things to be even...give and take on both counts. I dont want the man to dominate me and I dont necessarily want to dominate him. Why does one need to dominate anyway? Isnt it much more fun when we are both doing what the other likes?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' I prefer to be dominated by the man. Consumed even! It's the masculine thing, love it! +1

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Dominant women can be a real hoot. It's rather pleasant to be given frantic fuck me this way instructions from time to time... not that I follow those instructions to teh letter.. well, not always... I like giving a bit of cheek and once you know what a woman really wants.. it's a hoot to do a bit of teasing before giving it to her.HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Most people understandably get it wrong. Domination isn't about sex but about relinquishing control. If thats a turn on for the participants then it becomes sexual for them. For many it is a release from the responsibilities they face in the real world because when they are being dominated they no longer have to think for themselves.Pain doesn't have to be a part of domination but many submissives have a masochistic side and enjoy the endorphine rush that comes from it.The sensual/sexual aspect comes into it when the submissive is teased or tortured by not being allowed to, or made to orgasm and at the same time being stimulated by the dominant. An example of this is when a woman is tied up and made to orgasm over and over by use of a Hitachi vibrator.There are so many aspects to domination and everyone that enjoys being dominated has different preferences, likes and dislikes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I know a lot of guys like this, but I can't say it's ever been something I've been interested in. I've got no problems if she wants to jump on top occassionally but I want to play together and prefer being in control

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    when Mistress gets all tough on us and tells us how it is....mmmmmm....you know I think I have a thing for this gorgeous leather clad temptress... . Kisses Focus sorry OP I am a sub...cant help you out....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hey guys I dont mind either way i like to be dominated and I like to be dominate there is nothing better than to have a lady be dominate and agressive it really is a turn on but not all the time

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    thanks guys good insite i guess giving up control is something i would struggle with being 6 foot 4 it seems natural to be in control. mistress T you have come through with the goods but i thought hitachi made the power tools i work with when did they start making sex toys?