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mans inability to climax
March 14 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
If this is a man who has been on his own for a while and used to masturbation, the feel of it all will be different. It is a very frustrating thing and can take several weeks of build up. Is this someone you see on a regular basis? Try sensual massages, touching and carressing ONLY each night. Slowly get closer and closer to the penis each day...taking around two weeks or so to get there. During this time there is to be no masturbation, no release at all for your guy. He will eventually be able to manage to orgasm inside you as it is a natural release and the teasing build up will take effect.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Lube up a finger, reach as far as you can... and stick it in his bum. Works for me when I get like that. :p Ok.. what I mean is that you might try is to search for other erogenous zones... for example, his bottom, his nipples... the nape of his neck... his earlobes.... and simultaneously tweak, carress, kiss and stimulate them so that he melts into that moment of wow, rather than thinking about how his dick won't work.... see... the longer this goes on.. the more self conscious he will get, turning it into a full blown "issue" for him. It's really not that unusual for a man not to cum every single time that he has sex.... this news doesn't settle easily, especially in a younger dude's mind because they're ambitious and every root is a precious experience... married dudes know that it if doesn't work this afternoon, it'll work out tonight.. or tomorrow.... or after the mother in law goes back to Dubbo... when the consumated mood is amenable, unrushed, less stressful... our performance is influenced by a lot of external factors.... and the secret is to chill.. yeah.. Frankie goes to Hollywood even wrote a song about it.... . HugsS
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Lube up a finger, reach as far as you can... and stick it in his bum. Works for me when I get like that. Result = instant soft cock! Be carefull with that one he may also consider it gay.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Trust Stalky to recommend prostate stimulation. It might work however! . A friend once had this problem - anorgasmia they call it in medicine. It was a side effect of some very heavy medication he was on. So there's a possible cause. I think, from memory, there was some kind of drug a doctor could prescribe to try to alleviate it. But my mate had his medication changed and the problem went away, I think. . Another thing to consider is that sexual dysfunction in men can often be psychological. More commonly it's erectile dysfunction but it can also be anorgasmia. There could be some underlying issue (shame? lack of confidence?) that's compounded each time he fails to climax when he's with a woman. So potentially each time it happens, or even it's discussed, it could be harder and harder for him. You've got probably as much chance of this as him letting you stick something in his arse, ha, but maybe he could find a therapist who specialises in sexuality. If there is a psychological cause, they could find it and try to overcome it. (Think "The King's Speech" ) If there's not, that will probably become apparent pretty quickly. . Most importantly, littlered, don't blame yourself. It's not because you're ugly, or not good enough, or a bad lay, or anything else the female mind is likely to tell itself in such situations. My evidence? Frankly and honestly, men are easily capable of climaxing with women they consider to be all of the above. That and he wouldn't be with you if he did. I'm not writing this to be rude, I just know that my friend's partner in this situation started to think something was wrong with her. It's a natural, but still incorrect, reaction. . All the best!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Romancefor4' Quoting 'stalky' Lube up a finger, reach as far as you can... and stick it in his bum. Works for me when I get like that. Be carefull with that one he may also consider it gay. Have you checked out LilReds profile? Don't know how you conclude gay from having her slide a finger into someone's bum... unless it's a girls bum. Hmmm... Or do you mean the bottom is gay? Then perhaps it doesn't take four beers after all, because I quite enjoy watching myself slowly slide into a bottom. . . . . A chicks bottom I mean... sheesh. It's mid afternoon... I'm still sober Stalky!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
KSM is been known for more than 5000 years, well-kept as a secret by the eastern Royalties. Women are blessed with the ability to have multiple orgasms, but not many are aware that men with proper training can actually do the same. Any man can become "multi-orgasmic". Once a man becomes multi-orgasmic he will not only be able to better satisfy himself, but also more effectively satisfy his partner. Multiple male orgasms include only the orgasm by itself, without the ejaculation. That orgasmic sensation occurs and is present for about 3 to 5 seconds before ejaculation. We as man experience this sensation just as woman does. Some men add this sensation with the ejaculation together, and pretend to have experienced orgasm, and if that is the case, that is a wrong believe. Once mastered every orgasms comes and goes, and are also slightly stronger than the previous ones, if and when the man decides to ejaculate, which is optional, with the final orgasm, the ejaculation will be at least twice as longer than in normal conditions. It is a technique massage of the male Sacred Spot combined with the massage of the Wand Of Light, that once you master it, he will become your slave for the rest of your life. There also is the 3DG massage for her, which is known to have perfected their multiple orgasms from 10 to 15 or even 25 orgasms one after the other, just like the waves on the ocean. But be warned, it leads to exhaustion, not recommended. Always ask yourself, how much is enough? And do it in moderation.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Foreplay, and your pelvic floor. Even if it doesn't help him, it'll help you. LOL
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Desireher'KSM is been known for more than 5000 years, well-kept as a secret by the eastern Royalties. Women are blessed with the ability to have multiple orgasms, but not many are aware that men with proper training can actually do the same. Any man can become "multi-orgasmic". Once a man becomes multi-orgasmic he will not only be able to better satisfy himself, but also more effectively satisfy his partner. Multiple male orgasms include only the orgasm by itself, without the ejaculation. That orgasmic sensation occurs and is present for about 3 to 5 seconds before ejaculation. We as man experience this sensation just as woman does. Some men add this sensation with the ejaculation together, and pretend to have experienced orgasm, and if that is the case, that is a wrong believe. Once mastered every orgasms comes and goes, and are also slightly stronger than the previous ones, if and when the man decides to ejaculate, which is optional, with the final orgasm, the ejaculation will be at least twice as longer than in normal conditions. It is a technique massage of the male Sacred Spot combined with the massage of the Wand Of Light, that once you master it, he will become your slave for the rest of your life. There also is the 3DG massage for her, which is known to have perfected their multiple orgasms from 10 to 15 or even 25 orgasms one after the other, just like the waves on the ocean. But be warned, it leads to exhaustion, not recommended. Always ask yourself, how much is enough? And do it in moderation. I think she's just chasing one at the moment... Babysteps... And like I say ... two hands for beginners.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Quoting 'Romancefor4' Quoting 'stalky' Lube up a finger, reach as far as you can... and stick it in his bum. Works for me when I get like that. Be carefull with that one he may also consider it gay. Have you checked out LilReds profile? Don't know how you conclude gay from having her slide a finger into someone's bum... unless it's a girls bum. Hmmm... Or do you mean the bottom is gay? Then perhaps it doesn't take four beers after all, because I quite enjoy watching myself slowly slide into a bottom. . . . . A chicks bottom I mean... sheesh. It's mid afternoon... I'm still sober Stalky!! Jean Not every guy considers it red hot sex and a turn on to have fingers, cocks, hoses, sauce bottles shoved up his arse. Some guys are happy with a perfectly good vigana.
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RHP User
15 years ago
if you follow the instruction of people here ... at the end of the day either you will be lesbian or your partner becomes gay :D in worst case, you enjoy masturbation and he wants to have sex with you So my recommendation is to see a doctor and ask for a solution :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm sure pressure must be an issue here? I've had the same with blow jobs but usually I pop no probs. A nice tight pussy is great for getting a guy off!.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have a wand. It's called a Hitachi Massage Wand and it too is capable of producing multiple orgasms when applied to a clitoris. I have used it on male clients with a good deal of success. Strong vibration beats tantric practices every time!As for your friend Littlered, I would suggest longer foreplay before you move on to sex. And if that doesn't work, see a doctor.
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RHP User
15 years ago
ok ive talked to him about it to find out as much as i can about it from him, he says he feels something but he just cant get to a point where climax is the next step, he also reasures me its not me its all him, we both tease each other everytime we see each other , i dont know when he masturbabtes i may see if i can get him to not for a couple of weeks and see if that helps. and just for the record , i highgly doubt that he would want anythign to be stuck up his butt, but then again im sure if i get him drunk enough he ay be open to the idea. i dont like the idea of him having to take medication to help this little problem however that would be up to him. ill have to remeber some of the suggestions and see wat i can do
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RHP User
15 years ago
How can inserting a finger up a guys arse equate to "Gay"? What if you shove a piece of office furniture up a guys bum? What does that activity mean then? . Everyone has an anus, even women do. If I go sticking my finger up some birds butt, someones going to shout "LESBIAN" . And what the hell is a "Perfectly good Vigana" as opposed to what?(think you meant Vagina~imperfect+bad variety) . I imagine a doctor will prescribe some pharmaceutical solution of hit and miss. but will be qualified. . Hope you get it sorted littlered and partner
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RHP User
15 years ago
As someone else said, let it build up for a while (no masturbation) for at least a week, two if he doesnt do it at least a few times daily then try again. Also try gripping the base of his shaft with your hand as he enters you with the rest, and using less hand and more of yourself each time if that works
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'littlered' ok ive talked to him about it to find out as much as i can about it from him, he says he feels something but he just cant get to a point where climax is the next step, he also reasures me its not me its all him, we both tease each other everytime we see each other , i dont know when he masturbabtes i may see if i can get him to not for a couple of weeks and see if that helps. and just for the record , i highgly doubt that he would want anythign to be stuck up his butt, but then again im sure if i get him drunk enough he ay be open to the idea. i dont like the idea of him having to take medication to help this little problem however that would be up to him. ill have to remeber some of the suggestions and see wat i can do Just in case you are thinking it... Neither Cialis or Viagra will assist anyone beyond obtaining an erection.... what those drugs do is help obtain and maintain an erection.... which your dude has no apparent difficulty with. Chemicals are not likely to be the answer here. If he wants to seek the help of a professional, I'd suggest he seeks advice from a sex therapist.HugsS
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RHP User
15 years ago
think its called RE.....he might be the visual kind of guy that needs to see whats going on........if he watches porn when masturbating....that could be the problem
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Desireher' KSM is been known for more than 5000 years, well-kept as a secret by the eastern Royalties. Women are blessed with the ability to have multiple orgasms, but not many are aware that men with proper training can actually do the same. Any man can become "multi-orgasmic". Once a man becomes multi-orgasmic he will not only be able to better satisfy himself, but also more effectively satisfy his partner. Multiple male orgasms include only the orgasm by itself, without the ejaculation. That orgasmic sensation occurs and is present for about 3 to 5 seconds before ejaculation. We as man experience this sensation just as woman does. Some men add this sensation with the ejaculation together, and pretend to have experienced orgasm, and if that is the case, that is a wrong believe. Once mastered every orgasms comes and goes, and are also slightly stronger than the previous ones, if and when the man decides to ejaculate, which is optional, with the final orgasm, the ejaculation will be at least twice as longer than in normal conditions. It is a technique massage of the male Sacred Spot combined with the massage of the Wand Of Light, that once you master it, he will become your slave for the rest of your life. There also is the 3DG massage for her, which is known to have perfected their multiple orgasms from 10 to 15 or even 25 orgasms one after the other, just like the waves on the ocean. But be warned, it leads to exhaustion, not recommended. Always ask yourself, how much is enough? And do it in moderation. hey lol, i'm reading that book :P. gotta finish and start practising
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RHP User
15 years ago
still him to stop wanking , hand strokes are different and cause the problems ,
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RHP User
15 years ago
littlered, I have had this problem for quite a few years. My wife and I split as she felt pressure from me to keep going until I felt satisfied. We are back together now after several years. Understand that this affects a percentage of the male population. But not like premature problems... Usually we can stay hard for hours and have a healthy appetite for sex.... If you talk and come to some arrangement or try new things - this article was of help to us Sometimes when a man is with a partner he may find himself unable to >ejaculate, and this inability to orgasm inside the vagina can cause >considerable distress to both people.>>It is not a common difficulty but should not be regarded as abnormal or >strange behaviour. As a rule the man can ejaculate with masturbation in the >absence of his partner, or with erotic dreams, having nocturnal emissions >... so there is no underlying organic disease.>>The condition is known as retarded ejaculation and tends to become worse if >the man gets upset with himself or his partner, and if, because of his >anger tries to apportion blame for what he sees as failure.>>Such men have usually no problem with getting or keeping erections, and a >first may be quite proud about their ability to keep a “hard on”.>>However, if intercourse if prolonged it may result in the woman >experiencing discomfort which is likely to lead to a decrease in her >lubrication, which may be followed by vaginal soreness. Inflammation of the >vaginal lining (mucosa) disturbs the bacteria which normally live in the >woman’s front passage (the commonest of these is one called the lacto >bacillus acidophilis) which produces the lactic acid that maintains the >acidity of the vaginal secretions, which is a strong defense against thrush >(monilla) infection. Lack of this acidity may result in the woman >developing an itchy discharge.>>Retarded ejaculation is essentially a psychological problem, and is treated >by changing behaviour patterns. If possible the cause of the problem should >be identified before treatment is begun.>>Sometimes the man may be angry or resentful, either towards women in >general, or his partner in particular, and as a consequence he holds >himself back, and does not allow the release of his sperm to take place. If >the root of the problem can be found, this should be dealt with before >trying to change behaviour, but sometimes this is not possible because one >cannot put one’s finger on a particular cause, and when this happens one >treats the problem by a process of systematic desensitisation.>>It is usual in such a program to make use of the ability many men have to >masturbate, but the are times when for religious or other reasons this is >not possible. In these cases therapy tends to be far slower and take much >longer. Occasionally, there are underlying organic problems which need >medication, or other more complex treatment but such difficulties are >exceedingly rare.>>Under stress, ejaculatory problems are quite common, which is well >illustrated by the difficulty that is often seen when infertile men are >asked to collect semen specimens for a sperm count.>>Some men similarly may have difficulty in urinating when there are others >waiting.>>Control of urination or ejaculation, is complex and works through the >so-called autonomic nervous systems which work quite automatically and need >to be accurately co-ordinated, but this happens without us having any >direct or conscious control. Because of this complexity there is no reason >for a man to feel ashamed or embarrassed if he has such a problem. Most >counsellors have seen similar problems before and will be helpful and >supportive.>>If retarded ejaculation is your particular problem consult your general >practitioner, who will either treat you or refer you to a sex therapist or >counsellor, who may be either another medical practitioner, a psychologist >or a sex therapist who is not medically qualified but comes from some other >discipline or background. Remember that help is available and seek >assistance soon.
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RHP User
15 years ago
roll a joint or two !!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Tonyerotic' How can inserting a finger up a guys arse equate to "Gay"? Because thats the type of play gay men do. What if you shove a piece of office furniture up a guys bum? What does that activity mean then? Sicko weird stupid nutter, must be from WA?.Sicko Everyone has an anus, even women do. If I go sticking my finger up some birds butt, someones going to shout "LESBIAN" Guys are givers they have cocks Girls are recievers, recepticles. ys Nope o o. And what the hell is a "Perfectly good Vigana" as opposed to what?(think you meant Vagina~imperfect+bad variety) .A Arse, each are designed and built for different purposes.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Debating the arse or vagina, are as bad as whether you want to swim in the word water, instead of swim in the water itself, or having for lunch, the menu, instead of the lunch itself. Get alive, the arse and vagina are brain terminals, just as the eyes, your skin, and ears are. The area of your arse and genitals are packed with neuron terminals that transmit similar information back to your brain that something like reproduction or pleasure sex is going on. Therefore, your body responds to it. It is happening right from your unconscious mind. Is all about being human, and you cannot escape that. Resisting to it generates suffering. So, why don’t you, just let it be.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'extrafun70' >The condition is known as retarded ejaculation See LittleRed... the answers are always here. Next time you have sex and Johnny doesn't cum, just turn around (sorry, I just happened to be picturing you on all four's with an arched back *shrug*) and say "It's ok hun. It's probably just your retarded ejaculation." . . . pmsl... bloody medicine, why can't they come up with nice ways of saying things.
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RHP User
15 years ago
You could see if giving his ball's a squeeze could help, do one at a time Work's with me. ok ive talked to him about it to find out as much as i can about it from him, he says he feels something but he just cant get to a point where climax is the next step, he also reasures me its not me its all him, we both tease each other everytime we see each other , i dont know when he masturbabtes i may see if i can get him to not for a couple of weeks and see if that helps. and just for the record , i highgly doubt that he would want anythign to be stuck up his butt, but then again im sure if i get him drunk enough he ay be open to the idea. i dont like the idea of him having to take medication to help this little problem however that would be up to him. ill have to remeber some of the suggestions and see wat i can do
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RHP User
15 years ago
he leaves to go up to the mines next week, ive asked him if he can try and not masturbate while hes up there to see if twihat will help , he says that the mroe times we have sex the closer he feel, so we just may need to practice a few more times, i also think it has somethign to do with jim being a virgin, so heres hoping something will happen soon
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'littlered' he leaves to go up to the mines next week, ive asked him if he can try and not masturbate while hes up there to see if twihat will help , he says that the mroe times we have sex the closer he feel, so we just may need to practice a few more times, i also think it has somethign to do with jim being a virgin, so heres hoping something will happen soon A virgin? Ok.. well.. if he is still a virgin then that explains a lot about why he has never managed to ejaculate in a vagina.Jeese... you leave out all th critical details don't you!!~ lmfao!!! You got me you cheeky bugga!!HUgsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Dear RomanceX4, thankyou for clearing up those rhetorical questions. I only wish I had your ability to be comprehensively disposable on matters pertaining to anal sexual preferences. . Firstly I agree that "thats the type of play gay men do", no qualms about your comment being likely true, however looking at all these posts on the topic, it's not looking so 'Gender specific' now is it? . I was going for "Macho furniture removalist" on No2, and from Mapleton, but WA will do.(ouch) . I was going for Girls being vessicles, but receptacle is an equally vulgar metaphor. I think you missed the point about fingers and sexual stereotypical assumptions, regardless of orifice of choice. nevermind. . Thanks for pointing out design, function and correct application of Arse related data. I will keep that in mind. . I gotta get a new Arse, as mine appears to have a hole in it. Lets hope I don't pick a heterosexual one with obvious finger-tampering marks. All hell could break loose. . Zzzzzzzzzzzzzz....
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RHP User
15 years ago
sorry stalky i was a very bad girl
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RHP User
15 years ago
he should be blowing his load straight off , get all excited etc , it takes a while to learn to control it , you are hot littlered so i reckon his problem is still wanking too much while away , cant blame him tho :) tell him to go without wanking on the last week of his stint , hopefully he blows big for you :) have fun
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'littlered' sorry stalky i was a very bad girl In view of the present detailed information, I expect that his ejaculation is retarded by anxt. When he truly can relax and be absorbed into the moment, rather than being self conscious, he will surely cum. for your part... all I recommend you do is hang on tight and enjoy the ride! hehe.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'Just in case you are thinking it... Neither Cialis or Viagra will assist anyone beyond obtaining an erection.... what those drugs do is help obtain and maintain an erection.... which your dude has no apparent difficulty with. Chemicals are not likely to be the answer here. If he wants to seek the help of a professional, I'd suggest he seeks advice from a sex therapist.HugsS Hi Stalky - no, the medication I heard about was neither of those, nor any other erectile medication. It was something different altogether. I think it started with an "A", but that's all I've got.
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RHP User
15 years ago
hey ya sexc been checkn ya out on er whats the odds of meetn ya 4 fun n intense times? x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Umm are you asking Slippery or Stalky for a hot date cameron_dunbar Lol careful what you wish for
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RHP User
15 years ago
It's Easter so might as well share the love and a bit of the knowledge. Something that can and does cause a delayed male ejaculatory response is the prescribed use of anti-depressants in the SSRI group. Then can be some interesting side effects in women too...but let's just play on the boys team for now. There is also the possibility that a psychiatrist may prescribe these meds for men who have had the exact opposite problem of premature ejaculation and it will work...however if that is the case, it is unethical and if you find one of these he/she really should be reported to the AMA. Here's the list...|- fluoxetine- sertraline- fluvoxamine- citalopram- paroxetine- venlafaxine|One of the package names for paroxetine is Aropax.| Quoting 'dontgothere' Umm are you asking Slippery or Stalky for a hot date cameron_dunbar...careful what you wish for | I am with you on this one and don't speak that language either...and Cam, you should listen to the lady. | Dude, skip the meds...u r 2 hi n d sky 2 b fukd bi dis 2 bad bi b b hear...word!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I sometimes have this issue...I am cut and just think the daily rubbing on my underwear has caused some loss of sensitivity. I still enjoy sex and I am still able to climax most times. Girls will sometimes ask why I didn't cum, thinking it's their fault, but I explain this to them and it's all good. And when I tell them that the upside is that I am able to go for longer than most blokes, that usually has a pretty positive effect :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' Umm are you asking Slippery or Stalky for a hot date cameron_dunbar Lol careful what you wish for Bwahahaha!
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RHP User
15 years ago
ummm Cameron dear, I wasnt flirting with you Im old enough to be your Mother, now go to bed lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'slippery_halo' Quoting 'dontgothere' Umm are you asking Slippery or Stalky for a hot date cameron_dunbar Lol careful what you wish for Bwahahaha! LOL love your evil laugh Slippery
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' Quoting 'slippery_halo' Quoting 'dontgothere' Umm are you asking Slippery or Stalky for a hot date cameron_dunbar Lol careful what you wish for Bwahahaha! LOL love your evil laugh Slippery It's even better in person. A great suggestion though dontgothere. If Cameron would hold still long enough I could show him how a man climaxes.
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RHP User
15 years ago
He did ask for it afterall he was all hot to trot to start with hey?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Rarely would I even suggest that you play "outside the box" with pharmaceuticals...but it seems like a good idea here and I may have just the 'script for is what ailing the boy... | Quoting 'slippery_halo' If Cameron would hold still long enough I could show him how a man climaxes. | It won't hurt you in the short term so try 75mg. Effexor-XR for a couple of weeks then add in 20mg. of Cialis on the day. I am sure you will move Cam right on up... | ...2 da hed of d class! | | No hostages and leave no witnesses...then send him on over to Stalky for the coup d'etat.
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RHP User
15 years ago
tell him to fuck harder!! and doggy style is the easiest to cum in lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Does your man always initiate everything?Ive found that when I am "the man" I seem to have a high testosterone level and ergo I can have sex for hours and not come. Perhaps try taking control in the bedroom and see if that changes anything.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Id stay away from the medications. Although most have only short term effects, certain types of diet pills and anti-depressants like Valium and diazapan, can cause irreversible effects on sex drive, orgasm, ejaculation and erection ability.Maybe try a "man hood".
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RHP User
15 years ago
well my man still hasnt been able to cum during sex, he can if he plays with himself so thats the way we generaly finish things, i had him not play with himself for a month and although it was tourture it didnt seem to help, also i found it doesnt matter wat posistion we are in or who starts anythign nothing seems to help, i think we may need to see a doc soon , he doesnt seem to mind not being able to finish with me as it does mean he gets to give me more pleasure , but i know he would like to be able to cum . thanks everyone for your suggestions so far been an intresting read
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Romancefor4' Quoting 'stalky' Lube up a finger, reach as far as you can... and stick it in his bum. Works for me when I get like that. Result = instant soft cock! Be carefull with that one he may also consider it gay. I beg to differ.... gets me there too... LS
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'slippery_halo' Trust Stalky to recommend prostate stimulation. It might work however! . A friend once had this problem - anorgasmia they call it in medicine. It was a side effect of some very heavy medication he was on. So there's a possible cause. I think, from memory, there was some kind of drug a doctor could prescribe to try to alleviate it. But my mate had his medication changed and the problem went away, I think. . Another thing to consider is that sexual dysfunction in men can often be psychological. More commonly it's erectile dysfunction but it can also be anorgasmia. There could be some underlying issue (shame? lack of confidence?) that's compounded each time he fails to climax when he's with a woman. So potentially each time it happens, or even it's discussed, it could be harder and harder for him. You've got probably as much chance of this as him letting you stick something in his arse, ha, but maybe he could find a therapist who specialises in sexuality. If there is a psychological cause, they could find it and try to overcome it. (Think "The King's Speech" ) If there's not, that will probably become apparent pretty quickly. . Most importantly, littlered, don't blame yourself. It's not because you're ugly, or not good enough, or a bad lay, or anything else the female mind is likely to tell itself in such situations. My evidence? Frankly and honestly, men are easily capable of climaxing with women they consider to be all of the above. That and he wouldn't be with you if he did. I'm not writing this to be rude, I just know that my friend's partner in this situation started to think something was wrong with her. It's a natural, but still incorrect, reaction. . All the best! spot on :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
put him in chastity for a month & deny all orgasms.
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RHP User
15 years ago
OK so looks like he has to stop the wanking or at least touch his cock in a different sensation without cumming to let himself get used to different sensations. We can never do to them as they do to themselves just as a man cant rub our clits like we can. How many women can make themselves cum but cant get a man to get them there!!
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hardnslow
15 years ago
I remember once leaving my wife and while we were separated it used to take for ever for me to climax in fact should I say it I even faked a couple. Because I could'nt go any longer. but in saying that I have found that it could have been strss/depression that caused it so maybe it is just he is trying too hard to cum in you maybe a blow job might bridge the gap either way when it happens hang on !!
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Hasn't that topic been posted before?
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Where the heck did that topic go?
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