RHP

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kissing

February 23 2010

I need to know from girls and guys whether kissing for them is an emotional thing left for relationships?boyfriends and girlfriends.Or does it just depend what circumstance your in?

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I guess it goes both ways

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Meah, I'm not in it for the emotional ride... it's just what I do to get me horny. I think it has something to do with pheremones. So if there is no kissing (no access to pheremones)... or if there's no "magic" in it (not attracted to those particular pheremones)... I generally think "next".   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    fair enough i guess

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Not just reserved for LTR, Kissing is the kindling of any great fire. Cheers Nev...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    could u explain the pheremones

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    No, kissing isn't just for relationships.  Kissing is part of sex for me.  My lips and tongue and mouth are one big interconnected erogenous zone so fucking and kissing for me go hand in hand.Actually, I've been known to snog my mates when trashy too, so kissing and me go hand in hand.I understand for some people they don't like to kiss whilst engaging in erotic acts with someone who isn't their partner, or if they have a prtner and getting some on the side... I'm not one of them.  Hell a good makeout session can be better than actually screwing.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I love a good snog *giggle*.  To be honest with you, it comes so naturally so if I wasn't allowed to kiss, I'd spend so much time concentrating on NOT kissing that I think I'd forget to enjoy myself.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    There is nothing like a great kiss!  I love kissing.... soft, passionate, beautiful kisses... the prelude to incredible sex!!!  But when my partner and I play as a couple we do not kiss others on the lips... only each other.  Same with oral sex.... there is no way he is going to kiss me after he's eaten something I don't so we don't engage in oral sex when we play as a couple.  I wouldn't let him kiss me after he's eaten liver either!   Sweet

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    ...we both find kissing the most intense celebration of our love for each other, there is no other physical act as intimate and meaningful. Kissing each other is the ultimate display of affection, if we're in the shits with each other we can't bear just kissing for the sake of it so it's a big thing for us.....but....playing around without kissing is damn boring. Again I guess it's the keyhole into connecting with a person, if you can't share a good tongue lashing then why would you want to have sex with them?

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Kiss for all ocassions ..Sensual and sexy ummm..

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    i guess that poses a very good question puppy. and thats why i have had to break it off with someone that i enjoy having fun with but just can't kiss passionately because its an emotinal thing for him left for relationships.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    random snogs and one night stands are pretty foreign to me.. i've had a few brief encounters in my time, but with familiar girls; friends, colleagues and workmates, never strangers.. (so yes, this internet thing is quite a new experience to me)... (not that i've hooked up yet).....however, i digress, back to the topic..yes, a kiss means a lot. i need some sort of attraction or connection, beyond physical, to want to be intimate with someone. you have to actually like and care about the person to want to drive them wild, right..?meaningless sex is.. well... meaningless...and a kiss is the ultimate intimacy. face to face, body fluids entwined, the taste, the texture.. ultimately reserved for the one you love, but when the heat of the moment takes you (with someone you CARE to be intimate with) the passion can be devouring...but to my point.. yes, there have been times when i have slept with a girl and no kissing has taken place, the rule set by myself before contact.. twice i have been with a girl and told them this is 'strictly physical'. no kissing on the lips allowed.in hindsight, though about ten years apart, they have both been shortly after (or the first girl since) my last girlfriend who i was deeply involved with. so my heart was still with someone else, even though that was long gone, i was not willing to be so intimate with another person yet, even though we both needed the 'physical release'.added to this, i did not really 'care' for these girls in an intimate way, so kissing didn't feel right. one was a flatmate, the other was the younger sister of my primary school best friend, met up 15 years later. we needed sex at the time, but i didn't want that kind of intimacy with that person.quite a waffle there, sorry. but in short;... ah fuck it... i can't summarise this in a nice neat quote...i guess puppy said it well;it's the keyhole to connecting with someone...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Unless I've missed something... or some replies are posted late... it seems almost unanimous so far.... and I agree with everyone's sentiments above, especially Polar_Bear_Girl lol ... kissing is the most fun ever... xxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Sonsie'I love a good snog *giggle*.  To be honest with you, it comes so naturally so if I wasn't allowed to kiss, I'd spend so much time concentrating on NOT kissing that I think I'd forget to enjoy myself.   I've actually experienced exactly that.  Because I couldn't kiss I was concentrating too much on what I wasn't allowed to do that it totally ruined the mood for what I COULD do.   Unfortunately when a couple says 'and of course, no kissing' you just have to go 'ok.......' or reject.  It's hard to reject when the situation has advanced to this point.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    thats exactly how it was and even though i enjoyed the fun and his company i had to say goodbye,because it was killing me inside that i couldn't snog him,damnit.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Kissing. Wow. Yummy. From a peck on the cheek to Olypic tongue grappling.....I could wax lyrical endlessly on this....but.....   My favourite kiss is a vodka kiss.....swapping ice cold vodka over crushed, bruised lips after long hot lovemaking is the best kind of kiss....   Don;t believe me ? try it ! lol   DoggyStyle

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    That opinions vary on kissing outside a relationship.  I find kissing (and I am talking about full on open mouth tongue swapping kissing) a very sensual act.  However I don't believe it is just left to bf/gf husband/wife.  I can't really see the difference between another man putting his tongue in my mouth and he putting his dick inside me.   Is not giving your body to someone else more sacred than a kiss?   Nikki

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    no kissing...no turn-on...no kissing...no stirring in the loinsno connection...no kissingi have only been with one gross kisser...great big mouth....at least my face got a wash...and why should kissing be reserved for just the lips, huh..???oh, to go roving over a beautiful woman...licking her neck, tasting her shoulders, mmmmdown her arms...smelling her skin as my lips savour the taste of her skin...jose...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    french kissing with two women....wow!!...or even three women....WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!four mouths...four pairs of lips....four tongues.........wait...i feel something stirring.....bad jose...*spank!*jose...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Kissing....LOVE IT!! I could kiss all night.If a guy isn't a good kisser...then usually...things don't go any further.I love a nice kiss...soft lips but not floppy...moist but not dripping....tongue but not licking the back of my throat....moaning and sighing....and above all.....NO BAD BREATH!!(Brush your tongue as well as your teeth please!)Mmm...I don't mind a nice bite too....right as I'm cumming....hard on the neck....yum.JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Well, one NYE several years ago, I was in a three way pash with two friends (M&F) and it was fucking hot.  Went for ages too... and at that time of the night when everything's all fuzzy.  Was awesome!  Nothing else happened, just the kissing.Mmm, vodka and brusied lips - Woof!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    got it in one darl.even when not in the mood a good snog brings it on every time.Earl, off to have a cold shower.ahahahahahaahhahaahahaha

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    C'mere and pash me honey!Mmmm....BJxxx

  • floyd277

    floyd277

    16 years ago

    nothing better than those long soft kisses that seem to last forever but you don't want to stop - hmmmm yummo xxxx