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ladies, Try it before you reject it

November 01 2012

Why is it that so many (most?) ladies who are in 40's stipulate that they dont want anyone over 45 or 50? Do you think sexuality, sensuousness, imagination and performance fly out the window after a given age?   When a guy has kept fit and active there's no way being over 50 is any impediment to any of the above.   A recent relationship with a 47 y.o. was extremely sensuous, numerous times a day, in bed and out of bed, any which way. Such a shame she got transferred OS. Even offered to give me a reference...lol At 62 I have reasonable looks (No George Clooney but I get by) and lots of stamina and energy.   So, may I ask you ladies looking for sensuous fun with respect & thoughtfulness, to revise your views on THAT number   I look forward to reading responses.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    If your 62, how about being honest and fixing your profile age.Otherwise people might wonder what elseisn't quite accurate.Cheers Felonious

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Also, if you are "encouraging" ladies to expand their age preferences, why are yours limited to one decade, and that ending seven years below your own age? Pot/kettle/black? Do you believe that any woman over 62 has nothing to offer sexually? Do you have expectations of others that you, yourself, are not prepared to meet?

  • cbdlivin

    cbdlivin

    13 years ago

    There are more men to woman on this site so they can pick and choose whatever age group they want, it does not mean they will get the experience they want but it also might mean they do. Accuracy in the profile is important though...also it just means you have to work harder to charm their panties off, if wearing any, and to provide the experience so that they want to continue seeing you. B

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    you say you are 62 but you aren't looking for women over 55...I think you have answered your own question by that fact alone.x R

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Im an ageist and happy to be one....I rarely go above my age cause well I'm old and men older than me gross me out.......I must say too if I met with you at 57 then found out you were 62 I'd likely chop your cock. That's gross and filthy to lie like that!!! Roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I just love it when I can gross someone out, without even having to try.Since when is 40 old ?Cheers Felonious... the grosser outerer...lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thanks for comment. I wouldnt have said 62 if I had knowingly put 57 in profile. Will fix that soon. Yes you are right. Quoting 'feloniusfossil' If your 62, how about being honest and fixing your profile age. Otherwise people might wonder what else isn't quite accurate. Cheers Felonious

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hey, thanks for reply. One can only react to experience and mine has been (unfortunately?) that ladies i have met who have been over 55 have been inhibited and unadventurous...mind you, they werent on HP, so maybe that says something too. I excluded ages under 45 as I am a realist. Quoting 'Vagabonde'Also, if you are "encouraging" ladies to expand their age preferences, why are yours limited to one decade, and that ending seven years below your own age? Pot/kettle/black? Do you believe that any woman over 62 has nothing to offer sexually? Do you have expectations of others that you, yourself, are not prepared to meet?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    thanks for reply. see my previous replies to others. Quoting 'Freya13'you say you are 62 but you aren't looking for women over 55...I think you have answered your own question by that fact alone.x R

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Old at 40?? u have to be kidding? it IS only a number!! as in a previous answer, will fix the age in profile but if you never never go, how will you know? And how would you meet me if you dont go above your age anyway? But thanks for taking the time to reply. Quoting 'roxxyrose'Im an ageist and happy to be one....I rarely go above my age cause well I'm old and men older than me gross me out.......I must say too if I met with you at 57 then found out you were 62 I'd likely chop your cock. That's gross and filthy to lie like that!!! Roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13'you say you are 62 but you aren't looking for women over 55...I think you have answered your own question by that fact alone.x R LMFAO :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Sorry for being blunt. Its somewhat dis satisfying having to put energy into sucking a cock hard having it go soft and unusable when Im about to orgasm. Maybe I havnt met the right guy, maybe Im not that satisfying myself. But I do find younger guys have no problem giving me what I want.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    EB... there are 50 year old's out there who can get a hard on and stay hard. Maybe you will meet one soon. LMFAO!! But I agree I have had experiences with older guys that were not so... hard. If you can get a younger why wouldn't you. I'd say someone in their 30's is perfect. Still gorgeous young body but old enough to know what to do in the sack. JMO. Meeka xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Ooooh I dont know ladies...I like a bit of variety and there are many many men over 50 who can maintain that erection for hours...and hours...and hours......sigh... Some of them just dont give in....the proverbial every ready battery. Yeah they may need the occassional nap around midnight but then who doesnt? But it is all good...they generally wake up hard and ready for more anyway, just like the younger males do. I find that those who do suffer from erectile dysfunction have absolutely no problems satisfying a woman in other ways (if you get my drift). Really, the hard cock going in and out can be subsituted by toys if that is what it takes but I for one find it a little boring for a guy to be banging in and out for hours.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Do you really want to send yourself broke on Viagra just to get it up and stay up??......Felonious every time I comment on here about an age thing I get told I'm now old too. So I was just getting in first ;-P Roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have to carry Viagra - it's hard to slip in their drinkI still don't like cups of tea in the morning - I prefer a stiff long blackI really dislike TV - prefer to dine all night instead

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Outside the nursing home?? :p just kidding. It's like this dude, why is it that YOU want someone that much younger?? Rhetorical question by the way. IT'S YOUR PREFERRENCE!! Their preference does NOT have to meet your preferrence just because YOU WANT THEM TO! *exhale* see? Not hard eh?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    and I wouldn't even give you a look in as you have no pics up. Call me ageist, picky, fussy whatever.. it's my perogative.   I have an age range, but I am not a nazi about it, I am not one of those who get pissed off or annoyed by men older than my quoted range messaging or flirting. If I don't reply, then I'm not interested. It is not so much about the age, but whether or not I am attracted to the person. If I received a message from a 60 year old who I deemed attractive and he was local, and piqued my interest, I would go there. The site asks for a range and I have given my preferred, it also serves to cut down on alot of unnecessary messages (only other women would understand that.)   On the reverse, what's with the blokes whose age range is 18 - 99?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'shaguar469' Hey, thanks for reply. One can only react to experience and mine has been (unfortunately?) that ladies i have met who have been over 55 have been inhibited and unadventurous...mind you, they werent on HP, so maybe that says something too. I excluded ages under 45 as I am a realist. Quoting 'Vagabonde' I tend to agree with most of the replies so far. You're not interested in 55 years or over due to experiencing some uninhibited andunadventurous sex, but you expect to be given a go (and with no picture)? So what exactly did you do to encourage adventure to these women and how did you introduce it?   Everyone has their own preferences and sometimes, it's not for any reason, it's just because that's what they like becaus that's what they like.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    an interesting read for you would be the Older Woman thread.....x R

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'roxxyrose'Do you really want to send yourself broke on Viagra just to get it up and stay up??...... So long as he is satisfying me I see no problem here. Most men with erectile dysfunction still enjoy the act of sex without all the mess of orgasm. Most of them are more than happy to play about for hours and hours without ever getting THIER rocks off. Works for me. I can lie back and be completely selfish...what is not to like? Like I said..if getting something hard banging in and out is what it is all about for you...he can use a toy where you get to chose the size.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thanks for reply...its not blunt if thats your experience. Hasnt been mine. (going soft, that is) I get as much pleasure giving as receiving...makes the experience and sensations last so much longer. You may have to drag me out by the hair. I delight in giving multiple orgasms. Prefer to use my tongue for good than evil. Its a 2 way thing, not all 1 way . No limits but no pain foreplay sets the scene for a long session. And it wont end there. Quoting 'EuropianBliss'Sorry for being blunt. Its somewhat dis satisfying having to put energy into sucking a cock hard having it go soft and unusable when Im about to orgasm. Maybe I havnt met the right guy, maybe Im not that satisfying myself. But I do find younger guys have no problem giving me what I want.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thanks for reply. I only very recently joined to see what its all about. Agree completely about pic...and after a while, worked out a) how to change age b) how to get pic uploaded (48 hrs so it says) . My abilities are more attuned to pleasure than technology. So I'll check in again in 48 hours or so & see if you have posted a comment. Negative or positive doesnt matter, helpful to get opinion. AND you are right, why would anyone reply without a pic? Could be anything! Quoting 'Saskia72' and I wouldn't even give you a look in as you have no pics up. Call me ageist, picky, fussy whatever.. it's my perogative.   I have an age range, but I am not a nazi about it, I am not one of those who get pissed off or annoyed by men older than my quoted range messaging or flirting. If I don't reply, then I'm not interested. It is not so much about the age, but whether or not I am attracted to the person. If I received a message from a 60 year old who I deemed attractive and he was local, and piqued my interest, I would go there. The site asks for a range and I have given my preferred, it also serves to cut down on alot of unnecessary messages (only other women would understand that.)   On the reverse, what's with the blokes whose age range is 18 - 99?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I am just to old for ya fella.   Besides I like my nice collection of cuties.   Thats the joy of being a woman from RHP if you have a heart beat, and thats even debatable   some sweet thing will slip between your thighs and give you a nice time :)   they may be young but they are shit loads better than the men I had back in the day.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'tuscanred' I am just to old for ya fella.   Besides I like my nice collection of cuties.   Thats the joy of being a woman from RHP if you have a heart beat, and thats even debatable   some sweet thing will slip between your thighs and give you a nice time :)   they may be young but they are shit loads better than the men I had back in the day.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'EuropianBliss' Sorry for being blunt. Its somewhat dis satisfying having to put energy into sucking a cock hard having it go soft and unusable when Im about to orgasm. Maybe I havnt met the right guy, maybe Im not that satisfying myself. But I do find younger guys have no problem giving me what I want. lmao!!! luv it and totally agree. i may be in my 40's but i want a young stud...otherwise i would leave this site and go fuck my miserable ol husband :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' EB... there are 50 year old's out there who can get a hard on and stay hard. Maybe you will meet one soon. LMFAO!! But I agree I have had experiences with older guys that were not so... hard. If you can get a younger why wouldn't you. I'd say someone in their 30's is perfect. Still gorgeous young body but old enough to know what to do in the sack. JMO. Meeka xx

  • Hanna_ybbn

    Hanna_ybbn

    13 years ago

    Shag - hi and welcome to RHP!You are possibly already finding out that the forums are a bit of a fire pit lolI think you are handling yourself excellently btw Right, correct me if I get this wrong Shags;You just joined Red Hot PieYou are a 'Guest' member for the time beingYou have obviously been having a look around the site!From those 3 observations, I can understand and certainly appreciate your topic rather than bash you about your age and honest mistakes you've made on your profile as a new member.The topic!Please note that my age range stips - 30 - 65 I believe.I'm not interested in having friends under 30 - been there done that and am over the whole getting shitfaced and going to nightclubs scene which seems to be the prevalent choices of said demographic! (genera, I know)I'm not particularly interested in having friends over 65 either - not for any particular reason other than I know EXACTLY why I am on Red Hot Pie and someone above the age of 65 is someone I'd rather have as a personal friend in real life.My husband is 65.My lover is 45.I am going to confess that the best partners that I have had in the past 10 years have all been over 50.I don't go seeking the 'silver fox' at all, but I just find that my personality and stage in life suits better to a more mature and settled mind.Ok, the one thing I fail to understand from some contributors here; why would you comment in such an overt manner your dislike of older men or women. It wasn't the question whether or not you like them or find them repulsive.I think that's just rude and arrogant.Hanna xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hi Hanna! hey, 1 out of ??? in agreement!!. Thanks for your positive comments. You are right on all 3 counts. Totally agree about 30's & getting sh## faced...way beyond that. I'm not worried about negative comment, some of it was realistic...like I didnt realise my age was showing as 57...otherwise why would I put in that I'm 62?...I think I've fixed that and the pic, so those comments were useful. Thats what forums are for I guess. So thanks again for the comments. Shaguar. PS Great pic! Quoting 'Hanna_ybbn'Shag - hi and welcome to RHP! You are possibly already finding out that the forums are a bit of a fire pit lolI think you are handling yourself excellently btw Right, correct me if I get this wrong Shags;You just joined Red Hot PieYou are a 'Guest' member for the time being You have obviously been having a look around the site!From those 3 observations, I can understand and certainly appreciate your topic rather than bash you about your age and honest mistakes you've made on your profile as a new member.The topic!Please note that my age range stips - 30 - 65 I believe.I'm not interested in having friends under 30 - been there done that and am over the whole getting shitfaced and going to nightclubs scene which seems to be the prevalent choices of said demographic! (genera, I know)I'm not particularly interested in having friends over 65 either - not for any particular reason other than I know EXACTLY why I am on Red Hot Pie and someone above the age of 65 is someone I'd rather have as a personal friend in real life.My husband is 65.My lover is 45.I am going to confess that the best partners that I have had in the past 10 years have all been over 50.I don't go seeking the 'silver fox' at all, but I just find that my personality and stage in life suits better to a more mature and settled mind.Ok, the one thing I fail to understand from some contributors here; why would you comment in such an overt manner your dislike of older men or women. It wasn't the question whether or not you like them or find them repulsive.I think that's just rude and arrogant.Hanna xx