is it only me?

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  lol....love the way you worded this... , Unfortunately there is the odd profile out there that is fake (be it male, female or couple) but the majority are real...my suggestion is if they sound like people you would like to meet - arrange to meet them socially first...if only he shows up with a lame excuse then keep on walking....or cam with them both....chat on the phone....in this way you are at least weeding out the potential duds and the fake profiles . Kisses Focus

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  But I'm with you on this one. I am going to have all the couples leaping up and down here but hey, it wont be the first time and I doubt the last....I PERSONALLY would have difficulty in sharing any permanent partner. This has nothing to do with security, nothing to do with jealousy. It is simply a matter of what is mine, is mine and I DO NOT LIKE TO SHARE MY (B)TOYS. Now if I saw a profile saying 'she likes me to play alone'.....I would be suspicious yes. Playing alone mate means having a wank and that is just what he is doing if we beleive that. Unless she of course, is also playing alone. 'we are only looking for girls' Okay so the male of the couple wants fun but cannot see why his partner should have the same priviledge.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I love it when people make assumptions about other peoples relationships or motives. Maybe the female partner doesn't want to have sex with another man but is happy to be with another woman. Quoting 'fionabee' 'we are only looking for girls' Okay so the male of the couple wants fun but cannot see why his partner should have the same priviledge.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  When we joined RHP - we were after a female only, to either play with me whilst the (MR) watched or join us for a FMF encounter. I do the majority of the typing on here, and I was the one who joined us up to RHP. Not all profiles are fake or run by crazy horny males - we have ours verified and validated... However, I gather you are not alone - since finding a female to play with us proved to be near impossible. (MRS)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  As a couple I (Mrs) really share your frustration as we get also get apparant 'couples' that are clearly a single male hoping to fool couples....honestly he would get booted out if just a male turned up to a 'couple' meet, so I don't get the point.... And I agree with Fionabee, I would NEVER let my man just go off on his own.....but I actually do know couples that do play seperately. For us its not our thing. However I totally disagree about the couple that just wants a female, as that is often us! Sometimes I just like to have another girl join in and we are both there for my man (and if she is bi, all the better)- I don't always want just another couple, sometimes it is more intimate with just 3. So many find out a little more about those couples before dismissing them. We visit Perth often as my family live there.....

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  doh no spell check!

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  RogueGeek

  15 years ago

  and fake single womens profiles... and single mens profiles...We are a couple, we play seperately and together. I guess it depends on what the people involved want to get out of the experience. We would love to find a single girl to join in, either 1on1 or with both of us, but it is incredible difficult. The profiles that seem to be real have exacting standards and we just don't cut it. After all, we are only human...Cheers,MS(the female half)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I don't want hubby to have sex with another girl and I certainly don't want any other guy, we just want a girl to play with both of us.....we are real and there must be others like us. That's what this is all about.....choice. Xx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  We'd love for a single female to join us but apart from a few encounters with friends it rarely happens. We have not been able to find one online so far. Having said that we are very open to sexy couples and select single males. But I think if you had to rate them in order most couples would go: 1 - FMF 2 - MFMF 3 - MMF Would that be a fair assumption? From my point of view (male) I have no issue with seeing my wife with either sex, as long as she is having fun.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  we play, infrequently though it might be, lol, but never with someone elses partner.....for us thats taboo, regardless of what they may say or think about it....

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  We have been contacted by a few fake couples but they are so easy to pick out and are added to the block list. We have noticed that most people are looking for a woman and couple but we decided to save ourselves the aggravation and just put down that we are looking for couples only. Let's real swingers know that we are serious. Luckily we have had nothing but amazing times thanks to rhp :)

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