RHP

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just out of curiousity

July 29 2010

just a couple of questions.... if at your age now you were still a virgin....then you met a lovely man/woman that you wanted to get to know better ...would you tell that person you were a virgin or would you just hope and pray they didnt realise??? .... how would you get round not telling her/him and still looking like you know what your doing???....if thats even possible lol but also.... .....seeing she/he and yourself have the same mates....do you trust her/him not to tell them??? ... would that change your decision to tell or not??? thanks everyone i need some help on this one.... xxRxx the artist formally known as roxxy ....hahaha sorry couldnt resist

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I didn't tell my first that I was a virgin until afterwards (then it turned out he was too - we so should have had that convo beforehand I would have picked someone different), and I don't think I would mention it now.Umm, weird, I can't imagine being a virgin at 35... I think I should just stay out of this conversation. :)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    yeah right, just seems that waycoz out o practice.....good idea but. tell everyone yer a virgin,get sympathy sex and they have no expectations.win, win situation realy.my name is Earl and i've been a virgin fer5 minutes...........ahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarl

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Why do you need help with this one? Are you still a virgin? If so you should have probably knocked one out with Earl on the couch lastnight.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Ya Know something Foxxay Roxxay? I'm a firm believer in communication. If you're prepared for the fall out after dropping the V-bomb...then so be it. Easygoing..nasty bum boil you've got there...looks ouchy....

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Its where I bit her on the arse,it aint boil.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    apparently the virgin Mary with the 100 odd kids i have lol not my question easygoing...but the person needs help and they are around this age...so they are damn old hehe nah couldnt get to Earl on the couch...think i squished his skinny arse ;-) hmmm i wonder if telling them im a virgin will help...never know till you try hehe xxRxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Thanks for the clarification...would never, ever in my wildest imagination have guessed...

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'easygoing24U' Why do you need help with this one? Are you still a virgin? If so you should have probably knocked one out with Earl on the couch lastnight. especially after that much vino..ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaSnoring loudly, Earl

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    If your friend has waited this long to enter into a sexual relationship then I assume …yes, I know, never assume… that this is not a casual liaison but a significant relationship & this decision has not been made lightly. I’d hope they’d feel secure enough in this relationship to discuss their status, expectations & possible fears with their partner. I’d like to think that the prospective partner would be honoured & ensure this first time was truly memorable & pleasurable experience. I’d hope they trusted each other enough to not worry that the other maybe discussing their intimate details with mutual friends. Ms Blind xo

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I wouldn't divulge straight out, I'd wait a couple of dates and suss out intentions and if they seem like a mature, open-minded and understanding adult then I'd tell them. It doesn't have to be something to hide away though but it might make you more desirable!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Tough question and sometimes it is easier said than done but honesty is always the best policy. ciaoHermes

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    thanks Ms Blind....i think the problem is the virgin is worried if it goes badly the other might become vindictive and tell all to their friends virginity sheez im glad i didnt put any thought into loosing mine lol xxRxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'TassieRose' thanks Ms Blind....i think the problem is the virgin is worried if it goes badly the other might become vindictive and tell all to their friends virginity sheez im glad i didnt put any thought into loosing mine lol xxRxx Id have my opportunity again but only so I wasnt so blind about it coming :P I was having fun in a club drunk as all hell and then in the cab right home we were all over each other and she asked if I had a condom to which i made the taxi pull over at a servo whileI bought a box of each and tried to make them into an ammo belt

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I"m with you Rose! if I knew then what i know now... Ms Blind xo

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I did take a trip to the Virgin Islands not that long ago and one of the promoters of the tour promised that I would come home "recycled" and ready to start all over again? | Wonder if that was just a phoney promotion to get you to book the holiday? | Oh well...I came home singing "Island Girl" ... | ...so probably voided any implied warrantys anyway!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    much appreciated....you have been a big help to my friend now i guess it is all up to them roxxy

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Roxy ....I explicitly asked you not to tell everyone i was still a virgin !!!! A couple of nights in a motel room together and all my secrets are out !!! Promise not to tell about the flocking of the sheep !!! guides honour ???

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I had one once - quite a while ago. LOL. He was 34 when I met him and after we got to know each other a bit he confessed. Took care of that problem and damn he was good. His next girlfriend was afriend of mine and she thanked me for the good teaching job!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'missbowpeek'Roxy ....I explicitly asked you not to tell everyone i was still a virgin !!!! A couple of nights in a motel room together and all my secrets are out !!! Promise not to tell about the flocking of the sheep !!! guides honour ??? whoops sorry miss b....i didnt tell them it was you though lol and i promise i wont tell a soul about flocking all those sheep in the room we shared...honest, promise roxxy

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    lol im the v-man, and yeah im just worried that if it doesnt go well, she might get nasty n tell everyone

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'ihitmyfunnybone'lol im the v-man, and yeah im just worried that if it doesnt go well, she might get nasty n tell everyone baby you faced up, good for you mwahhhhh well you can read what everyone says babe and decide for yourself...love ya babe..im sure you'l make the right decission mwahhhh roxxy