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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  It's not wrong. But it's probably very difficult to achieve. I'm realising I'm very poly and a part of me would very much like to have others important to me in my and our lives. But a live in is very difficult. Better, perhaps, to involve them in life and to have them living externally. Besides, from experience, they will not want to merely be a Mary of your life but to have their own. And so they should. So externally resident, in their own lives, but involved in yours, would probably suit all x

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  Ashisalwayshorny

  10 years ago

  That sounds wonderful, you have a very lucky man. It's not wrong!! Not at all hope it all works out for u. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  No its called a polyamorous relationship and hubby and I would love one too one day. Check out the web, there is a lot of info on it. There are even poly events you can go to and meet others with the same views. We went to one and it was fun. Shaz

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  but wondering what you're offering the girl in question. What's in it for her ?

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  horneycouplewa

  10 years ago

  It can be a very complicated situation. If its not your religion then it for sure can be complicated. Our experience was a close girlfriend (tho new) of mine who first wanted to try a bisexual experience in which I was happy to provide with my hubby's knowledge, it progressed very quickly into a 3some FULL time for about 6 months (she did live up the road) and have to add loved it so much she would never go home aaahhh. Unfortunately she developed too may feelings for my hubby, which you may say well that's expected and I was fine with that. Until it started being a competition, I had no worries other than it shouldn't be like this ....She wasn't happy if we wanted spend a night quietly having a drink together and she wasn't invited blah blah blah. But before you say your opinion also realize we supported her and her 3 kid's for 6 months, due to loser hubby. As much as I still have feelings for her I can't forget that she is a manipulative woman. Too many stories to tell blah. After our break up she simply moved on to another family to manipulate. Lessoned learned..... You have to commit to invite someone in your household 100%

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I fantasise about living with 2 guys, but just coming together as 3 singles, even better if they were bi. It'd be amazing to be sexually satisfied, 2 dicks in the house 😀 yes please, oh and 4 arms (stats don't include me ☺), 4 pecs, 20 fingers, 2 tongues, 2 mouths to kiss, mmm don't think i'd ever want to leave the house 👍 oh and 4 veiny forearms, just off for a cold shower now 😯

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I don't think it sounds like they just want a toy, it sounds like they are interested in having a second person to be in a committed relationship with as opposed to simply a FWB? I could be wrong though. OP, I have been looking at this a lot lately as well. Mostly because it fascinates me but also because it wold be wonderful to have a female FWB. There is a lot of info out there and there are many different way that these relationships work. They can and do work very well and there is nothing wrong with it, just as long as communication is prominent and everybody knows what they are there for. There are a few that I follow on instagram that share there lives as well as the more nitty gritty of how they make it work and some that make videos discussing this as well. Some that are all just adults, some that have children, some that have separate rooms and some that are three in the bed (I have enough trouble sharing my blanket with hubby!!) All the best I hope one day you find the right person. MrsC :)

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  MsJonesy

  10 years ago

  Not sure if I would want to live with, because the dynamics of three adults living together can be challenging. If it was a big house where I could still have my own space it would be fine (hmm...maybe thats why I have a ridiculously large house lol) ). Another thing to consider is when a single female joins an established relationship in a live in situation; if they moved into your house they could feel like a visitor and some females are very protective of their nest. That could lead to problems. I could be part of a polyamorous relationship though. I love the strength of multiple relationships, the company of both men and women, and obviously love having both male and female lovers.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Have seen a few couples over the years try to do this and have seen it end in disaster - but so do many traditional relationships. Often one of the three eventually does become the third wheel. Seems to work with some Mormons though ? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Live in , no way. Two's company three's a crowd. There's a reason for that saying.. A regular 3 some is fine but much better if the playmate goes home then comes back to play another day . Better all round when every one knows the rules.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  We have thought about it. Living here in Bali we think it could work. Depends on the individuals. - Posted from rhpmobile

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