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jealousy on rhp?!

October 16 2010

Why are people here?we thought the main idea of rhp is to meet some new people to have some fun and chare the same interests. we made a weird experience. we chattet sometimes with a girl and she told us from her meetings with other people. sometimes it was just hours ago. we had no problems with that. we like to talk about experiences. but as soon she discovered that we meet other people aswell (we never met this girl, just chatted with her) she wrote us a very obvious mail that she dont wanna talk to us anymore. people are in our opinion wrong here in rhp if they expect that especially couples (which are in a relationship with each other) just wait for one person. we just dont get it.what do you think about that?Germancouple

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hey guys, I wouldn't worry about this girl. Sounds like she isn't the full quid at all. There are plenty of other men and women on RHP that are nice and genuine for both you to get to know and have fun with if you wanted. If she is going to make her RHP experience like this, then that is her choice. Make sure both of you have fun on your terms. Cheers EvilTwin81

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I can't always figure out the angle, but the pattern is common. She probably wanted something from you and when she realised that she wasn't going to get it, she found a lame excuse to stop talking. Ignore her - there are plenty like her. I recently turned in a girl (or perhaps a guy - there's no way of knowing) who had at least 5 completely different profiles. RHP acted swiftly and shut 4 of them down.

  • tank__girl

    tank__girl

    15 years ago

    As 'newbies' to the site it's great to see you've dived in head first getting amongst it! There are plenty of fakes, time wasters and just plain attention seekers on here!! I've been on and off rhp for maybe 6 or 7 years. The more people you chat to and meet, you get to know the early signs of these kinds of people, then avoid them. I've also 'found out' at least half a dozen men posing as females, out to get off over collecting private photos of us poor unsuspecting girls!! So beware of that also.....grrrrr!! They infuriate me. I've met lots of wonderful people over the years on here, and happy to call alot of them now my valued friends :). So don't lose hope over one moron! Chin up, plllllenty other normal, fun and GENUINE people around..... Like me!? You have my details, call me! And have fun til then!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Nothing wrong with that approach...I'm sure there are alot out there who think that way - but she really should be upfront about it in her profile to avoid wasting people's time. I don't think there is a right or wrong approach, it's just annoying when people put out mixed messages

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I'm still surprised that other people are surprised when they encounter freaks and weirdos in here. Sure there are plenty of them in the world but sex sites funnel them into a very concentrated group. At least you found out she was a freak before she found out where you live.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I just wanted to say HI GERMAN couple you guys are the cutest couple on here! :) Love chatting with you guys in the main room!! And most of the posts below seem very supportive of you with the main theme being, enjoy yourself don't worry about one crazy... just block her :) RHP does give YOU the tools to control who you want to chat to and who you will play with ON your own terms. Use the tools and please enjoy your stay in Australia!! Sincerely, Swannee

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Perhaps it was not the fact that you were meeting/playing with others....but the WHO the others were.Call me silly...but I have a few peeps that if you have played with them...I wont play with you.You may think it strange...but that's just how it is for me.But don't lose sleep over it.....life is too short...and there are too many other willing players out there.Flavours for everyone!JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'MissBJ' Call me silly...but I have a few peeps that if you have played with them...I wont play with you.You may think it strange...but that's just how it is for me. Is that because of them being a high risk for STDs, or personal issues - too close to home, etc? I'm only curious - not making any judgement or wishing to pry...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    it usually comes down to nothing more than i just dont like them!or for all of the reasons you stated above...lol!JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'tank__girl'As 'newbies' to the site it's great to see you've dived in head first getting amongst it! There are plenty of fakes, time wasters and just plain attention seekers on here!! I've been on and off rhp for maybe 6 or 7 years. The more people you chat to and meet, you get to know the early signs of these kinds of people, then avoid them. I've also 'found out' at least half a dozen men posing as females, out to get off over collecting private photos of us poor unsuspecting girls!! So beware of that also.....grrrrr!! They infuriate me. I've met lots of wonderful people over the years on here, and happy to call alot of them now my valued friends :). So don't lose hope over one moron! Chin up, plllllenty other normal, fun and GENUINE people around..... Like me!? You have my details, call me! And have fun til then!!! Could not agree more, tank girl ....as always got it together .... again ! We found ourselves on here and other sites at first getting infuriated with this kinda stuff and in the end just realise ....perhaps not as fast as Tank girl .....but eventually we worked out the same ....Faker photo collectors etc ......as soon as they get a chance ....... bang they run off often with lame reasons .... Now its October Germans ........why arent you being Festive .....stop worrying about crazies on RHP and get out and drink a stien or 3 ! Have fun ....stay sassy ..... Brae

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    heyfirst, thanks for all the response. we are not really worried. but we were wondering if those kind of "fun seekers" prefere the new members or try their "thing" on long term members as well? in the short time we are active here, we probaly talk to a few of therm. but we made our rules and principles before we started actually seeking .sometimes its still hard to recongnise them, as that what they are. timewasters, pretenders or like i like to call them, bottom of the food/fun chain. but i still have one question.if a profil is verified, is it safe or is it easy to fake the verifications?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    to verify your profile...you need to get a special number from rhp...then take a pic of you holding the number.So yes...I would say if a person goes to the trouble of making a fake profile...it wouldnt be too hard to fake the verification too.JMO...BJxxxI personally think the testimonials and friends list are a better indication of the validity of the profile.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'MissBJ'to verify your profile...you need to get a special number from rhp...then take a pic of you holding the number.So yes...I would say if a person goes to the trouble of making a fake profile...it wouldnt be too hard to fake the verification too.JMO...BJxxxI personally think the testimonials and friends list are a better indication of the validity of the profile. thank fuck people can't see yer verification photo, ahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahaha ahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahaha Earl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Earl....I agree!!!I took mine with my webcam...freshly woken...still wearing my nightie!!HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!Still...I looked like me...just a shabbier version of me.LMFAO!!!BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Just to piss some people off?! Love you long time Earl ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I don't think it's that easy to fake a verification, but BJ is right, if someone is going to take the time to do a fake profile they will probably go to the trouble of faking a verification. Again, I gree with BJ, friends and validations are a good way to know if someone is "real". If you really want to check up on someone then send a message to one of the validations to check. It's a lot of effort, but as you know, there are plenty of fakes it makes it hard for us real people looking to have a bit of fun.

  • tank__girl

    tank__girl

    15 years ago

    Me again! We're talking guys who make up fake profiles of girls right? Soooo, unless these freaks/fakes can get a girl to hold up their verification number on a piece of paper for a photo, a girl who looks very similar to the girl in his pics that he has collected from someone else that is.... there really is no way they can 'fake' a verification pic....is there?? Photoshop? They probably would go to that extreme!! Things I have seen... That's the point of it, so they, 'rhp' can compare the verification pic, to the ones on your profile, to make sure you are posting pics of yourself? WARNING! There is a shameless fake getting around calling himself Trish Burley...he is very convincing!!! But for some reason thought I would be more fun to play with as a male... So put his cam on for me so I could see his cock he thought I might like!! Grrrrrrrrrrrrr...

  • Tart_Du_Jour

    Tart_Du_Jour

    15 years ago

    I don't have anyone on my friends list nor have any validations. Outside the context of drinks night I went to in June I haven't met that many people from here. It hardly makes "fake". Anyway, I thought there were tales of people who were given validations from people they haven't even met. Ho hum.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hi this is semi-related ... is there a 'name and shame' forum where we can out those people who are time wasters or pic hunters ??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ... If you don't have friends or validations you 'are' a fake. Hey, that'd be a great idea posse!! Saves us genuine, sweet naive people wasting our time on them...and leaves more time for the REAL people... After being stood up on Sunday ( I said monday in 'Deal Breaking Visits' forum..) it made me think of a song on Natural Born Killers hahahaaa...!! It goes a little some thing like this....( written on iPhone, pls excuse punctuation.. Doesn't work??)......"When I get mad, and I get pissed...I get a pen and I write a list...of all the people, who wouldn't be missed.....You're on myyyy SHIT LIST!!!" :D. You like? Me too..maybe just not missed if they weren't on Rhp though..? Don't want the people who already don't think it... To think I'm A nutjob. :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'pussyposse' Hi this is semi-related ... is there a 'name and shame' forum where we can out those people who are time wasters or pic hunters ?? What, so every lunatic with an axe to grind could mess with other people's RHP experience? No thanks! As they say of capital punishment, better to let a hundred guilty go free than to hang one innocent. Just complain to RHP - I've had good success with that in the past.

  • tank__girl

    tank__girl

    15 years ago

    I don't think she was talking about me snowshoe..? I think she meant those 'fake' men posing as females...the 'pic hunters' wasting our time. I was however speaking about my 'bad experience' yes, being the raving lunatic I can be...after having my time and money wasted....'You can NEVER get back time".... And that sucks. My life and time are precious! Knowing all too well it was said with not one iota of seriousness, by the way! I was acting on emotion, moments after finding out we were blocked...three minutes after 'venting' I was fine :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Sorry tank - I wasn't implying that you're that sort of lunatic! I'm sure you're a perfectly nice kind of lunatic, as am I...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Baise_Moi'I don't have anyone on my friends list nor have any validations. Outside the context of drinks night I went to in June I haven't met that many people from here. It hardly makes "fake". Anyway, I thought there were tales of people who were given validations from people they haven't even met. Ho hum. Am very happy to tell people how very real you are - mwah!!!! Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    these are the type of females that try to come between you and your partner thank god you didnt meet her we met one like that and she knew it was just a fun thing instead she harassed and wrote nasty things about my man in chat room she told him to leave me and be with her and that she loved him she was a real stalker on these sites your going to find people like that best thing to do is block them and if they keep going report themremember you pay to ues this site single females DONT have to pay