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just curious

June 17 2010

a lovely man said something to me today that made me think.... what makes a woman good in bed??? what gives that..."wow that was good" feeling when you have both finished so guys and gals...what makes you walk away saying "hmmmm want her again....she was great" roxxy

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    not being inflatible.puncture repairs are SOOOhigh maintenance..........ahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahaEarl

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    A Pulse xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Earl you really should aim for a higher standard of woman babe hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha (roxxy quoting Earl) roxxy

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    An experience that has the following Openess Honesty pushing limits trying new things breathlessness a feeling they let themselves relax , be "there" a smile a final kiss on goodbye All experiences have different ingredient but these are staples. Brae

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    What makes a woman good in bed - hell agreeing to be in bed with me, I am just thankful someone said yes ! (damn this drought has to finish soon lol)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I'm alright in bed, and hopefully for the following reasons:I'm honest and open to new experiences What you see is what you getI know what I like and I know what works for me - I'm not at all shy about asking for it, or showing my appreciation when I get it!I know my limitationsI am comfortable in my own skinI am confidentI have a brain and am not afraid to use it to enhance the sexI have funI like sex with the lights onI enjoy pleasing and if I receive pleasure in return, bonus!I tend to prefer the same in my partner, so if they tick all my boxes and stimulate my mind as well as my body, then 9 times out of 10, I will walk away smiley, satiated and eager for encores!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'couple30ssydney' I am comfortable in my own skinI have funI like sex with the lights on those ^^^, those ones right there. Leaving aside all the little 'skill' based things, those were the things I was going to post, but you guys said it first. Sex thats is playful and fun has massive "I need more of THAT" factor, whereas when it is full of neverending hangups about the curtain being just so, the lighting not showing _that_ angle, blah, blah *yawn*. (oh, I don't necessarily mean 'sex with the lights on' - with a good blindfold, how would you know? - but the attitude that goes with the 'lights on' sex)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I see you, you see me honest connection and a sense of humour always go along way in my experience.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Being honest with herself, with me, with what she wants, with what she wants to do and what she wants from the experience. From honesty comes trust, respect, confidence, sensuality, experimentation, fun, sensuality, openness and everything else. Think about it :) Oh, and great kissable lips and hands with a soft touch and soft skin to touch help too ;) LOL

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Why do Men pay prostitutes? To leave. So if she cost nothing coz she was not a Pro, and I don't want her to leave after sex..... she must have been good in bed. No, just mucking about. For me it is her ability to join me on any plane of sexuality and if she cannot/will not communicate at an arousing level for more than a minute without getting awkward or complex then I will reconsider just how wonderful her breakfast could have been at a cafe nearby..... If they're filthy minded, shocking noisy types, they can stay for lunch. If they're sensual, confident and have a great libido and an open mind and pursuits of their own (in fantasy terms) and can stay in a 69 for an hour.....they can stay indefinately.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    sydneyboy i wanna hear more about the little 'skilled' based things please my sweetest thank you all for telling me....its just something that made me think.... roxxy

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Ive never commented on a forum before...its always mrs shy...but she tells me all about them...i have to add my two cents worth... I agree with Sydneyboy, couple30s, sweetipe... All of the above to what they have already said... - Knowing she is completely into it -shes comfortable with herself and wants to enjoy you and let you enjoy her -communicates what she wants and expresses her desire -its not just sex based...its knowing that the woman is having as much fun as you and she wants to be there...and she is expressing it...thats the comeback factor. Mr Shy xxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Its like anything in life' some people you connect with and some you dont. Some encounters stays in your mind forever' and some are forgotten within a week. My most memorable encounter was with a fabulous girl who although not a raving beauty gave the most satisfying sex I ever had.. ( Mrs JJ knows about this ) She was a pretty yet unfashionable type of girl ' not the type you would think would have a sexy bone in her body.. but the first time I seen her naked I couldnt believe what she had been concealing.. and the quality of the encounter was second to none. I backed up many more times before sadly she moved interstate... Personally' I need to connect with a female on a mental level as much as attractiveness.. I love to be with a woman who is confident but smart enough to know how to be submissive when the time is right.. knowing what she wants and being feminine is important . Most important is that she gives as much as she takes.. a lazy woman is not a memorable fuck.. Its about building a expectation then keeping it there and playing with that moment.. You know when you are at that point because its like a steady stream of water... it just starts flowing and things happen at a steady non rushed pace allowing each other the time to embrace the moment. Usually the climax is exposive ' rolling and satisfying.. THATS when you know you will be back for more... It sticks in your mind and it doesnt go away.. Mr JJ

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    to meet a woman who wasn't just awesome in bed...hmmm....well, maybe the ex wasn't the greatest, but...since...pwhooooaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...jose...still an ...hehe

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Sorry Roxy but I have an additional question to this as what Jose said has got me thinking. I have 2 male friends that I chat to on MSN. They are just that...friends. Both are in a relationship but tell me all the time how the sex is very boring and unsatisfying. Both guys have told me how they think of someone else to help make them cum. Why would anyone stay with someone in a long term relationship if the sex is no good? I am not talking about a new relationship as things can be taught and learned. I mean long term, how could you stay with someone that doesn't satisfy you in bed? I don't get that at all....Can anyone enlighten me on this subject? xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    first can i say....Jose where the hell are you???...stop hiding and get that sexy arse back out her for me to see... welcome Mr Shy good to hear from you....thank you everyone for telling me..im thinking i just need to give the whole man thing away...the wrong ones want me back....but the right ones dont, which yeah i know makes them the wrong ones maybe its nerves???? maybe thats it...i dunno im doing something wrong funloving...that to me is easy, if i ever fell in love again (hahahahahahaha) i wouldnt care what the sex was like...to me sex isnt everything, its just a little part of everything...so id stay with a dud root forever if he was the man i truely loved (hahahahahahaha)....cause i just wouldnt care about how good or bad he was in the bedroom, just how good or bad a person he is roxxy

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    What makes a woman good in bed?... A compatiable match between both male and female. A personality, a willingness to experiment with sexual actions, accessories, clothes etc. The ability to laugh at the mistakes, the early cums or the frustrations that occasionally happen. The ability to stay there for an hour or all night if thats what it takes. The wanting to smooch and snuggle, cuddle and hug. Maybe add another partner for spice but overall the right attitude to enjoy the moment.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hey allA women who is good in bed will make noises as you make them cum and when you have sex with that women and you feel like you have had a realy good exercise session. You know being sore from doing the deed and her also doing things to you that blows your mind and you doing the same in return.I think it was 8 times I made her cum and it just made me harder each time and I just kept going and going lol. I luv it when a women can make me do that and I think wow this is awesome.But its also about having something in common and having that spark between the 2 of you that makes sex a joy and not a chore.Pity I don't live in your state Roxxy or you in mine because I would love to meet up with you.Then you can find out if I am one of the right ones lolPK !!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I think I like you brae.... Wish I was cloder to Sydney, and that I hadn't locked myself outta my profile...lmao Would love to see you face 2 face...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    It all comes down too being relaxed have a good connection and chemistry and TRUST between the two of you and listen and feel what the other persons body likes wants and craves also being open about what makes you HOT and what makes you feels good... when you find someone you have this with the connection with and have sexual chemistry then it can be out of this world.. sometimes it happens first time, others it takes work too get too there Usually when you dont have a balance you just have uninteresting awkward sex, which still can be fun and satisfying but no WOW factor....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Cos I have been wondering that too. Roxxy, while I agree that sex is not everything, often where there is a lack of sex or really bad sex, there is also a lack of intimacy and caring for the other. If you are in a good relationship, sex can be improved upon. Its impossible when there is no intimacy. I think people stay together for many reasons and good sex is something that seems to be compromised for security, safety, the sake of children and sheer lack of courage to change an unsatisfactory situation. As for what makes someone good in bed, a willingness to participate fully, to explore, to see love-making as fun, an ability to express what they want, a willingness to learn what satisfies their partner and a connection that is based on trust and respect. WTG

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Jose.....nice to see you back mwahhhh roxxy....always the