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kiss on the lips
January 10 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
Most comfortable with it, if it feels right :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm all for kissing on the lips when meeting a potential playmate. It does depend on what the contact until then has been like, but I find a soft lingering kiss a great way to start a date!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Me and my girlfriend got a handshake that day you came to the studio... we were robbed! I think you were doing some reasearch for your wife, re sexuality and well there was non to be had at the studio just old dry paint and old dried up women.... My friend was here yesterday and spotted you on the forums me, total blonde had no recolection at all.
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RHP User
13 years ago
has someone been sprung
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RHP User
13 years ago
Do I smell something BURNing?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe a little bit cheeky perhaps but am all for it if it is offered or allowed to proceed when presented & yes can be a great way to start the meet with,of course it is up to each individual or couple, some people are comfortable in doing so but others may wait until the end of the date/meet to acknowledge the mutual feeling & a kiss on the lips is considered an acceptance for things to maybe go further,confused yeah you should try it from my side haha i have to get out more often, any girls game for a date ??.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh god you have NO IDEA just how small Perth is till you live here Only 2 degrees of separation in this place Loving that comment TR - ya dizzy blonde !!! So many men etc ...:) xx Op ... Quite comfy with whole kiss on lips scenario Currently seeking one that wants to be kissed !!!
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
I usually only give a kiss on the cheek if I feel comfortable with someone or they are a very close friends - or I usually just say hello or shake their hands! But in playing if they can kiss really well, well that's a totally different story - I then love to kiss xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
we dont do kisses, or hugs etc, with strangers...even if we are meeting them with a possible 'option' to play. there needs to be both trust and familiarity before letting anyone into 'personal space'...........and thats never a guarantee either......
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hmm, 'Sprung' - that would suggest that I am a 'Cheat' or being deceptive in some way? Would I really use a clear and recent face pic if that was the case? Probably not ;-).. I do not hide the fact that I am 'Poly' and not Monogomous...but it is with honesty and transparency that I do this. This is my first single profile and previously had a couple profile.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' I'm all for kissing on the lips when meeting a potential playmate. It does depend on what the contact until then has been like, but I find a soft lingering kiss a great way to start a date! my mind goes back to an innocent place as a 15 yr old sharing that forst awkward kiss. mind u i have a extraordinarily long tongue which invariably leads to an "accidental" frenchie. moohahaha shall we?
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RHP User
13 years ago
yum yum
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would with you Philosopherpoet ... for sure Anyone else...NAH just a kiss on the cheek...or maybe a slip of the tongue somewhere else...
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RHP User
13 years ago
A kiss on the lips is a great way to start a date. If not...a firm handshake does the trick. Tuscan... Say it ain't so... :-(
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RHP User
13 years ago
Usually go for a kiss on the cheek at a first meet if its for coffee or drinks. Especially if there hasn't been a lot of messaging before hand. If the date went well and we intend to meet up again then a lingering kiss on the lips is a nice way to say good bye until next time. During a play date love lots of kissing. SFxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
right at the very bottom of your profile OP it says polyamorous,but it also says SINGLE. Not really transparent,more a stained glass window...if indeed you are married. If not then I apologise.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Philosopherpoet'Hmm, 'Sprung' - that would suggest that I am a 'Cheat' or being deceptive in some way? Would I really use a clear and recent face pic if that was the case? Probably not ;-).. I do not hide the fact that I am 'Poly' and not Monogomous...but it is with honesty and transparency that I do this. This is my first single profile and previously had a couple profile. hey guys he is right, so dont jump all over him he was honest with us, and talked about his wife no deception there and I had not read the profile, just thought it was the same one as before my bad I just forgot that I meet him. Ya get that. it was my girlfriend who saw him while she was reading over my shoulder. and your right Sinabee too many men ...nahh there can never be to many men..cant there? I lurrrrrrrrrrv WA :) fifo men are heaven for me , its like owning a ton of shoes :) they are always there ready to be worn, and makes a girl feel sooooo good and sexy :) come on Sinabee, there is more to life than a relationship, some radom acts of raw bonking is good for ya now and again even if its a sat night but never when the footy is on !
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RHP User
13 years ago
There is no option for Poly or open and considering the fact that my behaviour is more akin to a single guy than an attached or married guy it makes more sense to use it...I certainly don't hide the fact.. :-) xx- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
..i like the first kiss when the person your kissing holds the kiss for that split second longer than you, the subtle feeling of excitement in knowing that person nearly just read your mind - a kiss can make or break
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Philosopherpoet'Hmm, 'Sprung' - that would suggest that I am a 'Cheat' or being deceptive in some way? Would I really use a clear and recent face pic if that was the case? Probably not ;-).. I do not hide the fact that I am 'Poly' and not Monogomous...but it is with honesty and transparency that I do this. This is my first single profile and previously had a couple profile. About as transparant as my morning coffee. Single is single, married is married, attached is attached. Polyamorous or not.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Am I missing something here? Give the poor guy a break! He asked a simple question. TR - inadvertently it seems - threw the cat among the pigeons by thinking out loud about her memory lapse, which from my read was not actually intended as a specific dig about him being married. He's now clarified - and been honest. TR has now clarified - and confirmed he was honest in the beginning. I'm not sure there's any call for a moral high ground here, and shoot the messenger if you like, but sheesh it's unbecoming!
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RHP User
13 years ago
You are a really good kisser too .... ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Which lips are we talking about??? 😜In all honesty though I'm with DG....if someone were to plant one on my lips first meet....I'd feel very much like the other party had way too many expectations....and that is something I don't do.
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RHP User
13 years ago
but your not single - if your married......theres a piece of paper that you own that confirms that .........so perhaps you need to have a more honest "single" profile stating that your in fact attached.....- especially if you live in Perth, in fact definitely if you live in Perth - scarey how we all know each other - and we so do !!! TR come on Sinabee, there is more to life than a relationship, some radom acts of raw bonking is good for ya now and again even if its a sat night but never when the footy is on No Never when the footy is on.!!! ever ...Im missing the footy ...........but remind me to tell of you my last random experience........still shuddering over it.....give me a good book or a dvd any day after the shite I just had to put up with xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mr Poet, I dont thank as many ladies would have swooned when you first appeared had they been aware that "single = married" Poly or not..... Just saying. To answer the question, its only on the cheek with stangers for me/us. Ms Fun
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ms_devious.....I see you have already labelled me without even considering the nature of polyamory. You do amuse me. :-) Xx- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'Philosopherpoet'Hmm, 'Sprung' - that would suggest that I am a 'Cheat' or being deceptive in some way? Would I really use a clear and recent face pic if that was the case? Probably not ;-).. I do not hide the fact that I am 'Poly' and not Monogomous...but it is with honesty and transparency that I do this. This is my first single profile and previously had a couple profile. About as transparant as my morning coffee. Single is single, married is married, attached is attached. Polyamorous or not. Sounds like having cake and eating it too.... Im with you Miss D .... We do like our honesty ............In response to the question though happy for a kiss on the cheek ... we shouldn't be too presumptuous.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mr PP I'm an affectionate person, always touching , hugging ...that's me ...but how I greet a potential playmate often depends on what has happened prior and that chemistry that sometimes happens in an instant! I've had the cheek kiss, the hand on waist and cheek kiss , and the one second animal look that went straight to lips kissing , hands gripping and two hours later we moved out of the hotel doorway. Meow! Minxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
If I'm meeting someone from the Internet , we would have already established what's going to happen ;) A lot can be learned from a kiss ...- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am an amourous polyhedron ,doesn't mean that I am not single
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ghostbusters' Which lips are we talking about??? 😜In all honesty though I'm with DG....if someone were to plant one on my lips first meet....I'd feel very much like the other party had way too many expectations....and that is something I don't do. REALLY GB???I'm sure you've planted your lips on "LOWER LIPS" on first meet...
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RHP User
13 years ago
My wife and I both think that the way a person kisses is a good indication of how good a lover they will be, and it's proven to be true most of the time so far, so yes bring on those kisses :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Philosopherpoet'There is no option for Poly or open and considering the fact that my behaviour is more akin to a single guy than an attached or married guy it makes more sense to use it...I certainly don't hide the fact.. :-) xx- Posted from rhpmobile I posted my thumbs-down answer before your explanation above was visible on the forum. So I had another think about it. You say your behaviour is more akin to a single than an attached guy, so you call yourself single on your profile. My ex would have loved this reasoning. I'm just judging your character here, as obviously I'm in no position to do so, but your action still gets a thumbs-down from me. Kiss on the cheek only for you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mr Otori is happy to go in for the hugs and kisses when first meeting a new friend, but I MUCH prefer a handshake at most. I don't like randoms hugging and kissing when I first meet them. It just does not come naturally to me. I will kiss when I feel comfortable, but usually only during playing.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Goodness havent you all got your knickers into a twist with just thoughts of a kiss?? I have different profiles on different sites and none of them give the option for open/poly and I'm certainly not crossing the box for attached/friends only..I dont just want friends..I want my cake and eat it...but my, my aren't we all judgemental today....knowing philosopher poet most intimately hes not a liar..hes beautiful,open and very fun ;) ..and no coercion was required :) ..and our marriage vows were somewhat different to most..not everyone has the same ideals, the same little box or the same definitions...certainly the definition of 'marriage' is extremely broad..it varies from couple to couple...sex to sex..person to person..culture to culture..I shall continue to put myself in any term I wish..and kiss the boys..and the girls ;) on the lips..now I know what Mrs B was on about with the forums..youre all a little..whats the word?..scary :)...ease up ladies this world does not need the moral police...xx ..we have enough of those dont we out there???..anyone who knows us or talks to us knows our status...blimey next you'll be asking everyone to declare their STI status on their profiles..xx love Mrs Tantra..aka Mrs Philosopher Poet..her indoors..:)...and no I'm not up for a fight ;)..just thought youd like to hear 'her' side of the story...
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RHP User
13 years ago
meant to say that we do keep the passionate kissig for play time not on first meet...:-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
It depends on the reaction to first eye contact and if there is any kind of spark. Usually I would offer a hand if if liked the look of someone, sometimes my cheek, but if that person made my heart leap or gave me twinges then I would definitely offer my lips. Xxxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm NOT judging your character that should have read, poet! NOT!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I say go for it or a shake of hands as others say your the ones who have the choice to do so
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TrymeonForsize
13 years ago
am kind of kicking myself that I went for the standard non toe curing kiss on the cheek OP ..............especially after experiencing your goodbye one ( and yes ladies, the OP was VERY honest about his relationship, refreshing I must say .........) xx
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TrymeonForsize
13 years ago
* toe curling...........
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'NorthernTantra' aren't we all judgemental today....knowing philosopher poet most intimately hes not a liar..hes beautiful,open and very fun ;) ..and no coercion was required :) ..and our marriage vows were somewhat different to most..not everyone has the same ideals, the same little box or the same definitions...certainly the definition of 'marriage' is extremely broad..it varies from couple to couple...sex to sex..person to person..culture to culture..I shall continue to put myself in any term I wish..and kiss the boys..and the girls ;) on the lips..now I know what Mrs B was on about with the forums..youre all a little..whats the word?..scary :)...ease up ladies this world does not need the moral police...xx ..we have enough of those dont we out there???..anyone who knows us or talks to us knows our status...blimey next you'll be asking everyone to declare their STI status on their profiles..xx love Mrs Tantra..aka Mrs Philosopher Poet..her indoors..:)...and no I'm not up for a fight ;)..just thought youd like to hear 'her' side of the story...Glad to hear your side. Thank you!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Depends upon the scenario; if it’s the first meet for a potential play-friend then it’s usually a hug and a kiss on the cheek. If it’s a follow up meet knowing that it’s going to be sexual, then a soft lingering kiss on the mouth is lovely. BTW nice post NorthernTantra. Even this site doesn’t have a tick box for everything it appears! LOL Sometimes asking for more information allows us to understand unique situations. “Where should one use perfume?" a young woman asked. "Wherever one wants to be kissed.” ― Coco Chanel
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'TrymeonForsize' am kind of kicking myself that I went for the standard non toe curing kiss on the cheek OP ..............especially after experiencing your goodbye one ( and yes ladies, the OP was VERY honest about his relationship, refreshing I must say .........) xx Yes - I did notice you slightly gave me the cheek when we met! ;-)
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On_Safari
13 years ago
A kiss is the upper persuasion for a lower invasion and a man's signature. Her kisses leave something to be desired... the rest of her. And we all know a kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to fill the silence when speech becomes superfluous.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am all for a nice sweet kiss on the lips when meeting a lady A kiss on the cheek is reserved for my mother and family members. However On_Safari it could be a different scenario for you lol.
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On_Safari
13 years ago
Do you remember that first afternoon when we embraced briefly, your insistence that you wanted to hug me because you found me so special; then your attempt at kissing me at your back door? ~soft gentle laughter~. I walked away shaking my head thinking how presumptious you were. How quickly the tables turned on me for yours are the sweetest lips I have ever delighted in.....There's this place in me where your fingerprints still rest, your kisses still linger, and your whispers softly echo. It's the place where a part of you will forever be a part of me. You've left quite an indelible impression on me my love, sometimes I think of you and tears slide down my face (as they are now) others just a cheeky smile and sometimes when I speak of you or describe you to others it's almost reverential. Uncertain why you pop into my thoughts so often...... Save a dance for me when we meet again, please Sir.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' but never when the footy is on ! Hahaha! Genius!But, meantime... I'd never thought about giving someone I've never met face-to-face before a kiss on the lips straight up... cheeks, yes, but now I'm considered perhaps I'm a prude about that one little detail.
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